Good conversation starters on a date!

[tisha23]

@kelsey

To some extent I don’t agree. Even when you are shy it’s different from starting a conversation with some girl than a really cute guy who you liked who finally asked you out.

I think it would probably be different for all the shy guys too but am not a shy guy so am just speculating.

You are right it would be nice to let things flow and take it as it comes but sometimes persons plan things out in their hands kinda like to make sure they don’t say anything stupid or to remove the edge of how nervous they know they will be they plan certain things they are gonna say.

Personally I can’t remember getting nervous on dates but there were those times when the guys were starting to bore me I really wish I though of some of these topics to stare the date in a different direction.

Dont get me wrong I am not saying not to think up things to talk about before the date or encounter I just feel to build actual rapport with someone those subjects will have to fit the person your talking with and will be different in every situation.

One thing for nervous people to really reprogram in there thinking is that a person of interest is different then anyone else you talk to on a daily basis. When you separate them from your everyday people that fear that they are somehow different and will think your stupid is what brings on nervousness. This is not to say I dont get nervous. Sure I am just like everyone else but I have learned to talk my self out of the fear and just do it.

I posted some coaching lessons for some members somewhere here in the forum with a step by step guide on how to start a convo with anyone and lead it anywhere. The same concept applies to dates really. On dates you can go more in depth though.

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So hopefully you observed the person your about to go on a date with or strike up a convo with for a few minutes. Even on blind dates you can pump the person who set you up for some info. Then take note of a few of those things. Learn to pick up on keywords they use that can give you more subject matter to talk about.

Tisha