Help for me. Please? Yes?

I’ve calmed down enough to actually think logically now.

I’m going on a date. A real one-on-one, get to know you date.

A date.

I need a mix. Something very light. Slightly flirty, but not serious. I’m going on a date.

3 Instant Shine
3 Openness
2 Instant Sexiness B
17 TAH

Too much?

But seriously, I’m a little worried about Instant Honesty. Date. I don’t want things to be serious. A date. I need it to be as casual as possible. Would anybody still recommend it?

I’m going on a date.

… Did I mention that?

P.S. If anyone wouldn’t mind doing one of those Cyrano de Bergerac schemes where you hide in the bushes and tell me what to say, I’m willing to pay for your services. Improvisational poetry not required.

I’m going to suggest something crazy:

Try going phero-free.

I think it will help read his true ioi’s and keep your head straight.

Just a thought…

Calmed down even more, now. :slight_smile:

Equation: you have a very good point and this is something I have been considering as well.

At the same time, I’ve been phero-free for quite a while, and want to wear them.

Yes, I know it can be a lot of fun. If he asked you out already, you know he’s interested. If I were you, I might suggest a couple sprays of shine.

Where are you going, if I may ask?

Dinner and a show. A few people I know will be around both places apparently, so it’ll take the edge off.

Ah, sounds wonderful :slight_smile:. I’m glad.

If you’re going to get into sexier stuff, just make sure you let him know that your his date for the evening.

If you’re worried about awkwardness and discussion not going smoothly, perhaps openness would do some good too… although, I prefer a beer :wink:.

wear your pheromones and forget about it…just enjoy your dinner and show…sit back and observe..:slight_smile:

Saraunne,

Yeah Dinner and a show. Its your first date with this guy so I wouldnt over do it with the mones’

My suggestion would be ..

Go with 2 sprays Instant sexiness B
2 Sprays Shine and 2 of IO Leave the TAH out for now.

You mentioned you havnt been wearing your mones this is why I suggest just 2 sprays. You dont want to overwhelm just enhance. You can overwhelm him once you get to know each other better.

Good Luck and have a great time

Tisha

wow i cant wait to hear how this turned out.

my thought would have been to do 3 sprays instant sexiness B
and…1 spray of IH.

looking forward.:slight_smile:

did you say 17 sprays of TAH? :open_mouth:

I say definitely go with the honesty. especially if you’re worried you won’t know what to say. enough betanol, and that won’t be a problem. what you want to say will come naturally to you.

hahaha I know…my eyes went :open_mouth: when i read that too

sounds like a nice evening. i am in agreement with the others. if you choose to wear pheromones, i’d go with 2-3 IS/B and some shine. You could always take the Shine to go and use later on if you find the date progressing into the evening. On second thought, maybe take the Honesty to go for the same purpose.

Thank you guys so much! I still haven’t figured out what I’m going to wear (haha, clothes or 'mones), but I have a few more hours.

You will definitely hear how it goes!

Have a GREAT time Saraunne…whether you use the pheromones or not! Can’t wait to hear the details!

So I went phero-free. We met while I was wearing pheromones so I wanted to see if it would be any different without them. A part of me was expecting him to be acting completely different, but he saw me, said, “You look beautiful, I love it,” and gave me a hug. Yay, a very good start.

It was a lovely night. I had a lot of fun, talking wasn’t a problem, I felt pretty comfortable, I didn’t let silences bother me. And he’s a talker, so there were hardly any. :slight_smile: Very gentlemanly, joked a lot, over all nice guy, and it sounds like there will be a repeat. It was very casual, and so late in the school year it can be nothing but, anyway. But still, I think I’ll have fun with this guy if we’re able to go out again.

I’m happy I went without pheromones. It gave him a chance to see me au natural and make a decision based on that. Ha ha.

It might be time to spray on my imp horns later, though. :slight_smile: I very well may have a target guy.

And that is my story. Boring, but pleasant.

GIRL, you’ve got some AMAZING self-control.

Quick, everybody, by a show of hands, how many of us would have been able to do that knowing that we have like 10,000 bottles stashed in every purse pocket? Espessially after a drink.. oh boy.

My hands would be itching for some sprayin!

I am glad you did that though, and now you know where you stand!

HM

Sounds like you had a great time, Saraunne. Congratulations. Sounds like he’s a nice guy.

Ooops. Not supposed to say ‘nice’ guy.

Sounds like he’s a great guy. :slight_smile:

Congrats, saraunne; he sounds adorable!

Gentlemanly, funny, and a talker? Wow. Sounds like a catch…hope he’s sharp enough to realize how much you are. :wink:

Actually, it’s refreshing to know that gentlemanly behaviour is still appreciated!

Oh, you have no idea how much. :slight_smile:

Lots of younger women have never experienced “gentlemanly behavior” and are bowed over when it happens. I was very surprised at how appreciate they were a few years back when I started dating again (older women expect it and are not nearly as impressed). It’s a rare 20-something guy that actually practices basic manners let alone “gentlemanly behavior.” It may be one of the reasons many women often date older guys and keep coming back. We do it automatically as our mothers trained us well! I assume the next few generations missed out as their mothers were too busy joggling career, family, etc.

Oddly I had to endure etiquette classes in grade school and my mother–a stay-at-home-mom–drilled me on it daily. If caught doing anything ungentlemanly I immediately felt the full weight of her rage.