Hey guys! It has been a while!
I’m in graduate school now (when I joined this site, I was in high school, wow, has time flown by).
In one of my classes, there is this Puerto Rican girl. She’s not in my program, but she’s taking one class in my school.
The day we met, the professor asked us to all introduce each other. I butchered her name, but she approached me with her long hair to the side, neck showing towards me. I was infatuated pretty quickly.
Few classes later, I catch her on the elevator, we re-introduce each other.
Next class, she was laughing at everything I said (she still laughs at what I say a lot). At one point, we had INTENSE eye contact (staring each other in the eyes for a good 5 seconds, she smiled).
We ended up walking together at the end of class, but I went my separate way.
Fast forward to now (about 3 weeks later). We work together in a research group, so I have her phone number. Whenever I text her, I get a response (usually a paragraph), but the IOIs are dying down. She could easily make opportunities to be around me, but doesn’t (may be because she doesn’t want to come off as needy?)
I was talking to a friend in class a little about myself (how I’m a middle son), and the friend said, “it explains a lot,” which I responded, “how I’m so dark and depressed?” and PR girl interjected (asking friend, NOT me), “isn’t the older child the dark and depressed one?”
She seems to do that quite a bit – interjecting herself into my conversations, but it turns out that we have a LOT of people in that class that need to share their two cents, so I rarely get a word in with her.
I’ve been playing around with Androstenone (from the “other” pheromone website) and IShine. 2x NONE + 2 IS right on the neck.
The nature of graduate school is we have 0 free time, and the nature of that class is that it is VERY professional. I don’t really get in a word with her very often (i.e. don’t get to really build a rapport).
A part of me thinks that I’m displaying myself as unattainable. It’s either that or she is being VERY subtle and I suck with subtleties.
Thoughts? Any mixes I should introduce? Also, anything to open MY self up kind of letting her know, “hey, I’m attainable, you can keep trying with me because one of these days, it just might work?”
I know that PR is between 24 and 27 years old.