Hello everyone, my name is Bruno, I’m 23 years old and I’m from Portugal. I heard about pheromones about 2 weeks ago while browsing Google for something related to pheromones. I’m still new to the pheromones world and I want to find out how good are they.
I have various reasons to try out some pheromone products;
#1 out of curiosity. I want to find out by myself if they work or not.
#2 want to find out if it’s possible to deepen my relationship with someone I was involved with before.
#3 appearing to be very outgoing, social, confident, someone with whom ppl would like to be close to, especially women.
#4 sexual desires in all women I date or stay with.
#5 to give/have a dominant and bad boy idea/aura.
About #2: This situation is rather complicated for me as I do like her and I get the feeling that her words don’t really reveal what she feels on the inside, I guess she wants to avoid a more serious relationship.
She is 18 years old at the moment. She had a boyfriend when I first met her (at the university) but as we start knowing each other and as days passed by she left her ex to start something with me. Thing is her relationship with her ex lasted 2.5 years and she became somewhat sceptical when it came to relationships because she had high hopes and plans with him.
From the beginning that she asked me for an open relationship but as time went by we start getting closer and closer but she never us to be acknowledged as boyfriends, even though we treated each other as such. I ended up getting a little too much involved, I admit, as I had never felt like this before with someone
What makes me wonder is during these 10 months sometimes she would to say things like “you’ll leave me someday” - “I’m not good enough for you - you deserve better.” - “go on with your life, I bet you have a lot of women after you” which is weird for me because I knew we liked each other a lot, no matter what and. And eventually in the end she was the one who ended up giving the first step for us to brake up saying “I need time and space”.
Anyways to sum it all up, eventually, if this happened to me in “normal” circumstances I would just turn the page and move on to the next chapter but in this case it’s not as easy as I see her every day, she is in my class, part of my group of friends; you know how it goes… And it’s not easy at all to just let it go because the feeling is still there because I had never felt like this before…
Not only that but because we had sexual relations after breaking up because I noticed there was a reciprocal lust between us two and she still says she likes me, a lot. This makes me a bit confused.
The truth is if its hard to expect something else outta this I just want us to get along as we used to, have a laugh, talk about anything, even flirting with each other because she’s been “hiding in her shell” lately, probably because this is still too recent for her and it’s not as easy to talk with her as it used to be.
And I want to find out how can pheromones help me there and in the other 4 topics as well.
I didn’t want this to look like as if I’m at doctor’s or something (Sorry about that)…lol ![]()
I feel emotionally stable at the moment but I’m still a but confused about this and thought it would be useful to share my ideas on why I decided to give pheromones a try and which ones should or could I try.
Best regards,
Bruno.