Hi there Walrus.
Welcome on board.
You have written a great introductory post. I guess honesty is the way to go too. If you want real advice, you have to talk about your real situation.
It looks like you are going out of a very long relationship that was not that good in the long run, so although you need to get used to the new situation, eventually things can only get better.
If you have always done good with women, there´s no reason why things should change. With mones, used in the right ampunt and at the right time, they should becom even better. It´s normal that your social skills are alittle rusty at first, but if you put some work on that, although it may be hard first, if you are consistent, you will get what you want. Mones are not going to do all the work for you, but they will help.
If you have not already done it, I would sugegst you to read the following threads.They contain some good basic information to get you started.
Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies
An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of
Speaking about products, for a guy your age, A314 seems the right choice. It will boost your status and make you feel more confident. If you are not sure, go for a to go bottle and do some testing.
AMMO works great for creating attraction. Maybe you should go for the 2x strength version, as you can get more pheromones with less cologne strength.
IO seems to be the right choice for breaking the ice.
I would also get some IS, for the relaxing effect it has in the wearerand those around him.
Get one to-go botle of each and do some testing. Everyone is different, and some products that work good for some people seem to don´t have much effect for other guys, so you need to test each product on you.
You should start testing the products by itself first, and increasing the amount of sprays you use each time till you find what quantity works best for you. It´s all explained in this post: How to find your sweet spot...
Hope this helps.
Good luck.
Talk to you soon. (Pheromone F A Qs)