Hi everyone,
My name is Helen, I’m rather new to this site as well as forum. My friend was talking to me about pheremones a year ago, I’m not exactly sure what it meant at the time and I’m still not sure if I do. In my opinion, I think it means to attract the opposite sex using some type of special formula. I call it a love potion. Anyways, I wasn’t thinking of attracting any new guy in my life. I was just hoping to find something to have a better working environment at work. For some reason I ain’t talking to half the people that I work with. They just stop talking to me for some unknown reason. I was wondering if anyone can recommend something whereby I may have a better relationship as well as communication with them. Majority of them are guys, don’t know that if that little info might help to narrow specific perfumes or so. Thank u so much for any little help oradviceu can give. Good luck to everyone and thanks once more.
For communication issues, Instant Openness (which increases the quantity of conversion and is an "ice breaker) and Instant Honesty (which adds depth and intimacy to conversations, thus increasing the quality) work very well and should help in your work situation.
Please tell us more about your personality and how you relate to others. What kinds of effects do you hope to see with pheros?
I’m glad you’re willing to give pheros a chance to help you at work. There is so much that they can do besides attract the opposite sex.
SillyKitty made good suggestions. I would also suggest that you try MX300 when you get a chance. It is currently out of stock, but hopefully it will be back soon. It is an alpha/respect phero designed for women, and should help you get some control back when it comes to conversations. It can be very frustrating to be dropped like that.
Another good one is Instant Shine. It is a feel-good phero that brightens the mood and elevates the level of fun in any situation. It can help others feel more cheerful, and glad to be around you.
Best of luck. Looking forward to hearing how it turned out.
Can you tell us more about the work situation. What area do you work in? Being mostly guys… just a thought… Is it possible that the guys find you intimidating? As in attractive (would they consider you a 9/10 or even a ten)? I say that because it’s easy to talk to woman at work when they first arrive even if they are gorgeous. But if you blow them off with small talk after that they may think she is just like all the other hot woman I have talked to and the “cant be bothered” attitude comes into play. It may not be you at all this is a work environment so you have to keep it professional. This could help in making some selections if you had more info. For the moment, I’d recommend the socials IH, IO, IS.
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Thanks for your recommendations and taking interest in my questions. Like many others, I’m so grateful that you guys are so helpful at this forum.
A little bit about myself, I would consider myself an easy going person. Though I can be very sensitive at times and get a bit annoyed when people say rude stuff and try to be funny about it. I guess I’m a bit serious at times, I don’t really like when people crack really nasty jokes about me. I get that so much in the restaurant, not because I’m drop dead gorgeous or hot, its just that people that work in the restaurant don’t have anything else to talk about except disgusting stuff. I work 6 days a week 11 hours a day. I see these creeps more than I see my family, that is part of the reason I don’t speak to majority of them. So that’s my story in a nutshell.
Try and get a new job where you get on with the people you work with. mones are not going to fix things if you think they are creeps… that’s not going to change, so they wont either.
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Just a quick thank you for the recommendations, I shall definitely try the ones that you recommended as well as sillykitty’s. I just hope I can see some positive changes. The problem is that all my coworker are Asian’s. I am also Asian myself. I just hope they take to the scent, because Asian people don’t really like any type of perfume. I really hope I can get some positive feedback when I use them, so excited to give it a try and finally change things.
You gave me absolutely no hope when you said that. Not even Instant Openness would or 314 would work? You got to give me a lil hope. I’ll still try it though, perhaps it might make things a lil better I hope.
Unfortunately, this job at this point definitely make ends meet. Its kinda difficult to find another job as good as this one. My only problem is the people I work with nothing else matters. Me working 66 hrs has become second nature, doesn’t affect me only those people man…
Sorry, I didn’t want to give you no hope. It all depends on what is happening in your work environment. It sounds like the people you work with are just rude to you. If you use IO it might even make things worse as they will just say what ever is on there mind and if is something rude its likely to come out.
Go for the respect mones as apposed to the social ones now that i have an idea of what might be going on.
I have Asian friends here in NZ and have been to china and HK and from what i have seen you as a woman have to fight for the respect that you deserve a lot of the time. stand up for yourself and add a couple of mones, the girls here will help you with the ones that might work for you as i have no idea in that area sorry.
Poor Helen, I do know what its like to work with idiots. Of course you must not leave your job, doing so would even be worse than staying and taking it. What helped me was phero products that desensitize and increase confidence.
For that, I recommend Instant Sexiness A (gives you a strong sexy aura), MX300 (confidence, respect and desensitization) and A314 (same as MX300, but for men, and not all women can wear it, plus it doesn’t come in to-go sizes, I recommend trying MX300 first). MX274 will give you a cheerful sparkle, which can help desensitize you and also put you in a better mood.
I couldn’t thank you enough for the different recommendations you have offered. I did decide to go with Instant Sexiness and Instant Shine. I purchased it last sat, im not sure how much longer it might take. I’m so excited and a bit skeptical but I’ve heard so many great reports. It makes me willing and open to trying any new things. Once again thanks for those great recommendations and advice. As soon as I receive the products, I’ll try it and give you a heads up on how it turned out. Thanks a million…
That’s ok Alfa1, I’m glad you were being very straight forward. I guess even if it doesn’t work I’ll continue to keep a positive outlook on things regardless of the situation. It’s quite a challenge at times, but if I keep my head up high I won’t let anything get in my way. Thanks alot for your concern and advice. I really appreciate it. These people here at the forum are extremely nice including you of course. I’m surprised at how friendly and helpful all of you are. I couldn’t thank you enough. I’ll definitely give you a report on how it all turned out.
My products arrived this morning. I was so excited to wear it. I wore the Instant Sexiness, it wasn’t A or B. Anways, I sprayed one big one on my wrist and rubbed my wrists together around 5 in the afternoon, and waited for hours to see some changes. Unfortunately, I didn’t see any change at all. I work in a restaurant and I guess all the different types of aroma might have affected my perfume or something. I was very nice, and pleasant smiled with everyone but to no avail. It felt like any regular day. No one paid special attention or complimented me or anything. It felt as though I wasn’t even wearing anything man. The coworkers still didn’t talk to me or anything.
Almost three hours later, someone that I have a crush on was about to come in when I immediately sprayed the come talk to me. He came and just said, that was about it. I have know idea what happened today. I guess its because I’m Asian, it just didn’t do any justice today. I felt very sad because I was expecting a little pazzazz or something a little different. It felt like a very ordinary. I wonder what went wrong??? Should I spray alot more, what if I do and it gives me a different effect poor me…
Oh well I guess it doesn’t work for everyone…
Up the amount of sprays you use from one to two and see what happens. If that doesn’t do anything try another. Once you get the dose right you should be able to see some changes. They maybe very small changes and you may not even notice until you have been wearing these for a few weeks. When you look back you may notice then that someone is not being as mean to you as they had been.
let us know how you are going and everyone here is happy to help out if we can.
You’re getting discourage way too fast. This can take some time, to discover your sweet spot and to learn what you’re watching for as to hits.
Just keep at it, you’ll notice a difference before long. Try two sprays tomorrow of IS/a. If your bottle only says ‘Instant Sexiness’, that is version A. IS/b says ‘B’ on the label.
Just go about your business normally. Don’t worry about whether you’re doing it ‘right’, or if you’re not using enough. If you don’t see results, next day try three sprays. Try to give it a week or so before you start worrying.
People may not react to you right off the bat, if you’re around people who already know you. They are already familiar with the pheromone signature that you’re giving off naturally. Any sudden changes will cause them to stop and think, but not necessarily to react. That comes after a little time has passed.
My husband took over a month to start reacting to pheros, the changes made him nervous, suspicous and jealous. So give it a little time.
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The coworkers still didn’t talk to me or anything.