Hey. Just introducing myself. I’m a male living in Wyoming (soon to be Phoenix, AZ within the month) I’m 20 and have been labeled by my male friends as “Mr. Friendzone” due to my tendency to be understanding, patient and a stupidly loyal friend, and then get the “I think of you like a brother” speech and be turned down. Thus I’ve taken an interest in pheremones, I’m tired of growing an interest in a person, getting to know them, having them list the things that are most important in a guy and matching their specifications perfectly and then having them charging after the next guy, and then catching them when the relationship falls to pieces only to again be told “I’m sure there is somebody for you”.
So, I’m hoping to give some pheromones a try. I heard good things about A314, but I’m open to suggestions honestly. Just tired of being caught in the friendzone, and if it costs me a little bit of scratch, smashing. I’m a science geek so HOW they work isn’t anything new to me. And I’ve known of them for a long time. I’ve just never wanted to have to use a crutch. But I’m at the point now where I figure I would rather joke with a wife about how the first date was because of a little bottle of smell good in retrospect, than kick myself in the butt again when yet another good female friend runs off after the newest mark.
Which leads me to: confidence is a must, :)it’s very important. When you have confidence you look like a winner. Fine women love to be around confident men. Everybody likes winners. When you have confidence it shows up not only in your words; also in body language. There’s material on the market by the title: SUPERFLIRT. Master the flirt game, and you will raise to another level. Also don’t be afraid to take risks. I think you know what I mean. :)Be confident.
Remember it’s not about what you say it’s about how you say it.
Yea. I’m a geek all around, including the psychology aspect. Confidence I can do, wit comes naturally. Flirting? Well, that’s not my strong point but is worlds better than it was in high school. Body language I need to get to become more natural, but there its more of a matter of practice than learning. I believe my problem comes more in being too open. The same attributes that make me the guy people would trust their lives with in a heartbeat tend to work a bit against me in the romance department.
Thanks for the advice on colognes. I’ll have to make sure I check info on those as well.
Ammunition would be a good start for you; add in Instant Openness (2x concentration) and maybe Instant Gentleman to add high value vibe to the mix. Welcome and good luck.
I love that forum name. I love the suggestions already given. The first thing you need to remember is that pheromones are not magic and that is why the men and women section is here so that the more experienced pheromone users and relationship experts can help the less experienced ones.
Women like a man who is nice but we don’t get turned on by a pushover and so end up putting him in the friend’s zone. Romantic love is a game you got to learn how to play.
A314 is a great product to get you respect but you might be less approachable with it so you can use it with instant shine or order instant gentleman that will give the same effect. You will seem like that cool suave guy. In wearing these products you can’t be shy or they won’t work for you.
I believe these products are going to help you considerably but the skills is what you need and I hope you are asking questions in the men’s section and reading the stickies.
