Happy new year: my resolution is to quit pheromones

as a new year’s resolution, i will not use pheromones again!

Why not?

Personally, I think wearing pheromones on a daily basis should not be done because it defeats what we are trying to do here which is improve life on a whole.

Gradually, you move away from being so dependent on it and use it moderately to get desired results. You let go of wearing it so often and wearing certain products depending on how much you have progressed in that area and it’s all good.

However, if everyone decides to put pheromones away then the research stops there. This is not a done deal and will never be, there is always something new to learn and more importantly someone to teach and assist.

I respect your opinion but in terms of how I see pheromones, my job and this community it puts a big ? as to why you would make that a new years resolution.

LOL more for me :smiley:

The are three reasons I can see someone stopping

  1. Moral issues
  2. Did not notice hits
  3. Expensive

Which one is it?

Human nature. =) I did get hits. I can afford these products. It’s just that i felt I need to be contented with what was given to me, and i know whatever my phero signature is, I will and I will find somebody to who’ll accept me for who I am.

With that said I would expect you also to not drive a nice car, stop buying expensive clothing, no colognes, no outside influence whatsoever.:stuck_out_tongue:

Work with only what you have and while everyone else passes along on this highway of life, you will have scored a victory for yourself. It won’t be easy watching people in new designer clothing and nice cars pass along on the corporate and love roadways, but you can do it, if you really try. :wink:

Im already doing it. :slight_smile:

you should move to the Amish country then

you too. :smiley:

ehh…Ill pass, I like nice cars, and technology, and mones

oh yeh, and nice clothes :smiley:

Good reason. Good luck!

thanks. I was surprised to hear that from here :slight_smile:

That’s awesome then. Sometimes it takes a whole lot to sit back and stick by your natural abilities when so many around you are using artificial means to get by. It’s good to know you are resolved to make this happen for you.

Many people see everyone else around them climbing the corporate ladder, making more home runs, excelling at dating, meeting the love of their life, and want to have all that too (The Jones Effect) and its OK. There are a few who are willing to forgo all that and use what they have naturally to garner their success. It’s going to be a not so easy road for you when others around you are doing everything in their power to succeed, which is usually met with success while you meet many challenges head on. Don’t get discouraged because others around you are making the connections they need to succeed at getting ahead. In time, with the right perseverance you might get their too.

In the end you’ll know, that although you might not have brought anyone special into your life or gotten as high as others in the success arena, you’ll know it was all you. That’s a good position to stand from!

I wish you all the best and welcome you to still post and ask questions about life in general. If ever you should change your mind come on back and we will welcome you with open arms just like we do with everyone. This leads me into your next statement that has me bewildered :confused:.

Why were you surprised to hear that? Has anyone not been nice to you, or encouraged you? Pheromones are not for everyone, just like being socially aware is not a natural ability in most people. Some choose to embrace it, others don’t, so why such a cynical outlook? Especially since you are choosing such a path as to not use any outside influences to enhance your life. While a noble cause, certainly one would want to be more open and understanding and expect the best from people. Has me befuddled as it seems contradictory of who you are trying to be.

It’s just like someone learning how to ride a bike with the supports on as a kid. Eventually they fully learn how to gain confidence enough in order to remove the support wheels so they can ride the bike on their own means of support. I think maybe for this kid pheromones were his support, and has now learned how to support himself so if that is the case congrats.

I would do the same if I were you, but I’d rather have that extra edge no matter how well I can support my self. Not because I can’t live without pheromones, but because you never know just what extra things pheromones will add to your new confident self. I’d rather not take a chance, I mean why not, right?