Have you ever felt adventurous?

What’s it like when you feel adventurous?

I’m trying to piece together some patterns. So I need some honest feedback, especially from the females, especially, especially from Tisha. Did I mention Tisha? :smiley: I used to be very good, but then I got lazy so I’m trying to get back into speed seduction shape. I’m trying to get in the zone.

Don’t laugh but this is what I got so far.

What’s it like when you feel adventurous? Do you get a sense of excitement like you can do anything. It’s like you feel something very good is going to happen? Like a pirate searching for treasure and finding it. (self point) Isn’t it like you open your mind and you wonder of all the possibilities. It’s like you are wanting it to come alot sooner than later. The thrill of it all is all you can think about. Now with me, I think it’s something people should experience more. Life should be more of an adventure, don’t you think?

I give myself a C- so far. But that’s where I need your help.

Hey man - i typed a reply and it didn’t go through LOL… i’ll try my best to redo it.

In a sense… i believe adventurous is the “NEED” to explore and try new things. It’s the journey you take before you reach what your looking for. It’s like going on a hike but hoping to find a nice wall to climb. When you find that wall… you’re overwhelmed with excitement. That excitement, like a pirate finding treasure, isn’t “adventurous”… it’s pure excitement for what you’re “adventurousness” took you too LOL.

It’s certainly not in everyone… it’s a drive to explore new things… it’s like an overwhelming power that just compels you to do something. It actually may be the “cousin” of “curiosity” haha - you can be curious about something… and then your adventurous side takes over and compels you to doit.

Idunno… thats my .02 - I hope I helped! For the record… i’d have to give myself a C… i’ve done quite a lot and still have a lot more to accomplish.

~Haz~

Great line! And here’s a few reps just for coming up with it! :slight_smile:

good stuff. it takes pratice. that’s for sure. especially to dumb it down so they can understand it. i kid, i kid. women think differently and take in information differently, if you ask me. another guy might be like, what the fuck is that dude talking about, but a woman might be like, i exactly know what he is talking about and that’s what i want. (example feeling an incredible connection)

It’s wanting to explore and try new things. (point to yourself, better yet point at your zipper) Don’t you think, Debbie? That’s brilliant. I’m glad I didn’t think of it. :smiley:

Of course Ross has a pretty good Discovery Channel pattern, which is sort of what I’m trying to get at.

got this from google. just thought of using google, lol

Adventure is personal so tell us what it is for you. Is it:

  • Going somewhere for the first time
    Doing something you’ve never done before :smiley:
  • A big thrill - something exciting that gets the adrenalin flowing
  • A test of skill - something that challenges you and develops your skills
  • A state of mind - a way of thinking and shaping your experience
  • A way of life - a philosophy of living and way of being
    Or something else?

So now to build it into a pattern and so on.

the thing with speed seduction and nlp is to be vague and ambiguous. of course you don’t want them to be like, wtf planet do you come from? :smiley:

first i’m thinking of asking, “Are you an adventurous person?”

What’s it like when you are feeling adventurous? You know that feeling like you’re wanting to explore and try new things. To do something something you’ve never done before. :smiley: An experience that you would you would remember for a long time, and you might even do it over and over again (self point) like bungee jumping. Have you ever experienced that before?

Hazard had good points. As you mentioned there are lots of ways ‘adventurous’ is interpreted. For some, if you are ‘adventurous’, they mean that you’re willing to do things they aren’t. Usually because of laws prohibiting those actions, like drugs. Drugs are often deemed ‘adventurous’ by people who are interested in trying but wouldn’t due to it being illegal and socially unacceptable.

Sometimes laws aren’t the issue, but social acceptance is. Some people might say that you’re adventurous for walking out in public with only underwear on. Others might say that only if you go out walking in your underwear, tied up and leashed.

Or, adventurous can be trying new things as Hazard said. When you’re trying something new for the first time, you’re taking a risk. Maybe you won’t like it, but maybe you will. The essence is discovering the unknown. Which is the same as being an adventurous traveler. You get to see into an unknown area. Trying new foods? Same thing, who knows how it’ll taste?

Usually though, things won’t be considered ‘adventurous’ unless there’s some degree of risk to them. That’s kinda the common theme for me, perhaps that’s just how my adventurousness manifests. Depending on the person’s level of risk tolerance, they would consider different things to be adventurous. It’s part attitude and part brass balls. It’s the attitude that you can overcome challenges and dodge the risks to do/get what you want. It’s the balls that are required to actually go and do it.

As Hazard said, being adventurous is the process of overcoming your hesitations (whatever they may be) and just doing it. Adventurous could be seen as being spontaneous. Someone randomly gives you some food. It looks clean and safe, but nothing like what you normally eat. Would you eat it or throw it away? You find a path in the forest you haven’t noticed before. You don’t know where it’ll go. Do you go down the new path or the set path?

As for actually making it into a pattern, I have no experience doing this. I guess I’d try and learn what makes her excited. Traveling gets a lot of people excited, talk about traveling to exotic places, or more ‘risky’ places that families probably wouldn’t go. Talk about trying things you’ve always wanted to do, but haven’t. From there you could probably transition to talking about actually doing the things you’ve been wanting to do, but haven’t yet. Maybe, say you’ve always wanted to go skydiving and you’re finally going this weekend. Get the image of people overcoming their hesitations and going for it into her mind. Link that with her wanting to be with you, and despite having hesitations, going for it instead to finally be the ‘adventurous’ she’s always wanted to be. Tap into the need to ‘rebel’ or to realize her greatest ambitions, depending on the woman. You could also link adventurous women with being special. She’ll want to be special, so she’ll be adventurous. I dunno, something like that I guess.

Thanks for the reps :slight_smile: - back at yah

~Haz~

Oh God… I shouldn’t even be posting in this thread. “Adventurous” has a… well, when I was married, whenever I’d say “Sweetie, ya feeling adventurous?” it meant… no, I can’t… I think I’ll hit Preview Post and think it over.

Crap. That wasn’t “Preview Post”, was it?

“Adventurous” in this context meant “anal”

-D4

LOL i have a good line…

“Hey tootse… yah feeling adventurous? Lets go…” LMAO!

~Haz~