I am a 28-30ish year old female from Mississippi. I have been away a while. I have ordered a few basics pheromones but dont think i used them properly. I have used instant sexiness A and B, come and talk to me. I received instant shine. I consider my self a shy, self conscious and modest. I do feel I am a sexy female I feel my self confidence need a jolt. I havent had much luck with the guys and need 2 get things moving. I am interested in pheremones that are for men and women. I think it may increase my chances of success. I have began to change some things in my life, new gym membership and n I want to get more serious about pheremones. I was thinking about getting some advice from females more like me. “The shy side” about what pheromones that worked for them and how they used even though I know all females are different. I know i have to be more outgoing but I really need the help. I really like the dominate male but havent had much luck. Maybe you guys can help me a bit!
I am a independent female, not really by choice and a have a decent, recession proof job. This may not matter at all just thought I would throw this info in.
Hi Readynow. This is a great introduction. Do you still have the pheromones that you purchased or have they been used?
I think that you provided some good insight into what you want pheromones for, dominant male, and insight to who you are, shy submissive female. This is a great start. Joining a gym is a great start to make changes in yourself as well. It will help you build confidence along with increasing health and attractiveness.
As far as pheromones go it sounds like you should use instant sexiness B to attract the kind of guy you want and because congruency shouldn’t be an issue. Congruence and the Consumer Line I recommend that you go through some sweet spot testing to establish how many sprays you may need. How to find your sweet spot...
You may also want to try CTTM2 to help break the ice and attract people to engage with you and Instant Shine. IS provides a confidence boost and helps you stand out. It also enhances the mood of those around you.
First let me ask you how did you use them before ? We cant figure out what if anything you did wrong if we dont know what you did.
Why are you interested in pheromones for men ? What kind of vibe are you wanting to get from the males mixes ?
I would suggest since your shy and your looking to be more outgoing you go with IO first. This has more draw then CTTM in my opinion. You may want to up the dosage of it as well to 2X.
IS/a will probably suit you more then B. While some people report increased confidence with this one and pheromones in general they cant overcome introversion. They are helpful tools though.
You have to make a effort along with the pheromones. Depending on how shy you are give yourself one task you have to do a day to help yourself work past that shyness.
That can be smiling and making eye contact with a cute guy.
Saying Hello in passing to complete strangers.
You dont have to start a conversation just yet take baby steps till they feel comfortable.
Then move on to bigger tasks like striking up a conversation with the staff at the gym
Talking with other members at the gym.
Talking to people in line at the store.
When you break it down in small steps its much easier and you feel less anxious.
Always push yourself out of your comfort zone just a tiny bit till it becomes comfortable and before you know it you will be a social dynamo.
I like the idea of the gym just as long as you are doing it to improve you and not necessarily for guys to be attracted to you.
Of course, most of the things that we ladies do to make ourselves attractive physically is for the opposite sex but there is a trick to it.
When you are chasing guys they are running away and when you your mind is off them you find that sometimes 3-4 are pounding down your door at the same time.
Use your pheromones as a new hobby to get your mind of these dudes and just have fun. Pay attention to what your surroundings is telling you and listen.
Hope to see you post your findings on a regular basis and ask loads of questions. We are all here to help.
