Hello! 19 from London, UK

socialnexus · March 13, 2011, 8:10am

Hey everyone, I’m 19, male from London in the UK and new to this world of pheromones (though i’ve been hearing about them for quite some time from the seduction community.)

I was the kid in high school that everyone saw as a joke. I was always trying to please everyone and girls hated me. After being shot down by a girl when I was 15, I went searching for information on how I could attract her. I discovered the world of pickup art and within a week, put into place what I learned and suddenly people gave me respect I had never experienced before. My popularity grew and so did my social circle. I still screwed up in social situations, but for different reasons. And when I did, I learned how to overcome and fix them. I was a completely different person. After having made a good amount of female friends, I moved away from learning “pickup art” as I no longer had to use pickup lines and routines as a crutch. If I could master my love life, what else could I master? I got into learning how to run a business and did. Pretty soon I become a self development junkie

Fast forward, i’m now at university. To give you a better idea of my personality so you can help me best:

I overcame my shyness so now i’m very talkative and outwardly confident.
HIGHLY social and love to party.
At the same time very focused when running my businesses (and I get a lot of respect for it)
I’m always making people laugh and leading the conversation.
I get on incredibly well with both women and men.
I am seen as “the good guy” - I am good to people, don’t get involved in gossip and bitching sessions.
Everyone that knows me feels they can trust me.
I’m skinny and tall so sometimes I feel I don’t command enough presence/respect (though i’ve compensated for this through a high sense of fashion/style and through getting ahead in my financial career).

So what’s my obstacle? Why am I here?

Well, I am all of these great qualities around people who know me. However, I still don’t have the influence and confidence I would like when meeting people for the first time. I rely on my social circle being built by other friends introducing me to their friends and so on. I would like to be able to talk to anyone I desire, whether on the street, at university or in the club. I want to be the big man on campus so to speak, the guy who’s organising the best parties for everyone. Whilst I get on great with girls, I become their friend as I am very likable but don’t portray enough sexuality. I still don’t have the confidence to walk up to a girl in a club and flirt with her - when I do, i’m usually trying too hard to entertain or be liked so I don’t trigger any attraction (or if I do, I don’t take notice of it and take the opportunity). I have a problem getting girls to see me in a sexual light.

I LOVE learning about new stuff. I am fascinated by female psychology and human behavior. I am passionate about health and business. When I learn something, I like to learn not just the “How”, but also the “What”. I like to learn all the little details that most people couldn’t care less for. I don’t just want to know how pheromones can help me, I want to learn what goes into them. I geek out on information and more importantly, put what I learn into action immediately.

For example, recently, I decided to handle my personal signature scent. By making that decision, I inevitably ended up learning everything I could about men’s fragrances. The different tones, the different types of cologne, what smells best during different seasons, weather and occasions. Whilst at first all I wanted was to buy a fragrance that would be perceived as attractive by women, I ended up researching the whole industry and buying 5 for different purposes.

I am now experiencing the same with wanting to learn about pheromones.

Now I realise that pheromones aren’t some magical pill that will fix all problems. I overcame the “magic pill” attitude back when I first embarked on my journey to better myself with women and as a person in general. Rather, pheromones communicate something about you, in the same way different colognes do. For example, wearing a heavier, gourmand cologne like Angel Men communicates dominance. YSL’s La Nuit de L’homme communicates mystery and sexiness. 1 million by Raco Rabanne communicates sexy and playful. So my understanding is that similarly, pheromones aren’t some magical liquid that will cause women to demand you to take your clothes off, but rather they communicate certain messages and traits about you if used correctly. Correct me if i’m horribly wrong.

I am interested equally, if not more in the self effects of pheromones as well as the effects on others. Whilst I only found this forum today after hearing about it on various seduction forums, i’ve been reading and researching all I can to decide where I should begin with pheromones.

From what i’ve read and understood, ideal starts for me would be:

Ammo - 2 sprays max as i’m 19 so should already have a high level of NONE according to the forums (don’t know what NONE is but know I probably have a lot of it because of my age )
Instant Shine - 2 sprays on the neck for greater self effects.
Instant Openness - 1 spray each wrist to affect others more - make them more talkative.

From what i’ve read, I should stay away from TUTH as a newbie.

I would like to convey some dominance, alpha and leadership qualities so I don’t know if I should consider something like A314 or Instant Gentleman. In other words, I want to command respect both in business and with friends and women. I don’t have so much of a problem being social and friendly (instant shine is more for my inner feelings of confidence and ‘feel good’).

Would something like Instant Jerk be beneficial to me?

I will be eternally grateful for any advice you can give me as I want to get started on testing things out as soon as possible. As I learn about this new world, I will teach others about it as my favourite thing in the world is to tell other people what I’ve discovered about any subject because that’s when you truly learn.

I am on a path of constant evolution. I’ve overcome many obstacles and continue to overcome them. Whilst pheromones aren’t going to solve everything, I want to learn and experience the skills and benefits they can provide as I continue to grow myself and inspire others to do the same.

SocialNexus

CBusinesstime · March 13, 2011, 9:24am

I might add that I was truly drawn into your introduction. It was awesome by the way!

It seems that you have really got to know the basics of the bearing of these pheromones. And yes, you are very correct! Congruence in personality (in accordance to pheromone effects) really is the major factor for the experience. This is emphasized greatly throughout the forum, and I’m sure you’ve read about it many times.

You also had very good selections! I already think you’re right on the money and you don’t really need others to tell you what to get. I’d say trust your gut - I see you have quite some knowledge and insight to these products. That’s valuable in itself.

In response to your question, I had experienced IJ first hand, and this can get a bit crazy. In social settings such as going out to events, clubbing, etc. would be the most appropriate times for IJ, but I actually tried it in my University..Not the smartest idea . I found that 2 sprays of IJ was a bit too much for me as I’ve got some strange reactions from others. There was point where a guy seemed quite intimidated and defensive when I just shook his had (it was an awkward situation already, but never in my life had I encountered such an experience). Don’t get me wrong, IJ does create MUCH attraction in lower doses (1 shot for me!).

I’m 19 as well btw, so it’s good to hear a fellow peer shares the same interest. While less offensive, and absent of -none, IG worked better for me, especially in addition with IS. I’ve got the most hits with that combo than anything else so far. IS is also great for the self effects. Whenever I applied it to myself, my mood elevated, and gained somewhat of a confidence. I mainly use it for the self-effects anyways. Also, I’m still looking into A314 in spray version, but I hope to advance to the oil soon. I’m assuming that it would increase respect, and trust among the people who you are affecting as well. This may also translate into attraction as well. Some girls like that respectable, and reliable figure. I believe it will especially help you to push for further success in business and workplace.

Ammo is great too. Although I’ve only tried it awhile back. I am somewhat familiar with the effects. I lost my bottle back in 2009, but my friend recently tested it. It worked wonders as I witnessed the attraction with girls turning their heads to watch him walk by. I have still yet to try the new versions myself though.

You say you want to gain more attraction from the ladies, and more-than-just-a-friend status. I believe these pheromones will help you do that. You may already be well able to do this without the help, but they will definitely be a great addition. You’ve got the attitude, and you’re already socially capable. I think it’s just your confidence that affects your “game”.

Anyways, I believe your feedback here will be a great value for the pherotalk community, so I hope you see it through. I really respect your motives, and I look forward in reading your experiences! Good luck my friend!

CBusinesstime · March 13, 2011, 9:40am