Yes I’ve been away for a bit but am back.
I bought Turn Up The Heat and got Instant Openness as a freebie.
As far as I am concerned, both products seem to do what they are meant to. The first time I used IO was actually very very interesting and conversation blossomed that had never before and took quite interesting twists and turns - but always interesting and open.
When I first came to this website I did so because I was looking for the postings that say “This does not work at all” before I placed my order. Well, I did not find anything like that and I know now why.
BUT
I found that Turn up the Heat had quite an interesting effect on some guys I would meet and interact with. Now, don’t get me wrong, I get along with guys. But I am not a guy guy. I find football, pubs and etc so boring. In fact, I only recently discovered Top Gear via my young son and before he took an interest I could not have been bothered. Now its understeer this and oversteer that to everything we both see on the road! I digress. What I am saying is that I am not a mans man. I have a way of being liked by most of the guys I meet, as I am easy going and I have always had a kind of unabrassive way of dealing with guys (especially pseudo authority figures) which tends to get me my way more often than not. I don’t want to go into details, but its something along the lines of Jedi Mind Trick stuff and is just little techniques I have developed over the years to handle people.
AND
Since I started using Turn up the Heat (and way too much of it I might add) I find that now and again I am encountering guys that just aren’t taking to me at all.
One example is when my son and I went to the local railway station and I asked the security guard to let us into a restricted area so my son could see the trains in more detail. He gladly let us through. 2 weeks later we did the exact same thing and the guard (same guy) acted like we had asked him to let us derail one of the trains. That day I was wearing a t shirt that had been saturated in TUTH.
There have been a few similar events like this and I think I read here that TUTH can have that effect. Its certainly something I really don’t care for, as it kind of knocks my difficult-guy-management techniques for six. But TUTH makes up for it when te heat needs turning up and (I dont want to go into details) I find that physical intimacy can be really quite wild when using this stuff. For both parties.
Anyway, all comments welcome! Best wishes
R