I’m 53, male, divorced 5 years ago. I’ve had a rough few years since then.
Now I’m ready to start again, I’m in a new country, learning the language, meeting new people. I’m in much better shape than the average 50yr old. Believe it or not I am now a student again, unfortunately the women I meet are are all 20 plus years younger than me, so it’s back to the pubs and bars in an effort to meet someone.
My objective is to meet the next Miss Right, but to have some fun on the way.
I’m not sure if I believe in the effects of spray on pheromones, I’ve never used them before, but I used to be a scientist and I will see what happens to me when I use them.
I have A314, IS, Turn Up The Heat, Instant Female Magic, and I’m waiting for Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty to arrive.
I already have tried out A314 with IS and also the combination of A314, IS and Turn Up The Heat. On each occasion the results were interesting enough for me to order Instant Openness and Instant Honesty.
I will post a more detailed report in about a months time.
I’ve had good results myself with Andriotics products. Instant Honesty is fun in its effects, and A314 is useful at work too..
Just used it (A314) for a presentation, it went really well, better than the others in fact
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What country did you migrate to?
Aaand… Classroom settings are basically the PERFECT testing ground. Closed quarters, a variety of test subjects? Can’t wait to hear your upcoming stories!
I tend to prefer younger women too (10 yrs younger). Well the older ones I meet seem to have more emotional hangups/baggage. I’m trying to find someone who’s emotionally mature, mind you, old or young…
id agree in that entirety markl, but the only ones that ask me out are younger, and no advantages so far. i just have too much bartending experience watching the game unfold over and over and over to believe i can get away with a younger guy making me happy. but who knows. there are always exceptions.
As for myself I’ve matured a lot in the past couple of years. I took a bit more time to grow up, becoming more the person I was meant to be.
I know there are always exceptions but so far.. I mean even the last girl I had a date with (used pheromones too) had lots of baggage, she was almost my age. I asked a younger girl out now for a coffee, and while she said yes, she said next week. What does it mean when they don’t give you an exact day? When I see her later this week I’ll try to see if she can agree to a day.
Baggage is only ever a big deal, if you make it so.
Look for example, at the violent, turbulent life I endured for almost 8 years, and what “The Man” took on. If he went by the idea that having a girlfriend with baggage is a no-no, I would NEVER be as happy as I am right now.
Granted, we were best friends for almost 10 years before anything more happened, but by the Gods has he seen me go through the whole rigmarole.
If you truly love someone, it won’t matter in the end if they come with ten large suitcases, some hand-luggage AND a carry-on holdall!
Never, ever close the door just because someone does not fit your ideological criteria.
There are so many missed opportunities that arise as a result of people doing precisely that, and that is very sad.
Baggage is a big deal, and it matters to most guys when seeking a partner, especially a partner for a long term relationship. Ofcourse it has no relevence for a one night stand or quick fling. Baggage is one of the reasons why many people ( guys and girls) do not seek to enter a relationship with a divorcee or someone who has kids. Have you ever noticed on the online dating sites one of the questions is, “have you ever been married?” or “have you got kids?”, well this is attributed to percieved baggage, emotional, financial or otherwise.
Better to work with a clean slate I say. However, the older one gets, and if still single, the more limited thier options are in finding a “baggage free” partner.
So, my advice to the young guys here, find em young and treat them well!
Experiences cannot be erased, the subconscious mind keeps every single thing that we have experienced stored. If these experiences were of a traumatic nature relating to a past relationship, especially a relationship that has lasted for years, there is absolutely nothing a new partner can do to alter a persons subconscious and those experiences are usually PROJECTED on the new relationship in a very NEGATIVE way. Unless ofcourse they want to play the psychiatrist. Actually, that hardly ever works anyway, unless you are a real trained psychiatrist.
I have been with a few headfu*ks in my time, playing the rescurer or the psychologist is just too much work for too little gain, and the reality of it is,you end up with the baggage by bieng with someone who off loads it on you!
Misery loves company and it is infectious. Find someone that has been happy in the past, loves himself or herself (not in a narsistic way) and they will make you happy!
Past experiences are going to affect who you are today and tommorow.
Part of Who you are.
One of my fave ladies has a pair of 9mm holes in her shoulder courtesy of former bf (went through missing vitals). You can bet your booties it affects her outlook on life… Self-esteem issues? Oh yeah. Spent much of her childhood in hospitals due to birth defects which were not of her doing… then add the above little incident in which “blame” can get passed all around. But I look at Who she is (and how she has been able to deal with it) and like the heck out of her.
That doesn’t mean that the “baggage” may never become an issue. I have to be willing and prepared to face the fact I may have to deal with it someday.
Can’t wait to hear your upcoming stories!