I have a friendly date w/ my recently divorced friend and her daughter.
My goal is to create a sense of safety, cheer her up, as well as get her panties subtlety super super soaked at the same time.
Her 6 year old daughter will be with us on a friendly date to the Exploratorium and then ice cream or something. No expectations of seduction, but want to get her thinking of me in a “he’s safe for my daughter to be around but also very sexy and just can’t help myself kind of way” Like I mentioned above this is strictly platonic at this point and don’t mind if nothing occurs, because I value her friendship to much at this time. Plus she has tons of super hot friends. She has gone through a real messy divorce (about 2 years ago, so she is real gun shy), and already has expressed through our heart to heart conversations that she is not ready to get involved with anyone right now, which I respect btw. So with the explanation complete…
Also, I am not looking for dating advice just pheromone usage for this situation as I’m still new to this whole thing.
Here’s my Andronics stash: Instant Female Magic togo (makes me to mellow and borderline depressed)
Instant Honesty togo
Instant Openness Full size
MX148-152 Chemical Romance Test Pack #124
ExperiMone™ Pheromone TAL #26
MX113, MX114, MX115, MX116 - Akuto Test Mix Pack #121
“Turn Up the Heat” Sexual Pheromone - To Go! #109
Pheromone P79 #68
I’d concentrate on the comfort and conversation pheromones right now. Try IFM but apply it somewhere away from where you would be affected, say on your back, wrists, etc. where it will waft up to her, but not so much to you. Either Openness or Honestly too, but I’m not sure which (maybe both). Openness to keep the conversation going, Honesty to make it closer.
I think Shine might have been something to get too to help counter the IFM effects on you, and make everyone feel good.
Remember you want to work on her mood, not her mind, I would say.
Skip the “sexual” pheromones till later. Maybe much later.
I don’t know enough about the other products you have to comment.
From what you have got I would go with Instant Openness and Instant Honesty. 3 sprays and 4 sprays respectively. Perhaps with a max. of one spray of Turn Up The Heat, just for the slightest of sexual edges to the signature. Good luck
Use lots of Androsterone and A314 if you have it. TUTH and the Chemical Romance test kit might come off too strong when the kids are around. Save that for when you guys are alone. Also this is not an androtics product (sorry Jasmin) but Liquid Trust would be perfect for what you are talking about.
5 sprays of Ammunition
5 sprays of Turn Up The Heat
5 sprays of Instant Jerk
3 sprays each of all of the Chemical Romance mixes
3 drops of Dirty
3 drops of Raw Power
And use Aqua Velva as a cover scent
This concoction is garaunteed to make the child run away screaming, never to be seen again. Small children and animals will spazz out then flee as you pass by. LMAO Just joking around. Do NOT wear this mix under any circumstance.
PS: Sorry, I’m on 500mcgs of alpha-nol right now. Kind of hard to be serious right now.
Not to say your wrong but that seems a bit of an overly drastic conclusion. Why do you say androstenone only works for sexual encounters? It may be useful in some, but in others, every woman is different. There is probably even differences depending on where she is in her menstrual cycle. My advice is experiment, at least with a little bit, too much of anything is probably bad, but you cant rule things out too quickly. All im saying is, for all you know, she might want a high -none smelling male to provide a strong protector for her kids…
What’s your TAL concentration?
Have you read other people’s posts on TAL? I think TAL would be perfect since you are in the company of females (and since IFM makes you mellow).
I will take a shot at this. My suggestion is 5 mcg of TAL + 30-100 mcg of Alpha-nol (IO), 1 IH (so as not to put a dampener in mood, and you have already had heart to heart conversations with her prior. Also I don’t think with a kid present it would be the time for any more of that, a little might help in increasing rapport with the daughter if you never met her before), 1 spray MX113 (for the Akuto scent as cover and it’s a very non threatening mix with slight attraction effects, read Jasmin’s post on this).
Except you Godhand! (I like your sense of humor btw)
I’m curious to know why no one has suggested TAL or P79 to go with the Honesty / Openness mixture. But what do I know? That’s why I’m posting here. Am I missing something regarding these products?
This does not have to be an exact prescription, just want to make her at ease w/ me being w/ her & daughter as well as wanting her to start to think of jumping my bones when we are alone. As we all know the women chooses the man, not the other way around. This is a long term project of mine, so I’m not expecting immediate results. I’m not sure if any amount of Pheromones can get me out of this “Lets Just be friends” disposition. Maybe instant Jerk will work to get out of this mindset, what do you think Godhand?
Regarding A314, I don’t have that product yet, from what I have read, Chemical Romance is a similar product. Please advise.
P79 would be good but TAL is a female communication pheromone which is not what you need at all. Instant Jerrk will definitely get you out of the friend rut but if you piss her off too much you’ll become enemies.
I haven’t had any experience with being out with a woman’s kids…but typically if a lady brings you around her girlfriends, parents, co-workers, classmates…whatever she does it because on some level she wants to see how you fit in the aspects of her personal life that are important to her. Fitting in and getting along with these people is important to her, and if you can impress these people, she will grow more attracted to you.
In a sense, the woman is always the primary target, but the daughter, friend, parent… whomever because a contingent target. Arguably in these situations the person you should focus on impressing is the contingent target, as this will better enhance attractions from your primary target. Chances are if the primary target brings you around these people, she already thinks you’re good enough for her.
That being said I would focus on pheromones that have a positive effect on both your date and her daughter, and avoid any that could potentially have a negative effect on the daughter. I would keep the mix light, and keep anything real abrasive like androstenone (Turn Up The Heat) out of the equation. Instead focus on more uplifting products…Instant Female Magic + Instant Openness/Instant Honesty + TAL should do the trick.
Thanks Sigma, thats what I was thinking all along, as far as “fitting in” because her divorce has made her real gun shy and the most important thing in her life is her daughter. You just clarified it for me. I have never been on a “date” where a lady brings her kid(s), so I was not sure to handle the situation, and or whether to wear the pheromones at all. Nothing may come out of this, maybe it is just two adults and a child out on a beautiful weekend day having fun and enjoying each others company. Still trying to figure that one out too. But regardless, I will continue to be friends w/ her. But I do believe there is more to it.
So I think this will be the mix, not sure on dosage yet.
Instant Honesty
Instant Openness Instant Female Magic
TAL
I will keep you all posted on what happens this weekend, as far as the pheromones side of thing that is, as I don’t ever kiss and tell.
Honestly, you are in a decent position as it is. Being a mother is exhausting and dating when you have kids has got to be tough. The fact that you already know her situation and you fit into it puts you at the top of the list of guys to call when she is horny. The fact that you are such a practical choice means you are probly going to tap that eventually. If the sex is bad when it happens then there is no romantic future for the two of you anyway. So use the lighter pheros and play the waiting game.
lol, I’m also trying to work on a MILF. I really don’t have any suggestions other than A314, and Ammo have seemed to work in getting her comfortable with a much younger male showing interest in her. At first she was standoffish, but once I started using A314 and Shine, she has been a lot more respectful, and interested in what I have to say. When I used Ammo, her face turned flush, and she showed obvious IOIs. I’m still taking it slow, because she has kids, and I really don’t know much about her personal life (she’s a coworker) other than the obvious. She is also one of the first MILF’s I’ve ever tried to game, so I’m still unsure if I want to go this route. I genuinely have an interest in her, and as much as I’d like sex, I’d also like to get to know her more. I get the hint that she’s leveling the same way.
I have never pursued a MILF either, but I can’t help myself because she is not only an awesome person, but absolutely stunning looking. HB9 at least.
As I have mentioned before I work w/ interior designers, and I have a parade of design assistants and junior designers coming through my office and she is not only the coolest but the prettiest of them all.
You might be able to get out of the friend zone by using sexual pheromones when the kid isn’t around. Also, you might try experimenting (elsewhere) with sexual pheromones to find what small amounts you can get away with when around children. Also, another way to get out the friend zone is to ask her relationship questions about other women you are dating. This reciprocates her behavior, suggests that you are pre-selected by other women, and demonstrates that you have options. At the same time, use sexual phero mixes around her. When a definate opening appears, follow with a bold move. Just remember to have patience.
(I like your sense of humor btw)