Greetings from Pittsburgh!
Allow me to jump right into things.. I am a 31 years old single male. I have a great career. Just recently, I bought a house with too many bedrooms (4).. and I live alone..
Well, I’ve been going through a dry spell for a while.. I’m extremely shy to girls and often not knowing how to act around them..
I’ve used a few other pheromone products in the past (some expensive ones too) with no noticeable results..
I really wish this place can make some changes for me..
I know that I am extremely inexperienced when compare to most of you guys here and I am willing to listen and learn..
Great to have a fellow newbie on board =) The people here are extremely friendly and i’m sure the experts will be able to point out something suitable for you. From my own reading, I think the socials like IO (instant openness) and IS ( instant shine ) will help since you are a little shy. I read raves about A314 for men too!
Perhaps you can tell us a little more about your personality and more people can jump in with ideas! Also, are you looking to socialize more with girls in general or wanting to find someone permanent to share your life with? The men’s forum also has lots of great stickies!
Welcome to Pherotalk my friend!
Let me assure you: you have your life settled for the perfect woman. So don’t fall fast for beauty because the latter is really common!
Well, for one thing I would recommend you the products that might help spark the interest in the women around you but congruency is essential and I’ll go more into that later.
Ammo is a sexy product (not SEXUAL) that would be really suitable for you at this point. For use around women mostly and not in work for example.
A314 would be more suitable for work and such but I personally wouldn’t recommend it when trying to find the right woman for you. From my point of view you don’t have that whole “alpha” thing going on so you won’t be able to act accordingly. Being congruent with A314 would get you the high quality LTR women in your life for sure though.
Add on top of that, ISHINE. Really friendly and simple product and really underestimated. Interestingly enough, at really high doses (I’m talking about at least 6 sprays from the standard strength) I’ve had some of the best reactions from people around you and I was just AMAZED. My brother loves this product too.
IO/IH would be better for the conversation wise.
Now for the most important part of this post: congruency is essential when it comes to pheromones. Think of pheromones as an aid, just like you car. Without your ability to drive the car you wouldn’t get anywhere. That’s the thing about pheromones too; they create and lubricate you way through social interactions however if you don’t have the skills to act according to the signal you are sending, it will simply be dismissed or will be attributed to the nearest person to you.
I would highly recommend the book Revelation The Venusian Arts by Lovedrop and Mystery. Even if it is considered a “pickup” book that should be only applied for bars and clubs, you can learn a ton from it when interacting with women! If you want to learn how to get along with high quality women in the night time (bars and club) you will just LOVE that book!
A bit more about me.. I consider my self well educated with good manners. I am very shy, when it comes to girls who I am attracted to.. I just don’t know how, especially WHAT to talk with them. I’m just not very good at this..
With guys and girls I’m not attracted to, I don’t have much problems. I’m often the “chatty one” with them.
People are always shocked when they find out I don’t have a girlfriend. It is frustrating that I sometimes feel / realizes that I have a slight self esteem issue, even though I working in a highly technical engineering field that often impresses people; my financial situation is better than 95% of my peers, and I consider myself more attractive than average…
The last advise I got in dating from an older gentleman was: “Smile are girls, you have a good personality.”
I figure you guy here have more practical advises that that..
Yet again, I would seriously recommend you read the book “Revelation The Venusian Arts”. With the help of pheromones you will have the woman that you deserve in no time! Just follow the book and all I want is a “thank you PJ!!!” later
Will try IO, IS, Ammo and A314 for the initial run..
What about dose-age and place of application? any recommendation for beginners with these products?
In winter, hair and neck are the best app points.
In summer, any part of your body that’s exposed including wrists, elbow, behind the ear, hair, etc…
One spot might work better for you than another so experiment.
A314+Ammo+IO is a good combo to start with. You can add or substitute IO with ISHINE.
Yes, we do have amazing advise on this forum and you are not the first to come to use with this situation.
I agree that social products like IO and IH will work well for your situation and Ammunition to boast confidence and give out that strong, masculine vibe.
A314 is mainly used in the work place but its not restricted to the work place. The reason I would not recommend it now for you is because you are shy and it will not work as it suppose to.
You can work up to it by using a products like Ammo to get your confidence up.
Go to the men section, do some reading, starting with the stickys and ask as many questions as your heart desires.
Thanks for the update and recommendations.
Will pick up IO and IH too then…
The weird part is that I’m not shy to everyone.. I am perfectly fine to goto a bar, make friends there and then and BS for hours..
It’s just I am painfully shy toward woman I am attracted to.. I just don’t know how to act or what to say around them…
Perhaps I need something to loosen myself up first, then the ladies I like…
Oh, by the way, how and where do you recommend using IO and IH, for a beginner?
