Hi Mikoyan,
Great to have a fellow newbie on board =) The people here are extremely friendly and i’m sure the experts will be able to point out something suitable for you. From my own reading, I think the socials like IO (instant openness) and IS ( instant shine ) will help since you are a little shy. I read raves about A314 for men too!
Perhaps you can tell us a little more about your personality and more people can jump in with ideas! Also, are you looking to socialize more with girls in general or wanting to find someone permanent to share your life with? The men’s forum also has lots of great stickies!
Love this thread by steve and it’s super helpful!