Hey asta84!
Good to see another maidemoisselle in the forum! 
Sorry to hear about your past relationship with the guy there…the thing that I don’t understand is that, are you looking to just seduce him? or being in a ltr with him? you said you weren’t in love with him and just attached, so I’m just a teensy confused 
my brain is just probably fried from homework lol
Anyhow, just to tell you. Pheros just enhance you, to me it seems like the guy there is a player type, so I guess you could have him lust for you and that’s about it.
Instant sexiness is great, I think every lady in the forum has to have one in her arsenal, I made a report on the difference btw is/a and is/b A break down of IS/A and IS/B, take a look at it, and choose the one that feels more compatible to you
Have fun, and don’t forget to report! 