Im Victoria and Im excited to start maybe learning some more about this Pheromone research! Ive been looking up info on the internet for quite a while on pheromones but I have always been a little bit skeptical of exactly what they can and cant do. Im 22 years old, female and I live in Atlanta, GA.
I would like to try pheromones because Im very interested in the science of it all and the way that the human brain computes things ( dont fall asleep on me now) lol also I do feel like I could maybe benefit from some of the self effects, am I wrong in thinking that? Im not a shy person but sometimes its hard to walk into a room and feel like EVERYBODY there is funnier, smarter, prettier than you are. Id like to be able to really let some of my inhibitions go when it comes to social situations. I mean I read on the board that wearing pheromones is kind of like having a great push up bra on or an amazing hair day, it makes the wearer feel better so that they can project that into everyday situations. Now here comes the confusion… Exactly how does it effect the bystanders? Does it really flip a switch so to speak in THEIR brain also? I hope Im able to learn alot in my time here.
Thanks in advance for all the help!
Oh! One more question! The Perfumes that we can use with it? Do they have to be oil based perfumes or whats better? I read the thread but was a little confused.
First off I promise you therea re lots of women to talk to and give you advice - not just us guys here.
You are right in that there are self effects as well as the effects others feel, but the self effects can vary by product as well as by the person. some users feel more self-effects than others. No way to know until you try.
The effects others feel I liken more to a subconscious “suggestion”. It is created but you have to act on it to reinforce that suggestion and sometimes get the reaction you want. You could wear very social products but get no response if you just frown at people. You would need to smile and maybe say hello and then they will break out.
Social products like CTTM2 or IO and IH can all help with conversations. IO will give you a lot of general chat and IH gives you feelings of connection and hence some deeper conversations. CTTM2 is a 50/50 mix of the two so you can get both.
For ladies specific products you could try Instant Sexiness. It comes in two versions. A is a little more aggressive than B. It all depends on which version you think best complements your personality.
You can wear any perfume you want with the products although some of the ladies products do or can come in a scent of their own. I understand the major choices to be chocolatini, cookie, and grapefruit.
The Boss has already made some really great suggestions. I’d only add Instant Shine, based upon what you’ve written, it will enhance your confidence levels and it sounds like you could use that.
Anyway, make sure to read through the sticky threads in the women’s section for more advice on usage.
It is very normal to be skeptical. I was skeptical until I use it myself.
As a beginner, I suggest you start with some social pheromones. IO can make people want to talk to you. It is an ice breakers.
Shine will boost your confidence. It can lift your mood and the people around you too. IH can make the conversation more personal and meaningful. It makes the conversation last longer and you will feel the bond from the people around you.
Most mones are derived from Hormones in the body. Inside the body they are hormones on the outside they become Pheromones.
They send a signal. Naturally we release different mones from our bodies at different rates depending on age race health diet and some believe mood. Each mone molecule is structurally different. They are secreted from our bodies in sweat urine saliva vaginal and penal fluids. Even your breath has mones in it. The mones travel into the air and others inhale them. Now this part gets a little complicated because its still debated in science. Scientist know that they reach the brain but are not sure if it is through the VNO which is a little organ in our noses or through other olfactory pathways.
Anyways they make it up to the neurotransmitters in the brain. I believe we have 12 of those. When they connect to those transmitters they begin to fire signals to our bodies and other sections of the brain. Those signals evoke feelings and emotions. People react to the emotion they are feeling whether it is arousal, calm, happiness or fear.
We are born with the natural ability to pin point where this signal is coming from much like you can pinpoint where a light is coming from (visual) or a sound (auditory) you can pinpoint where a scent signal is coming from (Olfactory)
Mones can effect the person wearing them as well as those around them. It only makes sense since your inhaling the molecule as well. But you do become accustomed to them if they are present everyday. Just like other things about yourself you just sort of take for granted.
You can use any perfume you like. A diffusive perfume with good sillage will take your signal farther then one that is less diffusive. The mone molecule will diffuse with the scent your wearing and it will not harm the signal. Oil based perfumes are heavier. They slow the diffusion of the mones off your body making them last longer but have more mild effects. Alcohol based perfumes diffuse rapidly bring more molecules with it. The molecules diffuse faster therefore more molecules are inhaled making the effect stronger. However the molecules dont last as long on your skin as they do with the oil based ones.
So for more noticeable hits go with alcohol based (If your skeptical this is the best place to start)
For a more subtle effect go with oil.
I suggest you start out with the basic we all have in our arsenals. Isexiness Ishine IO and IH
