M/32 Wanting and needing to try something to save my relationship. I travel a lot for business and though we’re engaged we don’t yet live together and I’m fighting to spend time with her because she’s always with her friends and when we are together it’s great but we haven’t been having sex…
we need an electric shock to our sex life and now b/c I have female friends throwing themselves at me and I can only say no for so long…
So since I’m trying to stay faithful I need something for me and fiance to get back to a healthy sex life.
I’ve already been doing some research and “tuth” seems to be what I need to get her to just jump on me.
So with the $25 I receive I’ll pay the difference for a bottle to try and report my outcome
Hi King39,
Welcome to this forum.
TUTH is indeed a good product to use inside a long-term relationship to rekindle passion in bed. However, it’s worth asking, are there other issues to deal with, like communication, lack of attraction, routine and so on? How long have you been together? Do you think she’s seeing someone else? There may be other things than raw sexual product like TUTH to get your lady back in the mood, You might benefit from a few other bottles as well.
By telling us more about your situation, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy, it’s worth it.
Hope to hear from you.
Communication is fine, attraction is definitely there and I don’t think she’s seeing anyone else. It’s just the fact that she’s young and wants to still do the young thing with her friends and we haven’t made time for us. I made the initiative to setup a date night for us so we can get into the routine of spending more time together and she’s all for it. It’s been a little hard to get her in the mood and when she is I’m busy or she’s with her friends. It would be much different if we lived together and I’ve been working on that.
I’d recommend you get some Ammo as well, this will help getting her in the mood with a nice buildup. That product is sexy, but not sexual. Add some TUTH later on in the evening when you feel you’ve got her hooked. You should definitely get Ishine, too. This will help by making you both more happy and vibrant. It should definitely add a wow factor to your presence if you don’t see her that often.
Thanks for the advise
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, King39!
I think there’s no problem with the relationship per se. Reading from your posts, I only see that you are the one creating a problem. The only concern here is the sex but your battle cry is saving your relationship. She’s not seeing anyone, but you have female friends throwing themselves to you, and despite telling us that you are trying your best to be faithful, you ended it with a suggestion of “can only say no for so long…”
I’m not passing any judgment here, I’m just putting everything into the correct perspective because sometimes, one only needs that and no mones to keep a relationship healthy and faithful.
I think TUTH is not your best option here. It might be a good secondary, but I think you don’t need TUTH telling your girl your horny, right? After all, she’s engaged with you. And since you are not living with each other, it’s always tricky to put her in the mood.
Try coming over in her place or invite her in your pad and cook something, or do anything cool that might make her forget about the hype of being young. Something romantic.. a candle lit dinner perhaps, with the right music playing, the bed ready, hell the entire house ready. These are enough to put her in the mood. And since the attraction is already there, I think a simple 2 drops of shine oil and 2 drops of molecule C would be enough for her to devour you.
The secret here is planning. So that there would be no excuses, and both of you are in the mood for love. Communication is key. Use it. 
Your GC is now in your email.
Happy Pheroing!
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Think ok let me clear a few things up.
My only concern isn’t just sex but when you haven’t had sex with the woman you love, a person you do everything in the world for and haven’t had sex this year and it’s almost march you really want some. I put a $6,000 ring on her hand, I do have female friends that want to be with me because they say I deserve more, they know what I do for her… and perhaps I shouldn’t tell them so much… that’s something I need to change though as a friend I shouldn’t have a problem telling them things and as females they give me some insight.
At the end of the day I’m a faithful person, I’ve had ample time and chances to have sex with a friend and I didn’t and I won’t because I want to marry my fianc?e. By saying a I can only say no for long, it’s just a weakness because by no means do I have ugly female friends and even my male friends say you should just do what you have to do but I tell them I can’t because if the shoe was on the other foot I wouldn’t want her to.
She’ll tell me she’s horny but when I respond to she just so happens to be at her friends house across town and probably drinking or she has no gas, drinking something… there’s always an excuse. I tell her I’m horny and there will still be excuses and nothing happens. More than anything I just want her to want me the way she has in the past and want her to put me as a priority in her live more than her friends.
No we don’t live together but we aren’t even a full 5 miles apart yet she can go to her friends house 20 miles away and won’t come spend time with me and I’m less than 5 miles away.
I’ve communicated that to her and she see’s it and tells me she’ll change, she loves me and she’ll change but there hasn’t been too much change. She’ll send me naked pictures and stuff and I’m like, bring your ass over here… but something always seems to come up… I call it an excuse, if you want to do something you’ll do it, if you don’t you’ll find an excuse.
Communication is key and we both need to be more vocal about our wants and needs. Prior to being together for the first time she say she hadn’t had sex for over a year and I really think part of the reason we haven’t been having sex is I think she’s scared to get pregnan yet you tell your friends you want a son…???
I just actually cooked for her last week, something she asked me for and boom I did it. Told her to come over it’s almost done and bam another excuse and didn’t show up until 2hrs later cuz her friend needed her to take her to the greyhound and she ended up getting a boot on her car. I had a nice mood set, her favorite drink and everything but nothing.
Went about 4-5 days without physically seeing her and I told her I don’t like that. How are we supposed to get married next year but you don’t make any initiative to come see me. She felt bad and started crying and what not.
Like I said she’s younger than me, still wants to do the club and party thing with her girls but you can’t put me as the man that’s been taking care of you an option. Your friends don’t do for you, I do…
This week I told her rather than asking her that we’re gonna have a date night Friday and Sunday, Friday at a high end hotel, hell even setup a spa day for her next week.
I’ll look into shine and the molecule c.
lol I feel like I’m on a brown couch telling a psychiatrist my problems lol
Hi King39,
I have to ask is your only goal to get your fianc? to open up more and to be more intimate?
I am going to go a very different direction with my suggestions as I see a lot of red flags especially with the excuses from here and I don’t want to see you set yourself up for failure.
IH is a must have right now before anything else! The reason is you need to get to the bottom of things and where her head is at with things because marriage is suppose to be forever. You need to get to the root of why things are the way they are and with IH it will bring to the surface the real problems and her true feelings on things and this alone will be your most valuable mone to wear so you will know if things still have a chance or you are wasting your time. Just be prepared thought whatever you may hear and to accept it good or bad. Could save you a lot of heartache down the road and well worth it 10 times over for the money you will spend for the IH.
Otherwise I normally suggest the Men’s Kit because you will get everything to try and at a discount already so there is no guess work on if you got the right stuff.
I would try Ammo around her as your main pheromone to make sure the attraction is there.
IShine is also very useful to and will give you that youthful vibrant glow and will help with the age gap a little.
I to work out of town and am married myself and only see my wife maybe 5-8 days a month, so I know it is very difficult and know how it is.
But if you are saying she is only 5 miles away at most and she is not spending time with you and she is with friends this is a red flag and would find out why.
Very first thing I would go with Dee’s suggestion and set things up and wear some IH and go from here.
I hope this helps and if you have any more questions please ask.
Well tonight I went to her, brought her and her daughter some food and expressed how I was feeling.
She said she loves me and refuses to lose me because I’m the best thing to ever happen to her. She expressed how she feels bad that she hasn’t been spending time with me and it’s time for a change. That was like music to my ears. She said she’s a work in progress and everything will work out for us just be patient with her.
We were literally on the same level and it felt good…
So I don’t think tuth is the need. Just need to open up and express to each other. I mean I’m 32 with 2 kids, she’s 24 with 1 kid. I think she’s just overwhelmed with the fact that she’s engaged yet so young. I told her I’m always here and always will be, I’ve been patient and I’ll remain to be because I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
I think I’ll try the Ih and shine maybe even an alpha.
We really didn’t need anything tonight. If her daughter didn’t come downstairs we probably would’ve been having sex on the couch… got cock blocked but it’s all good I love them both.
I too have been dealing with a few issues like depression over the last month or 2 because I haven’t been able to see my kids because my kids mother disappeared and won’t let me see them, been a real hard past few months.
Is there something to help with that?
Glad that you are now in the right perspective. Looks like you are a good catch. Good enough for friends to feel like you do not deserve your GF. But you are mature enough not to be swayed merely by such. I’m concerned about the temptations being thrown by your lady friends. But you are doing great parrying those. It’s actually the best move you should muster because it’s probably a concern for your GF too, especially if she’s aware of those girls’ ninja moves.
I agree with the IShine + IHonesty for a heart to heart convo. Well, AMMO Summer and TUTH nearby is a great contingency. But prior to that planned day, I think you should expose her with A314 + IShine to help her erase any doubts. IShine for the Happy vibe and A314 for the trust. This combo will benefit you too and should lift you up from that depression.
And since you are basically the more mobile(she have her kid with her), you should take the initiative to visit her often and spend time with them, two girls. That way, you spend more time with her daughter and give her no excuse to go out with her friends. Better way too to expose her with your new vibe.
My best wishes to the two of you.
i placed a quick order and accidentally clicked pay by phone and ive been calling but cant get though. can the order be canceled so i can just use my paypal
(update: got a call back and paid with paypal)
Hello and welcome to the forum.
I am glad things seem to be heading in the right direction. It sounds like a sometimes complicated situation.
There is a thread in my signature block that talks about help for married guys but it certainly applies to guys in LTRs. Give it a read and see if you think anything might help.
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