Hey everybody, my name is Tyler and I’m a freshman in college. I’m very fit (running 25-30 miles a week plus lifting three times a week) and what most girls would call pretty attractive. I’ve been told because of my height (6’3) and stuff that I can be intimidating for girls to talk to, even if they find me attractive. Anyway, this junk is from the past because a year and a half ago I started dating my current girlfriend who I love and who I find SMOKIN’. We’ve agreed not to have sex until marriage, which is totally cool since we’re both virgins. However, we do other stuff and she can get really nervous, as do I occasionally. Also, I’m not really positive she’s always in the mood to do stuff - I think she just does sometimes solely for me. I appreciate this but I would love it even more if she was hot and turned on and wanting it, because it’s SO much more enjoyable for me when she is. So do I need a something to help her relax, which in turn will help our physical life? Or should I try something to get her turned on more? Both?
hey tyler how are you?
so what do you want to achieve with pheromones?
socials pheromones (instant shine, instant openness, instant honesty) are pretty good and they can make you less intimidating and more approachable for girls
if you want to want something to help her relax, then maybe instant shine? she will feel good and happy, which may make her enjoy the make out session
you should also consider instant honesty, it creates a sense of comfortableness for her.
Ammo is used if you want to amp up the attraction with her. From the results that I have had, your vow may be broken if you decide to use this product. It really depends on how sacred your vow with her is.
Hope that helped.
HI there,
Welcome to the forum.
You can try IH and TUTH.
IH will make her closer to you. She will talk more personal and details with you.
TUTH will sexually turn her on. She will want you.
Good luck
Hi Tyler, welcome to the forum!
There are definitely things that can help get her more turned on.Though I’m thinking that if she feels more turned on, it might actually make her feel even more nervous, because her body will be responding to things that her mind is not quite ready for.
The best product I can recommend for your situation is Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty adds depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable with you and trust you more. Instant Honesty also helps to strengthen emotional bonds. For most women, it is crucial to have a strong emotional bond and closeness with a guy in order to feel comfortable going further.
Turn Up The Heat will definitely spice things up in the bedroom, but you might not really want this, because as I said, it may cause her body to “betray her”, and she may feel upset and confused after the fact.
Thanks for the help. I’ll probably try Instant Shine to start - she has self-confidence issues at times and has been slightly depressed so if it helps her cheer up a little it’ll be perfect. If that goes well perhaps I’ll try TUTH or Ammo but our vow is pretty sacred so I’ll have to do a good job keeping everything in check.
I never considered that, that’s a good point. We’re both relatively new to physical and sexual activities - she was my first kiss, and we both were each other’s firsts for basically everything else. She’s younger than me and it shows in her nervousness and fear to do some things, like blowjobs and such. I mean, we’ve been dating 18 months, but it’s been rocky at times and I could always use a better/closer emotional relationship with her. Would Instant Shine and Instant Honesty be a good start?
Absolutely! This way you can gradually strengthen the emotional bond and make her feel more comfortable as the big day approaches.
Just do whatever she feels comfortable with, don’t push it, it will come naturally as she begins to trust you more and feel more comfortable. If you know she feels scared about certain things, such as oral sex, then leave it alone for now.
She needs to feel safe with you, and going down on a guy can be pretty weird and scary especially if you’re new to it all. Oral sex is a very intimate act, to me anyway, and in a way, more intimate than intercourse.
Yeah, I can definitely understand that. She was getting closer to doing it, except we were talking about a month ago and she told me, “Sorry, I don’t think I can ever ever do that for you.” I haven’t really brought it up since then. The problem is she couldn’t or wouldn’t give me a reason why - I’m hoping if I can build a better emotional bond with her and get her to open some she’ll be able to talk to me about it; that way I can understand why she never wants to do it. Once, during an argument though, she mentioned how degrading it is, and she always refers to it as “getting on my knees and sucking you off,” which just takes the romance completely out of it, and is probably the reason she never will.
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