Hi everyone, I’m Nicole, 27 years-old female, an Asian from Singapore. I’m an outgoing, down to earth, confidence (except in-front of people I like 
), love meeting people but can be shy and stubborn sometimes. I’m new to pheromones. I came across pheromones few years back in a newspaper articles. But then I never thought of have a try or look out for these products all the while until lately where I have been having some conflict and pheromones suddenly came across my mind and this is why I start to look into internet to find more details about this product and finally I came across this forum where I found that the users and the administrator are very helpful in providing advices and experiences to all user. So, I decided to give it a try to experiment and fill my curiosity and also hopefully it does help me to find out the answer.
After I broke up with my 1st bf i have been hanging around with a male best friend so that I can let go my pass and meet some new people. We had become close again like many years ago and planned to have a trip together. One day, he invited me to his house to plan on the trip things, we had a nice dinner and went for a movie. Everything seems to goes well and pleasant until he hugged me tight and said something sweet to me but that time my mind was blank and I hardly breath as I’m super nervous…all the while we had been quite open to each others..but I didn’t expect more than this, due to my low self-esteem and i never ever thought that he will ever like me more than that except as a friend. Suddenly my mobile rang and I had been over reacted by pushed him away just to answer the phone call. This is a big mistake I think..
Since then, he started to avoid me and refused facing me alone. The worst part is, I realised that I miss him a lot. To dissolve the situation, I texted him to apologize for what I did that day. He accepted my apologize and he again asked me out for a date the next day. At that moment, i rejected him again as i have been sort of nervous, i’m not sure why but I’m sort of low self-esteem in-front of him. Since then he rejected me whenever I asked him out until one fine day he willing to see me and I decided to have talk with him. I thought that will only be 2 of us. Eventually he invited his best buddies and pretty gal to join us. One of his best buddies had shown interest in me and I can see he is pushing me to his best buddy which makes me felt awful. Anyway, I’m still looking for a chance to talk to him but we had been separated by that gal he brought along. Later on he was drunk and he walked over and asked me whether I have anything to tell him(in-front of everybody)…I have…but my mouth just didn’t manage to say it out as I’m too shy to express it in-front of people. That night, he leaved us earlier since he had been drunk and he gave me a big hug before he leaved. At that moment, I knew my feeling for him is real and i want him.
I need to know whether he had the same feeling towards me, what is in his mind and the reason why he has been avoided from me. Please suggest some pheromones that might help me to find out the truth and gave me the courage to express myself.
Thanks in advance 
Hello and be welcome here Nicole ..
do not worry Nicole.. we´re gonna find something
i think the guy is into you … that´s normal male behaviour to hang around a lot with a girl you´re into .. but seldom it leads to success for the guys
but in your case … he´s lucky
to summarize … you´re kinda unexperienced with guy´s … that´s o.k. and you´re shy… that´s o.k. as well …
you have some difficulties to show your feelings once there´s some risk involved .. and sometimes you act completely wrong.. due to nervosity … that´s normal as well
I can understand that your guy rejected you … hmm wouldnt you´ve done the same ?
sooo we have to find something that supports you …
o.k.
there are a few nice tools you´re gonna learn about now !
to reduce your shyness and to make you feel more comfortable .. and to make you more confident ..
get some Instant Shine … it does exactly what i described above … you´re gonna love it !
To make you more open and make it easier to express what you want to say … and to get conversations going .
there´s Instant Openness the thing … People become very chatty when exposed to .. you as well
For bonding and to deepen conversations … and to re establish Rapport and Trust ..
there´s Instant Honesty very useful … a fantastic product … i use it very often ..
To reinduce more romantic feelings in him … and if you want to make him think about you a lot .
Instant Sexiness is fantastic … ( it was restocked today … you´re lucky )
that´s my first thoughts on what to get and what to do …
please post your intro again in the female main board as there it will get more attention by the ladies … not everybody has the time to check all threads in the intro section
As well you should check the stickies … at the female main board .. here in the into Forum and at the male place ( general info ..not only for guy´s )
aaannnddd
do you have any other fields of use in mind except from using mones with your guy … maybe at work ?
how would you describe your social skillz …
this will qualify for … tatatatata
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
so your order will become a bit less cost extensive ..
keen to know how things are going …
Pago
Hi Nicole, understand that guys in Singapore go for all sorts of girls at one time. The truth is there’s really no point in holding out to a guy if he just treats you as a prize and not as a person. Guys tend to hold on to a girl more the more they move further away from them, it is probably their own ego telling them to go for the challenge.
It might be wise to stay away, thats a suggestion that you might want to consider. Your life may be better if you don’t worry too much about it.
But should you decide to go for it, certain products such as;
- Instant Honesty (For connection)
- Instant Sexiness (For Female confidence)
- Instant Shine (For that sparkle and happy mood)
Happiness is but a complicated thing only if you decide to make it so. Theres over 5 million people in Singapore, and 2.5 million of them are guys. Of which probably 10% are gays. That guy isn’t the only one who can bring you happiness.
Take it from Pagodeiro, his advice is useful in the products he recommended, delivery takes about a week or so to arrive in Singapore, so no worries about that.
Stay happy Nicole!
P.S Most guys here are wussies when it comes to confessing about how much they like girls, thats the unfortunate truth.
Hi NikoleK!
Welcome on board.
I have no experience with women´s products, so I can´t help you with that. I´m going to give you my opinion about the situation you described. I hope you don´t mind it. Maybe I´m talking about something i don´t fully uderstand, but, anyway…
I can only suggest you to phone the guy, make an appointment, and talk to him openly and clearly about what happened and what´s on your mind. You seem to become very nervous around him, so write everything you whant to say to him, and read it a couple of times so you don´t forget anything.
I guess the guy is into you but you have been wighy washy and hurt his feelings a couple of times, so he will not be able to relax untill you clear the air end stablish back the broken trust.
Make sure you are going to meet alone, in an apropriat eplace for talking, and without any distractions. Be sincere, be honest, and ask him to do the same. If you don´t end as a couple, you may win a friend back. Anyway, things seem to be not ok, so it will be hard to make them worse.
Be honest, tell him the truth, treat him (and yourself) with respect during the date, and thing will be better after.
Good luck.
Hope this helps.
Talk to you soon.
Thanks for everybody advise. That’s very helpfull indeed. I can’t deny this kind of thing could have happen i myself still have to be partly responsible for it. Like Pago said earlier, i’m sort of shy(especially in-front of a stranger or a person i like), experience with guy..less(only been in a relationship once in my life and it took me 9years)…date with less than 5 guys in my entire life so far..lol. My social skill is below average i think, because i’m a straight forward person. If i don’t feel like talking or disagree with a person. I show up-front and that’s why in time people around might get irritate with me. Also i’m don’t tend to smile or start talking to others subordinate in the office. That’s why i’m gonna try this out for my personal usage and also in my job. Gonna give it a try and let u guys know the outcome soon
Dang you are lucky, Instant Sexiness just got restocked recently, lol.
Well no worries, never to late to start. Demographics here are more or less long-term. And about the not smiling thing, its not just you, its pretty much everyone.
When you begin to smile often, you start to realize how many people don’t smile. That’s just how it is.
Hi extraballislit,
Thanks for your advice, what you suggest is exactly what i’m having in my mind. The most important thing is, i don’t want to loss this friend as i miss those good old day where we can talk about everything. He did told me he is quite confusing as well because he have no idea and he can’t understand me. Yeap, that’s a good idea to write down what i’m going to said to him before seeing him or else everything i said will end up unorganise and confusing..due to my damn nervousity.
Will update you soon with the outcome
Thanks for everybody advise. That’s very helpfull indeed.
I´m happy that it helps you 
I can’t deny this kind of thing could have happen i myself still have to be partly responsible for it. Like Pago said earlier, i’m sort of shy(especially in-front of a stranger or a person i like), experience with guy..less(only been in a relationship once in my life and it took me 9years)…date with less than 5 guys in my entire life so far..lol.
That you´ve only dated 5 guy´s is not a bad thing .. do you think that you´ve missed something in your life .. if so … you should have lots of fun out there dating guys …
BUT i have the strong feeling that you weight that thing wiht the one guy very high and so you should focus on him
My social skill is below average i think, because i’m a straight forward person.
**if you really have the feeling that you need some improvement in how to deal with other people .. you can get some good books on it ..
If i don’t feel like talking or disagree with a person. I show up-front and that’s why in time people around might get irritate with me. Also i’m don’t tend to smile or start talking to others subordinate in the office. That’s why i’m gonna try this out for my personal usage and also in my job. Gonna give it a try and let u guys know the outcome soon**
Let´s look how good the mones will serve you and then we can still talk about what need some adjustment …
HEADS UP
Pago
Welcome to pherotalk Nicole!
You already received some wonderful advise and recommendations. The best thing you can do not for you to get back with your friend but for yourself is work on your self esteem issues.
The pheromones suggested will be a start in the right direction but you have to put in that work to know that you are amazing and deserve all the best in life.
I am not too sure about your friend’s personality but whatever it is you feel for him or whatever it is gonna happen with you two try not to be fearful.
Fear prevents us from living , experiencing good things and taking risks that may pay off in the long run.
Your gc was issued!
I had placed my order with my GC, thans to Mickaelia. I’m thrill to try it out to see how people react to me when i’m using it. I love to observe human’s behavior