Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 
A lot of members come here to spice up there current relationships. I suggest you take a look at TUTH for arousal and IH for increased closeness and intimacy.
This thread, by bosshank >>>>> Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home will be very helpful for you.
A314 will help in a work environment to up your status and increase respect but in your case I feel it will work well around your wife also so this is a product you may want to consider.
Your GC is on its way 
Tisha
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