My name is Mike I live in Washington state and although I was skeptical at first, after reading so many of the responses here in the forum I really thinking about trying pheromones.
I’m 40 yo and married. I really want to use these to ignite our marriage a little. I’m thinking about Turn up the heat and CCTM2 maybe A314. IH and IG would not work on my wife so much because she likes the strong, cold sort of guy. Instant Jerk might appeal to her the most, but I’m afraid to try that one out of the gate.
Hi and welcome!
Before making recommendations, please tell us a bit more about your personality. Are you shy, or more outgoing?
Also, what kinds of effects were you hoping to see from pheros?
Hi mike, welcome along. Some interesting choices there. Personally I would suggest the first thing you do is have a look at bosshank and read the threads in his signature block about married guys. then read my journal ‘clinging onto the wreckage’. Too many of us married guys concentrate on the sex and ignore the intimacy of discussion. Learn from my mistakes and bosshank’s wisdom
Hi Mike,
Cometalk to me 2 looks like a good one to start with nice balanced mix for communication also Instant Openness and Instant honesty are good too. Can you tell us a little more about yourself and your personality.
Hello Mike and welcome to the forum.
I thought my ears were burning … lol.
Like Diamond said, read the thread for married guys. But before you do read the first thread in my signature block. It will give you realistic expectations using these products.
The thing to remember is that these products help you, they do not do the work for you. As you know by now it is all about relationship and that takes a lot of hard work.
Like Diamond said, go for the intimacy first. IShine and IH up front. Then once you re-establish the emotional connection she will be more responsive to the TUTH.
Also - steve, Renny and myself are all about your age. I think diamond is just a little younger. I mention this as things tend to run along ethnic and age lines - that is you are more likely to get the same effects we do with a given product at a given dose if you are about the same age and ethnicity. Of course there will always be some variation from individual to individual but you should be close.
Good luck and please ask any questions. We are happy to help.
Thank you for the input. All of you.
I guess I need to give some more details. My wife and I have been married for 11 yrs. We have pretty good communication, are very open, and currently working on making our marriage exciting again. My wife who is in her early thirties is just coming into her 2nd awakening. After let herself go for years is now once again smoking hot.
She is commited to making the marriage work, but is finding male attention very satisfying once again. I don’t feel like honesty is an issue she shares everything with me from guys she’s attracted and guys who try to pick her up. She also has never been one to be “mushy” or very emotional. She would like me to be more stand offish and less talkative which is why I I don’t think instant Honesty or instant gentleman work that well. I read the suggested post, but in the meantime any feedback is welcome.
I’m thinking instant shine may lead her to want to hang around me more.
Thanks for the info!
If you want to be perceived as a bit more standoff-ish by your wife, I recommend A314 along with some Instant Honesty or Instant Shine to soften it.
A314 is mainly used to increase confidence and respect in work situations, but it can also give a bit of a sexy edge as well. Instant Honesty works to add depth and intimacy to conversations, not that you and your wife really need that, but it will help to soften the A314. Instant Shine is a great mood brightener, and will give you a positive and attractive vibe.
I hope this helps! 
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
First let me clear up IH. Your misunderstanding the product due to its name. Its wont make people tell the truth but it does help form a connected feeling of closeness and intimacy. Yes it can bring about more deep conversation but as you mentioned you don’t need that.
The connection part however you do. You mention she has renewed herself and is experiencing male attention. A little IH can go a long way at keeping that connection to you.
However, While I do think IH is something to consider I am not suggesting it as my first choice for you.
You need to focus her interest and emotions (which she does have no matter how well she hides them) toward you or at least strengthen them.
TUTH for occasions when you want to heat things up in the bedroom.
AMMO for a sexy masculine interesting vibe. This will be good for daily wear just to pull her attraction toward you more and sort of start a slow provocative fire. I shine would be beneficial to draw her to you more and give you a youthful charisma
A314 for a strong alpha male presence.
Its rare that I suggest mainly masculine products and I am not suggesting you totally skip the more social ones. Use those to supplement the above three. You can use A314 at the same time as AMMO and TUTH but I don’t suggest using them all together till you really get to know your dosages and how she reacts to them. To much anone is not good so start slow.
I feel she is giving you some strong signals that she may have trouble expressing to you verbally. You mention she is not big on talking. I dont think she means “stand offish” I am thinking she means more action oriented then verbally oriented.
You have what sounds like a good strong relationship
She is feeling sexy because of the improvements in how she looks and feels.
She is in the prime sexual age for women.
She shares info with you about these other men who are noticing her.
She wants you to talk less. LOL
She is looking for a aggressive sexual response from you Dude slap on a little A314 and TUTH. Dont talk just give that masculine growl, say Mine, then Give her the “look”… you know which one I mean the seriously aroused pantie soaking look that makes us say “oh shit this is gonna be good” and throw her over your shoulder and get busy . 
Your GC is on its way
Have fun
Tisha
Yes to the above. One of the issues we are dealing with at the moment was my insecurities and jealousy surrounding this new stage. She is holding back a little emotionally because she HATES the jealous male type and I haven’t proven to be back to my normal non-jealous/ secure self yet.
Do you think instant shine or I honesty would be better to add to the A314 and TUTH? Shine seems like it would make me more appealing to her which would be very nice, Honesty seems like it would make her feel more comfortable. I’m thinking shine would help restore some of my self secureness, but would like your feedback.
Well women do hate jealousy when its used in a negative manner but we are sneaks and know just how to get the response we want by using your own jealousy against you LOL
My husband can get jealous alot but he doesn’t pout or talk about it. He will use it in a positive manner. As a incentive to remind me why I love him LOL He knows how to read my signals by know to which helps.
Case in point… Few weeks ago I was out in the front yard doing some yard work when one of the local cops who is overly fond of me saw me and stopped in to say hey. He was there maybe 5 minutes before my husband came out side and strutted around with the usual male possession signals which of course I ignored at the time. The cop finally left and my hubby went in to watch TV. So feeling a bit frisky I went in and got a drink and mentioned. Boy James looks good he must be working out. LOL. I knew this would cause a reaction. All I heard was “does he now” and the next thing I know I am on the couch and lets just say we were engaging in some very interesting hot activities. Knocked the lamp off the end table fun. So after I am sipping my drink and grinning like a idiot and he says "What were you talking about before ? " I just said hmmm I cant seem to remember now. He just grinned and said, Yep that’s what I thought. See you can turn those negative emotions into positive ones.
Anywhoo while women are romantic and we love a slow sweet seduction sometimes we are looking for the cave man response and I just feel you wife may be looking for that just so she knows other guys are not the only ones getting heated up by her new look. You can say hey babe you look great but nothing says it better then the cave man response. Now don’t go all kinds of caveman crazy just a little here and there to make her forget who she was telling you about earlier 
I would choose Ishine over IH for you. Both are great but Ishine has more pull and it has its own connecting abilities going for it. It more youthful energetic fun.
Tisha
Whooee, Tisha, you do have a way with words. I was trying to explain this very thing to a male friend of mine a few days ago. Women love to feel nurtured and swept away by romance, we like a gentleman…yadda yadda…
It’s all true, but some of the time, probably more often than we would willingly admit, we just want to be overwhelmed by a raw, powerful passion that will brook no resistance. I’m talking about tangled in the sheets, tipping over furniture, leave me weak in ALL my joints passion. Caveman response sums it up very nicely.
Mike, I can practically guarantee that your wife is not telling you what kind of attention she gets from other men to make pleasant conversation. She is looking for tangible, immediate reassurance that you want her as much, or more, than they do. She is looking for a response that reminds her that you find her attractive, desirable.
Poor guys, someone should give them a manual when they get to dating age… “Secrets of women, why they act the way they do.”
Ok I’ve ordered the a314, tuth, and instant shine.
If I understand correctly I should try one first, so I’ll start with the instant shine, and then add the a314. I’ll save the tuth for those occasional nights.
How many days should I wait until I add the a314?
Try one first, any one, by itself, until you are comfortable and familiar with the effects and dosage needed to achieve those effects. The first day use one drop or spray only. If no effect, do two the next day. And so on.
Be careful not to use too much, because that can confuse people and cause you to possibly be shunned or ignored.
Next, try another one, by itself, the same way, until you have mastered it.
Once you have tried them all separately and understand them, you can try combinations of two. And so on.
Does that make sense?