I’m very happily married to a lovely, responsive person, and we have always enjoyed regular, passionate sex together.
So, what’s my problem? Well, it’s the nature of the sex that’s somewhat limiting, which is mainly due to certain inhibitions my wife has concerning anything other than straightforward intercourse. I think it’s a hangover from her religious upbringing. My comviction is that her deeper self would love to ‘play’ more (as it used to) but the ‘voice of authority’ is getting stronger and nowadays seems to have the last say.
So I wondered if there might be a product that helped with deeper sexual inhibitions, for someone who has a no qualms about intercourse, per se?
My wife is also very keen on getting to orgasm as soon as possible, not because she wants to get it over with, but because she likes climaxing so much she can’t wait. So I also wonder if there’s anything that might help her be patient and enjoy the journey more - while still keeping the end in view.
She’s also quite ticklish, so doesn’t much like french kissing, earlobe nibbling, nipple stimulation, etc. Is there anything available that might make that more enjoyable for her?
Finally, I often talk to my wife about getting into a ‘sexual trance’. When this happens, it’s magic; but she doesn’t seem to have the patience or the inclination to pursue it, although she loves it when she finds herself in such a state by accident. Is there anything that might help with this?
In a nutshell:
Iinhibition
Patience
Ticklishness
Trance
One small problem is that neither of us uses scents on our bodies. Even our soap is odourless. All the available products seem to be scented - is there any way of avoiding making it obvious I have put something on my skin?
Well, the Neroli scent is very light. Light enough that once it dries down it’s hardly noticeable and can easily be covered with your own cologne of choice. The reason why they’re not completely unscented is because most pheromones stink when not diluted in a scent package so either way you’d have to wear a scent either way unless you want to smell like piss.
For the description you gave it definitely sounds like you need TUTH, IH, and maybe IS since IS helps to brighten moods while giving the wearer a youthful vibrant attractive vibe that makes them fun to be with. IH helps to deepen communication, add a sense of trust, and make people around you feel comfortable with you (like if they’ve known you for years.) And since it adds trust, that’s where the name IH comes in since people will feel like they can trust you. TUTH will help spark the fire, but keep in mind that if your wife isn’t comfortable doing something she doesn’t want to do and is set on that decision chances are the pheromones won’t help. It will help bring out any subconscious wants/needs, but it won’t make people do what they don’t want to do.
I suggest you try TUTH (Turn Up the Heat – Sensual Pheromone Spray Cologne for Men - Alpha A314), it’s a 'none-based, product, keep in mind that 'none is potent stuff, and it’s easy to overdose it and get undesired effect, by all means try it, but do heed the warnings and use small doses to start with. Use it in situations were you are planning on being intimate, perhaps a half spray and see how it works out then work it up, slowly. As already memtioned, IH should also go along with your efforts- open communication is a must in your situation.
Thanks for the welcome! I acknowledge your point about open communication, but should that extend to revealing to my wife that I’m trying this stuff, if and when I do?
The products here all come scented with a basic neroli fragrance. Its a little hard to get unscented, but try calling Steve at the 800 number, he’s pretty cool and may be able to help you. Another thing about the added scent is that it aids in the product’s diffusion. If neither of you ever wears anything scented, your wife will definitely know something’s up. Perhaps you could say its aromatherapy? because in a way, that’s what it is, so your not really lying.
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