**I am in my early 30’s. I have been married for 10 years. We live in the Southern United States. My wife is a wonderful mother and a beautiful woman, but she lacks sexual passion - better said, she does not allow herself to express it. She is a passionate person when she really lets her guard down. But these days - and for the past 4 or 5 years - she has rarely let her guard down. I have tried many things to help take care of this but nothing has worked. I’ve tried simply spending more quality time with her, and it will help some, but she always retreats back to her old ways after a while. I finally got desperate enough about two months ago and I ordered some pheremones from another company - the product I ordered was supposed to be oderless. Sadly, she could smell it and she did not like the smell at all. It was a big turn off for her. I did some more research and stumbled upon this site so I figured I should get some input from people who have actually been successful with this stuff. **
So, what should I try to get her to be more passionate? What would be the best way to get her to come out of her shell? The few recent times that I have been able to get her to really let go of inhibition she has been amazing and it really “shocks” me, but she only does this when she pushes every other thing out of her mind. I would like to find something that helped her get to that point on a more frequent basis.
When I read your post, one thing came to mind instantly. Women need to feel completely relaxed and secure before they can begin to feel passionate. I think Moonwhisper said something along those lines in another post in the Introductions forum.
Maybe you need Instant Honesty. Most pheromones are sold on the sex, sex, sex sells image. Therefore they carry androstenone, which is the black knight of pheromones - dark, sexual, passionate male energy. This is what she can smell.
Honesty doesn’t carry androstenone. Instead, it uses betanol, a pheromone that encourages deep communication. Women love to talk and if she can talk about things, she’ll feel happier and a lot more willing to let the sexual animal in her loose.
Thanks for the quick response. I was thinking that I should go in that direction first since perhaps the previous pheremone I tried made her feel like I was coming on too hard.
She MAY feel a bit frightened or ashamed of her own passion and worry that it will turn you off. So when she does display passion, reward her for it. Tell her that you really like it when she does that, it makes her so beautiful to you, etc etc. If it does shock you a bit, don’t let her know it. You need to make her feel that there is nothing she can do that will make you stop loving her. You have to show it though, saying it won’t be believed. David Deida has written a number of books on this for men, well worth checking out.
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Thanks for the response. I think something along the lines of Instant Honesty or Instant Openness is the way to go for now. I’ll see how it works and post the results as soon as I can.
