Bear with me 'cause I’m not very good with forums or talking via computers.
I really don’t know anything about Pheromone’s I just happened to stumble across an ad over the internet so I started looking for information to see if it’s real or not, and landed here. I’m glad I did.
I’m a 41 year old female who has been married to the same man for 20 years. We have 4 kids ages 7-14 (3 boys & 1 girl). Some things have happened in our relationship over the last…well, 20 years, but finally came to a head in the last year. Now my husband wants the warm, wonderful, connected marriage that I’ve tried to obtain over the years.
I no longer do. Well, I do want it…but I no longer desire it, does that make any sense. If he walked out the door it would not devastate me, although that is not what I want.
The other problem we have is he works out of town so we only see each other for a weekend every couple of months. It seems to take me the whole weekend just to warm up to him being home. I know that sounds horrible, but it is what it is.
So there’s my problem. I’m not here looking for marriage advice, just wanted to give some detail as to what I’m looking for. I guess I’m looking for something that he can wear to see if it can help get some of those feelings pumping again, and is there anything I can wear to no only attract him more, but that would also help me with my seemingly hibernating(gosh I hope they are just hibernating) feelings toward him.
Personality…hmmmm, I’m reserved, yet open. Quiet, yet not uncomfortably so. Not shy. Once I get to know people I open up a bit more and loosen up…but that can take some time. I’m very much independent and take charge type. Have my moments of silliness and cutting up with people I’m comfortable with. Not against innocent flirting with friends I know well, and they know I’m not serious. Never flirt with strangers. I’m a country girl and very conservative.
I hope all this info. helps. Thanks in advance for any help you can give a newbie.
For him I would recommend that he wear Tuth; some people call it, ‘sex in a bottle’, it’s very arousing and best used when you want him; those situations were you to be drawn toward him. I suggest that he use some social pheromone with Turn Up The Heat to act as buffering agents; such as, Instant Openness or Instant Honesty.
As for yourself, I suggest you try some Instant Sexiness (Instant Sexiness – Original Androtics Formula for Women - Alpha A314). It comes in two versions, A & B. IS/a is a strongly seductive, confident sort of sexy. IS/b is a softer, more playful, kittenish sort of sexy. Select the one that is congruent to your personality.
you are in a awesome community of cool and great peole, as the cool guy above me suggested, TUTH and Ammo for your husband is a very wise choice, but first of all please tell us more about your husband’s personality and the kindda guy you want him to be instate. if he is shy, or not too social .. instant honesty will be a good choice, if you want him to give off some alpha vibe, then Alpha314 + Instant shine is a good choice, you may also want to get him some Instant honesty, so it helps you guys with your relationship problem.
so overal, for now i would recomend you to go with the following
Ammo (for sexual relationship and good moods)
TUTH (bed time pleasure) Instant Honesty (for trust)
Instant Gentlmen (if you cant buy Alpha314 for now)
cheers again and wish you a strong bond in your relationship.
Hey ajantwine, nice to meet you. Probably some girl will pop in and give more insightfull advice, that a man giving advice on womans relationship is always complicated.
In my opinion, you still dont really know what you want. You feel like you want to rediscover your lover for your husband to spike up your sex life, one week a month, this is comendable but might have some side effects. Enhacing your libido means you would want it when he hes not home and this would be bad. Pheromones are really the safest choice, but you also must be carefull, dont let your husband know what you are using on him. If it works on you works on other people . So just buy a TUTH for him, buy a cologne bottle at sephora and switch the content to the sephora bottle, try find if they have a dark one. When is home tell him you had a very good disccount on the perfume, just had to change the bottle because the atomiser didnt work. It must be kept in no light zone, tell him that this is for him to use only when is home for you that you like the smell and control the sprays you put on him so he dosent od .
For you I will go along with instant sexiness, sillykitty explained the difference on another thread between the Instant Sexiness products, IS/A and IS/B. IS/A will give you a strong sexy alpha female signature, and IS/B will give you more of a soft sexy kittenish vibe. Depending on which way your personality leans, you can choose them to enhance what you already have, or you can use them to soften or toughen mens’ perceptions of you. Also Instant honesty for more bonding, and when you will be more adept at using mones you will like to understand the uses of taa and tal . If you want to be more dominant and respected, not only in house but also outside you could use mx300. That is all I have to give of knowledge
The best products your guy can wear for your situation are Instant Honesty and Turn Up The Heat. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to your conversations and help to re-establish the emotional bond.
Turn Up The Heat is best for right before “bed”, and will definitely add some spice.
Another one that may help is Ammo. It will give his confidence and sex appeal a boost, and hopefully make him more attractive to you.
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I can’t thank everyone enough for your input and suggestions. I will be trying IS/B and getting TUTH and maybe Ammo also for my husband. I can’t wait to have something to report. Wish us luck.
And don’t forget to “learn” your products properly so that you get the most out of them. This post should help: How to find your sweet spot…
And if you have any questions, just ask! The Men’s Section is probably best for questions regarding the products for you husband, and the ladies in the Womens Section can help with your goodies.
but might have some side effects. Enhacing your libido means you would want it when he hes not home and this would be bad.