Hi, I’m a 23 year old female from Singapre (a tiny country in south east asia). I’ve been reading up on pheromones recently and think it’s quite interesting. Well..basically, my bf and I have been dating for a year, recently the sparks between us have died down quite abit. Last week, he told me he wants a breakup. Hopefully, with pheromones I’d be able to make him want me back, get him to want me like before. I want him to desire me without knowing why, maintain his sexual attraction towards me. We’ve got good sexual chemistry, both of us are quite erotic and willing to please each other, so I’d like to keep it that way and at the same time, help him to open up to me more as we have a serious communication breakdown. (which was the main reason why the r/s broke down)So yup, please advise on what products are suitable for the above needs. Thanks!
Hi and welcome here Singapore girl !
Good to see another women joining us !
I know … Singapore is a nice place .. have never been there .. but guess .. i´ve been flying Singapore Airlines 
You´re not alone beeing from Singapore .. many many guys from there are here on the board … Pheromones seem to be pretty popular where you live ..
If i understand you right have yo been actively searching for pheromones to enhace your relationship
Pheromones will help you a lot in getting him back but you have to understand that they are tools that won´t turn your boyfriend into somebody without will ..
i suggest you figure out why there´s a lack of interest … this is very very necessary .. you know ..
and that´s where i see the most benefit you can get out of Pheromones for the beginning ..
I´m sure you will get him back … Mones are powerful ..
o.k. you´re saying that you´re 23 .. but would you mind to tell us a bit more about you … what is your personality like … do you have other goals in using Pheromones except from enhancing your relationship …
How have you heard about Pheromones and how did you find this site ?
here´s some stuff you should read –>
**How do I know if I am getting hits !!
What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers**
and of course .. something really great offered by Androtics .. you can get a 25$ welcome Gift Certificate that you can spend on the AD - store – https://a314.com/ –
here is how to .. http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/how-do-i-qualify-25-gift-21539.html
you will get an 5$ GC as well when you register on the store so you can start with 30$ for free … sounds great huh ..
O.k. …
let´s talk about what to do to get your guy talking and more passionate toward you
There are several fantastic products sold by Androtics and you should as well check out the product descriptions in the store ..
— for getting your boyfriend talking you can use 2 products that are based on social Pheromones …
- Instant Honesty which deepens conversations and makes people trust you more … it´s attractive on it´s own and it´s a fantastic product to break the ice when dosed a bit higher ..
this one would be perfect to figure out what´s going on into your guys brain
- Instant Openness which is A-nol based and is intended to make People talk more and more … it creates a fun … light atmosphere … and it´s something that creates good mood ..
- Instant Sexiness … ( unfortunately out of stock at the moment ) A product that makes you absolutely appealing to men … i gave it to a former girlfriend and she´s been using it .. this stuff made me cuddling with her a lot and there was pure magnetism ..
Please post your qestions over at the women´s forum as well as here at the intro board is not that much traffic that you´d get the attention by women you earn ..
read up on the stickies here and at them women´s place … really good info and the people who put all this together surely spent innumerous hours doing so ..
I´m looking forward hearing more from you …
Be free to start you own journal .. and keep us on track how things are going !
I hope one of the women will jump in and give you a female view of the things ..
once again thanks for joining us and
Things will be fine …
Pago
P.M check the trading thread from time to time for instant Sexiness
Hi, Greaypetal.
Welcome to the forum.
I see you are going through a not so good personal situation and you want to get as much help as you can.
I don´t know if pheromones can help you woth that situation. I don´t even know it it´s even a good idea, but i guess you are going to try… I don´t have any experience with women´s products, so i can only suggest you to read some thereads that can serve you as guidance.
What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated
picking sexy products -whats your intention?
LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!
How do I know if I am getting hits !!
If i were you, i would read them a couple of times and take some notes, the order the products you find more sutable for yousr situation.
Also, i would read the women´s section, to see if i can find someone else who is trying to do the same thing you are doing.
Hope this helps.
Good luck with your relationship.
Talk to you soon.
Hey Pago, thanks for your reply! Hopefully I’d be able to find my fellow Singaporeans on this forum.Yup, I know pheromones wont turn my guy into one without will, in fact if he becomes one without will I prob will run far far away from him! 
Well, as of now I’m still not quite sure what exactly caused the breakdown in our r/s. He has not been very forthcoming about it. Just kept saying that it’s fault that his feelings have changed, he’s confused about what he feels for me now. But I know he still cares for me. These past few months, we just dont seem to communicate, he’s not sharing much about his life with me anymore..So he’s decided to take a break, because he doesnt want to keep me in this empty and unfulfiling r/s.
Yes, we have quite a few problems that needs to be worked on. For example, my mum hates him and thinks he’s not a good catch. Asian parents typically remain very involved in their adult children’s lives so I cannot possibly ignore my mum and marry him despite her objections. At this point, I’m thinking if I should add mones into both their perfume/cologne.
Basically, I feel that he’s built a wall around himself and I cant seem to get past that. However, sexual relations between us were good, despite the communication breakdown.
Hence, I’d like to maintain that as well as help him open up to me and trust me more so that we can resolve the communication issue between us. That’s my main aim in using mones.
In terms of looks, I’d describe myself as slightly above average. But people have given me feedback that they found me intimidating at first. I give them the impression that I’m no nonsense type of person and not someone that they can mess around with. I dont want people to feel intimidated but would like them to feel comfortable in my presence, to be able to trust me more. I’m quite an honest and straightforward person. I’ve also been told that I’m quite blunt at times. However, as Asians, most of us prefer people who’re able to bite their tongues abit instead of telling people off in their faces. Most of my close friends appreciate this characteristic of mine, but I’ve driven away a few potential friends with my straightforward nature. I’m trying to bite my tongue, change my phrasing to make it less hurting but I’d appreciate some help in making people feel more receptive towards me.
Lastly, I found out about mones almost accidentally. These past few months I’ve been reading up on flirting, how to make your guy notice you etc.. to salvage my r/s. Accidentally stumbled on a writeup about mones and I’m just so intrigued by it. If it works on my guy and me, I really hope to promote it among my friends. Among my friends, not many know about it and I dont see it sold anywhere in Singapore. So yup, hope to learn more about it and make more friends as well =)
Hi there welcome to the forum 
Hiya ..
I´ve sent you some help from Singapore !
AND i´m sure you´ve just found a few friends ..
I´m from Europe and i don´t have so much insight into Asians culture and so i think my buddy will help you ..
Pago
Yup, thanks! Your friend just PM-ed me =)
Welcome greypetal, glad to see you on this forum. Please note that due to Singapore’s tropical weather, the lifespan of mones is reduced. You might need to constantly refresh your mones (with IS its around 1-2 hours, IH and IO between 3-4 hours)
On dates with mones I would suggest locations with air-conditioning, probably a setting that allows you and him to be constantly close. I wouldn’t suggest a trip to Newton Hawker Centre or an afternoon out blading at East Coast Park, or even a walk at the windy Marina Barrage. The efficacy of your mones will be reduced and the sweat and humidity will cause your mones to break down real fast.
Some activities and dates you can consider going on are
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Movies out or at his/your place, where you can lean on him and he can cuddle you and nuzzle you. Good application points will be your neck.
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Picnics but at locations with lower wind strength, closer proximity and use of mones might make you come across as brighter, more cheerful. 阳光女孩. Its important to match your mones with your environment
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Cooking at your place or his together. This might be tricky as singaporeans tend to live with your parents, and if your guy is the chauvinistic kind he might not be open to the idea.
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Try doing activities that you once used to do together in the past, only this time amp up on the mones and hopefully mones + activities will trigger something in his mind, a recall of the attraction and spark he once had for you.
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Application of mones to your chest region before and lead up to sex.
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Consider the possibility of spraying mones on your pillow/bed but this might lead to build up of mones, if you do this make sure you wash your sheets regularly and probably with an enzymatic laundry soap/cleaner.
If you’d like, you could pm me and I’ll provide you a specific list of places and activities that you could try with regards to mones.
It isn’t recommended that new users try out the putatives but I would recommend one for you, it is pretty all purpose and will work well for you, and around your mom and bf. Do some research on P78
If you’re aiming for a DTR (define the relationship talk) or as we say here HTHT, I would recommend wearing IH. You could also wear IO along with the IH but keep a constant watch on yourself not to be overly talkative or overtly “frank” as the nols might propagate extreme communication reactions. They tend to amplify the tone of the situation and emotions sometimes.
I wouldn’t recommend you putting pheromones into your boyfriend or mom’s cologne/perfume for 2 reasons. 1) There are mones for specific occasions 2) It seems a little extreme
A little more bubbliness, a little more playfulness, not overly the top that he feels you’re acting or pretending. Singaporean guys are pretty passive sometimes and I’ve noticed that recently the girls have been the ones to make the first move or be proactive.
Talk things out, work the relationship out, set goals. Mones aren’t the magic solution to everything, but they can help alot when used in the appropriate manner. Relationships aren’t only about attraction, sex or emotions, relationships are work, work that both parties need to be committed and willing about.
Hopefully things will work out for you. Best of luck
hi Greypetal ! I would suggest going with IH and Instant Sexiness. IH while it promotes conversation at a deeper level is also good for bonding with people. So while Instant Sexiness can trigger and maintain the sexual attraction.. IH can help in renewing that bond between you and your lover. Add a little Instant Shine to this so that he feels happy whenever he is around you. subconsiously he will associate that happy feeling to you and this will also help in drawing him towards you.
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I would suggest getting IH in 2X. You need to open up the lines of intimate communication so you can find out why he has lost that feeling.
Just from your posts I do have a ideal what it is though. I know its your culture for parents to stay involved in there kids lives and I know you cant just forget about your mom but at some point in an adult relationship you have to put your man before your mama.
I am sure he is aware that your mom doesn’t like him and he is aware that you wont put him before her. That doesn’t leave much room for a future together. He indicated this right here >
Yes it sounds like he is trying to save you from a bad relationship but what he is telling you is he doesn’t feel fulfilled. He is trying to save himself from the relationship not you. So if you want him back you need to ask yourself what need does he have that you are not fulfilling.
Its not a issue of sexual need because you have said that was good between you. However while sex an important part of a good relationship its not what makes the relationship work. Making him want you like before wont change the fact that he is unfulfilled. You need the connecting and bonding mones. IH increases intimacy and feels of connection. I think Ishine would be another good choice for you to add warmth to your personality since you mention you intimidate sometimes.
All the dating tips are fine but your well past that point in the relationship and all the picnics and the dinners in the world are not going to repair whats been broken. Pheromones are not going to fix whats broken. Only you can do that by sitting down with him and exploring what went wrong and what his needs are. Pheromones can help that talk be more productive though.
So get IH in 2X concentration and Ishine.
Good luck
Tisha
Welcome to pherotalk greypetal!
With any break up sometimes the person just needs his or her space to realize just how much they mean to you and it’s hard to not call but take this time to build your self confidence, to figure out what you really want out of this relationship and you not trying to contact him or be up on him will make him wonder and since you guys shared so much chemistry he will eventually call just to see what you up to.
Your gc was issued!