Hello, I’m new here and a little nervous about posting. But from the posts that I have read just lurking everyone seems really great and friendly, so that helps.
Okay, here goes. Why am I here and what am I looking for?
My husband and I are both 45 and coming up on our 20th anniversary. Every thing about our relationship is the best. Everything except sex. Our sex life through the years has gradually slowed down to the point of almost being non existent at times.
Husband has had some ED issues in the past and has been to the doctor and is on medication now. If you ask him he thinks the pills are a miracle drug and work great. If you ask me they are just okay and a lot of the “miracle” part of them is simply a placebo effect of him thinking because he is taking them they are working great.
I know he is still attracted to me and I still always seem to think he is the best looking man in the room. We are still very flirty together. There is the occasional grab-ass play.
What I am looking for is another little edge to add to the arsenal. Now that he is thinking things are great, I think we are on the road to them actually being great again.
I want something that will enhance his reaction to me. And if I am really honest, it wouldn’t hurt if there was something to enhance my reaction to him at times either. Coming up in the not too distant future we have the big anniversary coming up. We are taking a week at an incredible beach resort for adults only. So I’ve got the setting and atmosphere all lined up.
Do you think that pheromones could help us? Should I ditch the idea and go rent us some dirty movies (which was our doctor’s suggestion)?
I would suggest Instant Sexiness as the girls on the forum has great results and lust after me throw in some socials to top it off.
I would suggest you Start out with Socials
Instant Shine: to exude confidence It really helps you to express yourself more freely.
Instant Honesty: to make conversations lasting, deeper and more personal.
Instant Openness: A great way to get things started." It allows you and those around you to just "Relax and watch the barriers melt away Usable at work and with friends, new or old, helps to lighten the mood and increase the flow of communication.
Your comment really made me smile Im sure he still loves your very much and thinks of you as his all time favorite one and only girl.
If he is willing to get involved himself with pheromones he could wear AMMO or TUTH on himself for your benefit as it will will probally arouse you a great deal as well really High Adrostenone factor which will be absolutely perfect for your age group pardon me
Im sure the fantastic girls of our circus will help you out sorry “cough” forum I saw an add on TV for the Circus and I want to go lol.
Hope everything works out for you babe and if you have questions just ask we’ll try to help you out.
Well I am happy you decided to post, we love to have you participation in the forum. Alot of us started out with mones to spice up a existing relationship. Including myself. I am always looking for fun new ways to drive him insane with lust LOL
I suggest LAM as well. Its androtics big copulin formula. Now word of warning. I would put it in the cart then go to custom additions and get it in another scent because it dosnt not smell good in ylang ylang. It will cost more but you will be glad you did it. If you dont want to do that its fine but you will need to use a cover scent with it. There is a trick to doing it effectively. Apply mones let them dry down for 10 to 15 minutes then cover. Oh on a side note just so you know customs take longer to ship.
Now to spice things up for you, I am going to suggest a mens product but you can use it. TUTH. dont spray it on just use a few dabs. This will make him more aggressive and you hot as hell.
I always suggest a bottle of Instant sexiness because I think every women should have one. It attracts attention, makes you feel sexy and confident and can cause mild arousal in males. Good stuff really.
I have been married 21 years This july and I also find that the socials work really well on my husband. They bring a renewing effect to our relationship. IH IO and Ishine are all great and inexpensive in the to-go bottle if you want to try them. IH is my favorite right now I got it in 4X but regular is fine to start with.
If you have any questions just ask, Be sure to come on down to the ladies section and join in. We shae all sorts of tips on how to drive the male population mad
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I’m new here too so I can’t give any pheromone advice, but I wanted to say hi and welcome anyway. This forum has been really awesome so far.
I am married as well. I’ve only been married for six years, but I totally understand the loss of the sex life. I already had a young child when we got married and we now have our third in the house - we are always too tired, too aggravated, too grumpy, or I’m just too mad at the world to be interested! Now he travels every week and is home only on weekends and it’s even worse than before!
Let me know if you find a product that works for you two and I’ll do the same
Welcome to a great forum - I hope you enjoy it as much as I have.
Thanks for all the great welcomes and good wishes.
I understand that with our different body chemistries that this is somewhat of a trial and error process. So I am really glad to get the recommendations on where to start.
I’m making my lists and waiting for my GC. Then let the experimentation begin!
lol.
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