Hello, I just wanted to introduce myself. I’m a 43 year old male, in a very unique situation in my opinion; after spending 10 years in the military I have had the opportunity to go back to school, and live on campus. Now before you guys out there think that I just want to prey on women that are young enough to be my daughter, just remember: all women are someone’s daughter. That being said, I’m single, never been married, and no children. After that statement you might say, “gawd, there must be REALLY something wrong with him.” But after looking at some of the attitudes among the women I have met lately I’ve had to ask myself, “Do I REALLY want one of those??” (women, you have said the same thing about men)
Now, why am I here, you ask? I’m just looking for something that will help break through the defensive systems that women seem to possess. They seem to think that the first mission after saying “hello” is seeing how fast I can get her pants off. It always amazes me how some women can be judgmental, saying that guy who would pay $200-$300 for some company and perhaps sex are pitiful and the women who do that are trashy (er, that’s about $1.99/lb ) but notice how for the price of a couple of drinks, social banter, and maybe a late night meal (which can be less than $50) some women’s clothes will “magically” fall off!
But I digress; I’m not unfamiliar with pheromones; years ago I used to wear a scent called “Realm”, which purported to use pheromones. I didn’t nor do I expect a reaction like that in the 1992 movie “Love Potion No. 9” with Sandra Bullock; I just want to open women up to the possibility of meeting a great guy, who they claim to want, and taking it from there. I look forward to reading all of your suggestions, experiences, and stories.
Wow, cooljazz. Great intro post. Insightful and thoughtful all rolled into a few paragraphs!
I’ve heard of Realm. Not used it and don’t know either way what expectations you would have with that ‘old’ mone product.
However, I’d ask, what the age range of your targets? Will this be at ‘parties’ or on campus, primarily?
AMMO has been mentioned and I’d suggest IShine with that as well. Your comments as well as your age would also be able to pull off A314 as well, though, depending on the how ‘mature’ your targets will be… A314 in many cases, I’ve seen with it on, will have younger gals feel uncomfortable or ‘unworthy’ to be in your presence unless you comfort them with your attitude and conversations.
AMMO and IShine, though, may be better for the sexy confidence vibe.
I’m sure others will comment on this as well, but, I’d ask you to consider those questions…
Lol, I see where you are coming from but the idea is that if you seem , appear or act too easy then the man looses respect.
So you got to make him work for it, even if it’s at least buying you dinner.
I don’t think women are impressed with the dinner you bought as opposed to as I said not just jumping in bed with you even if they want you as you guys just met or spoke. In the end it’s not the same thing.
I say to each his own and as long as you are honest with what works for you, what you want then you should find a woman to co operate and if things go wrong you know to yourself you were honest from the start.
I know the feeling. I have the size and look (the old Clint Eastwood thing) that can sometimes put people on the defensive.
What you want to do is lighten yourself up phermonally.
You might want to look at IG. It does not have any none in it. What it will give you is a cool, smooth calm kinda vibe. A very laid back alpha. This might help some - it does for me. A nice side effect is that it can often make older guys seem a little younger which can certainly help in your situation at college.
After that think the social products. IO & IShine together is almost like a party in a bottle. A lot of happy gabbing. OTOH an IO & IH combination would be good for generating a lot of conversation. The IO helps with the initial conversations and the IH helps draw them into deeper conversations.
@ 1Alpha: As far as the “pool” that I have to select from they’re from college age women to women plus or minus 10 years my age (that happens during mom’s weekend usually). People say I look 10 years younger than I am, and I don’t feel like 43. I like to tell all of those who seem to be hung up on my age: you know what happens if you don’t reach 40? You didn’t make it! That being said I’m not hung up on a women’s age, but mainly what she has between the ears.
@ Bosshank: I guess I am come off as intimidating at times; I’m 6’4, outgoing. Everyone seems to know me, but I may not remember them. I have lots of women friends and acquaintances, but I never seem to be a first choice (or a last choice) when it comes to the “critical hour” of the evening (translation: if you are not talking to her now you’re going home alone). I’m not sure why that is, been trying to figure that out. I’m not into “reindeer games”; if you can’t be upfront about what you want, then I don’t want to put up with you. Women outside the U.S. seem to be more direct about what they want (could use some validation fellas ) That being said, I’m not sure if I need to “lighten myself up pheromonally” or make myself more sexually appealing.
@kelsey: Lol, I always figured that women were about: “What would you do for a Klondike bar?” Some women don’t want to admit they are sexual creatures; they go into denial when it comes to their sexual encounters. They are caught doing the “walk of shame” across campus the next morning (afternoon?), mainly blaming it on the “al-kee-hawl” when it was always there to begin with. I understand women don’t want to cheapen themselves, but their cookie ain’t made out of solid gold, and those who think it is while they’re getting passed around like a plate of biscuits at a lumberjack camp has some real personal issues I think. While I was overseas women who wanted to kick it with you would let you know 10-15 min into a conversation; if you weren’t gonna get anywhere with her she let you know, too! That, as a man, is all I need to know. Women in the U.S. seem to be looking for the “bigger and better deal” and will allow you to waste 30 min - hr, a couple of drinks, before she let’s you know that she sees something better than you!
Anyway, thanks for you responses, I think I’m gonna like this site. For those who don’t know the movie “Love Potion No. 9” Here’s the trailer:
That being said, I’m single, never been married, and no children. After that statement you might say, “gawd, there must be REALLY something wrong with him.” But after looking at some of the attitudes among the women I have met lately I’ve had to ask myself, “Do I REALLY want one of those??” (women, you have said the same thing about men)
) but notice how for the price of a couple of drinks, social banter, and maybe a late night meal (which can be less than $50) some women’s clothes will “magically” fall off! 
