I am male, 30 and live in London. Got out of a long term relationship about 6 months ago and since then there’s not been much action in my life. I suffer from the typical “nice guy” syndrome. I am looking for something that’ll help me get more confident and be more visible sexually. So that I can meet new people easier.
I found this forum while reading reviews of the various products. I myself have never used any pheromone products before and I would welcome any suggestions as to which products would help me most.
Also I wonder how long it usually takes for an order to reach London? Any ideas or experiences on that? I am leaving for a vacation in about 8-9 days and was wondering If I should order now or wait till I come back.
Welcome to the forums, and thank you for the background information. When you say “nice guy” what exactly makes you feel like that’s your niche? Do you feel like that’s how girls view you? Or is that how you view yourself?
Let me touch on the few aspects you’re curious about…
More confident: Do some reading on a314, AMMO, and P75. Not a combination, mind you, but each one individually. These typically share a common self effect of giving the user more confidence. Not only will you feel the change, but others around you will feel it as well.
Sexually visible: Read up on TUTH, and Instant Jerk. These two can be combined with AMMO for a very sexually-direct social mix, or worn alone when you’re in the right venue and amongst the right company (club/bar/pub etc).
Meet new people: Read up on Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, and Instant Openness. These are considered “The Socials”. They can be used alone or in a mix to buffer the more aggressive mones such as TUTH. Honesty=open communication, deep rapport, and that feeling of connection. Shine=happiness and an all around feeling of well being. Openness=opening the floodgates of chatter. If honesty is Quality, think of Openness as Quantity.
I would suggest taking the next week before your vacation to read about the various “consumer line” products and familiarize yourself with their uses and possible combinations. Read through the stickies, and poke around some of the Men’s journals for others’ experiences. Then ask some questions if you’re still curious… Use the Search function in the top right of the forum page, though. More often than not you can find the answer you’re looking for.
By the time you’re back from vacation you should be ready to make a purchase.
You could totally take a look at Ammo or Turn Up The Heat. You may even have some luck with Instant Jerk. Honestly, I recommend picking up Ammo for the sexual vibe, Instant Shine for it’s self effects and effects on other and some Instant Openness for getting conversation going once you get someone interested. Then you MIGHT want to pick up Turn Up The Heat for use once you’ve spent some time with a specific girl or if you are going to be hitting the dance floor of clubs where a lot of people are already in a sexually driven mood.
sharkndragon and ryanmercer thank you very much for the responses! They were very helpful!
sharkndragon, I feel that the girls view me as a nice guy (and I usually stay in the friend zone), and to some extent I myselft feel that too (I don’t like it very much lately but I also cant help it).
I have done some reading of my own in the mean time, and I am very interested in trying instant shine, tuth, and instant honesty, though the later is a bit expensive. Do you guys know when I might get the $25 gift?
Also does anyone know how long it usually takes for an order to reach London or any other city in Europe for that matter?
Thanks very much again for the very helpful messages.
I can’t speak for the shipping times to London, but there are many UK users on the forum that can chime in.
You say you can’t help it, but I disagree. The fact that you don’t want to be the “friend” guy indicates you have it inside of you to break out… this is something that the right mones can Help with, but they can’t turn you into an Alpha. Consider mones as the push in the right direction. You have to have the want and desire to follow through.
TUTH is a very strong, very sexual pheromone, and should normally be saved for those moments where closing a girl is imminent, OR buffered heavily with some socials (IH, IO, IS) otherwise its like walking around with your cock hanging out…
Like I said, check out a314 sprays, and AMMO. both pair very well with Instant Shine and Instant Honesty, AND can help give you the confident feeling you’re looking for.
Mikaelia will issue the GC, and she’s been really good about it lately checking in about once a week. She’ll do a mass issue to all the new introductions…