Hi - i'm new here & very interested in Pheromone products

Age: 37
Gender: Male
Location: Manchester, U.K.

Hi all,

Just thought i’d drop in here & give a quick hello.
I’ve knew nothing at all about pheromones until i recently started to research & came across this forum. I first came across a load of affiliate sites that were so biased towards their own products. What i like here are the frank suggestions and guidance from other forum members.

Here’s my story…
I’m a 37yr old white caucasian. I would probably describe myself as a 7/10 in physical appearance and extremely shy when it comes to meeting people.
When i ‘warm up’ to people after a few minutes of conversation, i’m fine, get on really well with most. It’s just that initial ‘first contact.’
I lack confidence in meeting new people (bizarrely, most people i meet say i exude confidence). I think that’s the main problem, coupled with the fact that i’m from a very formal background.

Anyway, my main reason for dropping in here is to get guidance on the right kind of phero’s to wear.

I’m interested in wearing something to help me feel confident & perk me up on a daily basis, along with those around me so i’ll probably go with a dab of ‘Instant Shine.’

Also looking at enhancing that overall ‘GQ look’ so will probably opt for a touch of ‘Alpha A314’ as well.

And for getting the attention those Yummy Mummies during school pick up (heck, well i’m being honest here), i might opt for ‘Ammunition’ or some ‘Turn Up The Heat’ (sparingly).

I’ll have a few questions about whether to go for oil or spray based & cologne, etc. Where i live in the UK, it’ relatively cool all of the time and cologne doesn’t linger for a long time in this environment.

Thanks for welcoming me to the forum & look forward to sharing my experiences here.

Welcome to Pherotalk. :slight_smile:

From your description of demeanour and wanting to meet open-up to new people, I would suggest something more social and engaging initially.

Formality and lack of confidence can make overt none products like TUTH and high status products like A314 difficult to use effectively. The overt none in TUTH can come off as aggressive or even creepy, whilst A314’s status can be unassailable to the point of being taken as standoffish/not cuddly or just “too good” - However it is a superb mix for professional purposes and with the right situations/steering can convey very attractive qualities to women in their 30s and above, who tend to be more attuned to a status/sexual signature. Not brilliant around youngsters though.

However more social products can work to soften the formal impression and promote more engaging interaction, which can then be driven in a more sexual direction by the more balanced sexual/socal products like Ammo.

Instant Shine is a good one - happy/feelgood and socially confident. Just about the all round mix that AD sells. Good just about anywhere.

IO - helps promote flowing conversation and makes it easier to approach and be approached. Bright/bubbly and friendly feel (does not go well with A314 IME). Also very useful to knock the rawness off of TUTH in clubs and less sexually inhibitated situations. Very useful if you are taking TUTH out to play.

IH - Helps you get to know someone on a deeper level. Good for bonding and getting close. Steer it into happy territory with IS or use to increase the trust element of A314.

IG - A light social suave/status product based on Androsterone but without the daunting aspects of A314 - this might be better for your GQ Man initially and it will be better with the school mums/in daytime.

Ammo - A more social mix of Androstenone, Androstenol and Androsterone - Good in a wider range of social/sexual interaction and practical for work. Its scent is a subject of contention though - some love it others hate it.

You might want to check out the “Killer Newbie Kit” which gives tou a togo of everything at a decent discount (GC is still usable) and has all the above products plus a couple of others to experement with. :slight_smile:

Both oil and alcohol versions are fine for use in UK climes You get good active life out of both - around six hours for sprays and eight-ten hours for oil. Both can be extended a bit by applying over a thin application of lotion, at the expense of a slight reduction in diffusion range - A314 is the only product in oil just now and I would say it is the best version, particularly for longevity, subtlety and overal economy. A bottle will last several months at normal doses.

You will soon find the good competitive oil-base products in discussion if you want to go that route. :slight_smile:

Hello newlind,

You seem to have everything planned out. Good for you.

As far as oil vs alcohol, the oil products such as A314 takes longer to diffuse.

You may want to look into purchasing the Killer newbie kit https://a314.com/

The kit gives you everything in 1 shot saving you postage.

Enjoy your Journey

Welcome newlind to the mone forum, PheroTalk!

Interesting that others find you exude confidence, though you feel a bit awkward and much shyness on the initial meeting. I would suggest you look more closely to the socials such as IO for the shyness, IShine for you to feel good as well and IG for the GQ style you maintain or try to cultivate.
A314 would be a bit much if you’re just starting out with mones as well. Once you can handle these initial tools, you’ll be able to wield the A314 with ease, or at least, with knowledge.

1Alpha

Welcome New,

I hear that people love our forum because it is so open and honest.

I love it because there is so much information it blows your mind and you can never get through to it all

I suggest you read the link in my signature introducing you to mones to confirm what my team has said.

Good luck with everything and enjoy being here

Your gc was issued!

Thank-you so much for your replies here. It’s good to feel so welcomed in a forum.

MOBOCASTER -
You’re absolutely right, i just need something to give me an opening & break the ice in conversations, etc. Probably would opt for IO, IH & IS as the social mones.
Naturally, i would like to try Ammo & TUTH somewhere down the line just to see the effects.

I wasn’t aware of the Killer Newbie Kit. Thanks for making me aware, i hit the order button on the straight away when i saw it contained a bit of everything.

Thanks also for clarifying the sillage, range & effectiveness when using the oil & alcohol versions in the UK weather. I see you’re in Scotland so you definitely have all the weather conditions Mother Nature can throw at you :slight_smile:

PARADOX1 -
The A314 is definitely a product i am interested in. At 5’7" if stood in a crowded room i don’t ‘come over’ as the Alpha male so i think it would help.
I just need to try to social pheremones first & get used to those. Then get used to reactions around me & trying to play the part a little bit better to bring me out of my natural shyness.
After that, then i’ll hit the A314, Ammo & TUTH - probably give the Instant Jerk a wide birth though :wink:

1ALPHA -
I think the problem is that i’m from a military background. I went through Sandhurst officer training with the Army and that gives the outward appearance of confidence. Sadly, i am an introvert. Very shy when introduced to a room of people. It does get awkward at times but when the ice is broken it’s often commented that i don’t stop talking & become the life & soul of the event.
There are also times when i’m so formal & for want of a better term ‘anally retentive’ that my shyness can come across as aloofness, arrogance through not wanting to talk & some people have even thought that they couldn’t talk to me because i was from a higher social class. All of these couldn’t be any further from the truth. I’m just incredibly shy.
The odd thing is, there are times when i get the ‘feel good factor’ usually when it’s really sunny outside or even at the gym, and i’m completely the opposite, i seem to have the confidence to go up & talk to people, even engaging in small talk with the bar staff (not something i would normally do). It’s almost like the first drink on a night out just to give you the Dutch courage.
I’m hoping the social pheremones will help there with breaking the ice.

I’ve also been eyeing up the IS. I have a sneeky feeling that might give me that daily ‘feel good factor’…enough to kickstart me to engage in conversations and interact more.

I considered going with IG but wasn’t sure whether A314 gave more of the ‘GQ appeal.’ I was also worried that the IG product might make me come across as a little too gentlemanly & almost Fatherly - i’d rather be perceived as a young chap than a Sir Tom Jones senior person (no disrespect to Sir Tom).

MICKAELIA -
Hi Mickaelia,
The forum is great. I don’t do anything without first researching and i was delighted that people have done all that for me on this forum.
I compiled a list of questions and as i went through the forum, i saw that every question had already been answered in forum threads.
I’m going to love experimenting with the difference products and seeing their effects.
Thank-you so much for the GC that has already been applied to my first order (the Killer Newbie Kit). I actually wasn’t aware that there was such a kit available until it was pointed out by members in this thread. At least it gives me the chance to try everything out before ordering larger sizes.

I’ll keep you all updated on how things go.

Have to say, i’ve never seen any deliver that LIGHTENING fast.
Your Killer Newbie Kit took just 2 days to get from the West Coast USA to Manchester, England. WTF, do you own DHL? LOL, they’ve never been that fast.
Anyway, got the ‘To Go’ bottles all lined up & readt to do a few tests (including the dreaded OD) to test the effects.
Thanks so much :slight_smile: