Hi guys! I’ve been reading about 'mones quite a bit and have even been experimenting with Pure Instinct and PherX for the last 2 weeks. I’m crazy interested because I’ve got some obvious results, so now I want to learn more and fine tune what I’m doing to better work for my specific situation. Plus it’s about to sound a little complicated, so I need some expert opinion!
I’m 30/Male/White/Southern (Florida,USA) lol, 191 pounds, 5’8" and have a fiancee who I’ve happily been with for 15 years! Yep, high school sweethearts.
:o Stella, is my fiancee 30/F and sex drive is a little low. She’s seeing the doctor on a regular basis and they’re going though different meds to treat her hypothyroidism (low hormone production). She lacks the urge to get frisky most of the time, so I’m looking to experiment with 'mones to boost the overall bedroom mood there. Still great bedroom action from time to time though.
My fiancee’s life-long best friend, Christina, left her man a few months ago and moved in with us. She’s single but shy about getting into the dating scene. Otherwise she’s admittedly feeling frisky a lot of the time. She’s lived with us a few months and we/I love her (as a friend), and I’m looking to enhance platonic friendship (intimate and affectionate but not sexual)… and of course I ran this idea by the boss, my fiancee, and it’s all good. I think I read there where social or trust helping 'mones?
Here’s where it gets interesting!
First-thing’s-first, as a red-blooded guy I had a threesome scene play out in my head the first day Christina moved in with us. Just a fantasy, so I kinda threw it out because Stella is the jealous type and I knew it would never fly. I’m perfectly happy with Stella and would happily take friendzone position with Christina. BUT… a month ago this all changed. We often all stay up late and watch movies or talk and joke about everything under the sun. The ladies were joking about a threesome one night (just joking) and the next day I came clean and explained the fantasy to Stella and pointed out how they’re directly inflating my fantasy… hence my big smirks that night. To my surprise, she understood, said it was a cool fantasy and said “IF” it ever happened there were certain ground rules to follow… ! I was surprised but happy. This was about a month ago, and since then there has been more open “joking” about a threesome, and it’s the ladies bringing it up! The convo almost turns from joking to serious actions, but always seems to stall. I’m hoping that there are some ‘mones that I can introduce to this situation to just barely nudge this kind of convo into the sexier direction. I think we’re close, so I’m determined to see how far it can go. Sorry for the long explanation, but this is probably many guys’ fantasy so I had to get it out there.
With Pure Instinct, I seemed to put Stella in the mood with actual spontaneous bedroom action happening a few times. With PherX I can seem to get Christina very chatty and she’s telling me things she’s never told anyone else. But, I have a sneaking suspicion that PherX has a negative effect on Stella.
Let me take a shot: Is there a certain 'mone/mix that can help 2 ladies feel sexy and trusting to me and to each other?!
Thank you for any advice you can give. I’m willing to buy/try and report back my results.