Hello, new user looking for help in the workplace

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Hi,

I was just doing some online research and came across this website. I am a male in my late 20s and recently started a job with a new company. My previous jobs have mostly involved working with men, and it has always been a comfortable relaxed “boys club” type environment. We’d all look out for each other and do our best not have confrontations etc. We’d all just get along and get on with the job.

However, in my new job, it was predominately female when I started, and now due to internal movements I am one of the very few men left! To say the least, it’s the most uptight, ‘b itchy’, stressful work group I have ever been involved with. It seems every few minutes somebody is preparing for the next confrontation or backstabbing.

I am willing to try anything to help create a more relaxed and happy work environment, at the least when people step into my office, I’d like them to relax and feel at ease around me, and I would like to feel my own anxiety and tension reduce as well.

If anyone here can suggest anything to help I would greatly appreciate it. Feel free to post any other similar threads dealing with these sorts of issues from the past.

Thank you kindly for offering the $25 voucher, I will certainly use it!

AlexanderG

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HI there ,

Welcome to the forum.

I suggest you try Shine and IH.

Shine will uplift the mood of everybody inluding yourself. It is a feel good pheromone. It boost confidence too.

IH wil make everybody closer to you. The wil feel the know you since long ago.

Good luck

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Hey there Alexander, welcome to the forums! Yeouch, sounds like one H*** of a place to work, if you don’t mind me saying so. Women seem to get meaner and meaner with the less men around. Haven’t quite figured out why that is yet…

Anyways, from what you’ve said, i would recommend 2 products for you.. well 3, but the last one is out of stock and pretty hard to get ahold of. The two that are in-stock are Instant Shine and Instant Honesty. The last one is Instant Female Magic, but i’ll explain that in a sec.

Instant Shine gives off a “feel good” kinda vibe, making the people around you feel more energetic and positive, while at the same time giving most people a slight confidence boost. Probably the best thing in right now for trying to get them to be more friendly when they come into your office…

Instant Honesty helps create that feeling of a deep connection with the people you interact with, relaxing them and making them more comfortable talking with you. Also sounds like it would do you a world of good. :wink:

Instant Female Magic was for relaxing women specifically and making them feel more friendly, but the main phero in it (A-1) was patented by another company, so it became pretty economically unfeasible to keep producing large amounts of it. Every now and then it pops back into the store, so see if you cant find it sometime.

Anyways, that’s my two cents. Feel free to ask any questions you might have! Cheers!

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Thanks very much for sharing your knowledge and recommendations, I really appreciate it. I will decide over the next week what I should purchase.

The last few months have been a roller coaster ride in this new job. Due to the stresses that increased my anxiety I have already tried a number of other products including bach rescue remedy spray, valerian and anti-stress vitamin b capsules, st johns wart, kava kava and alcohol with mixed results.

Of these, kava kava capsules have helped, but nothing has worked better than alcohol for numbing out the tensions experienced and just getting on with the day looking and feeling cool and relaxed, despite the challenges! I’ve had to resort to taking 1-2 glasses of red wine or champagne in my sports water bottle to work every day - that’s all I need, sipped at intervals… BUT, the policy is instant dismissal if a staff member is caught with alcohol on site.. so I really need to look at new options.. one of the reasons why I am here.

I suppose my question now is, is there a pheromone product that can have a similar effect to drinking 1-1.5 glasses of wine?

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Hey there AlexanderG, and welcome!

We’re not really supposed to recommend advanced products to new users, as you’re supposed to get some experience with the Instant line under your belt before you dive into those, but for future reference I think the answer to your question here would be TAC, P103, or Spaceland. From those three, perhaps Spaceland would be the easiest for you as a new user to get a handle on.

As far as the Instant line goes, I agree with the recommendations of Instant Shine, but not Instant Honesty. In the workplace you describe, you could get more than you bargained for in wearing IH. It can make people feel closer to you, but it can also make people feel depressed or less likely to govern their tongues under its influence. You could hear things being said to you, about you, to other people that maybe are inappropriate for the workplace. I only say this because you say your workplace is extremely high drama/high stress. It sounds as if people are at each other’s throats, and it wouldn’t take much to send them over the deep end. On the other hand, I use IH at work with little problems. It’s a stressful environment, but not the sort of interpersonal stress you describe. If you decide to try it, at least go with a low dose ToGo (not 2X or 4X) and one spray at first to gauge people’s reactions.

Instead of Instant Honesty, I would recommend Instant Openness. It will draw people to you and allow them to open up more, but maybe not necessarily encouraging them to divulge their deepest darkest secrets or feelings. It should give more of a “happy to be around you” vibe, especially when used in conjunction with Instant Shine.

Make sure you report back on what you get and what the reactions are!

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Thanks very much for taking the time to respond. The fact that you are interested in helping to provide a solution to my problem is very kind. Spaceland sounds interesting!

Perhaps it’s because I am very new to this, but it sounds as if these things can be quite potent and powerful when you speak of ‘advanced products’ and things that are ‘easiest to handle as a new user.’ Makes it sound like these things are potential dangerous weapons!

As a newbie, I have a few other questions.. which may or may not be appropriate..

  • I’d like to know how many posters here are on the company payroll or are associated and get kickbacks from sales, including individuals and multi’s. Is there a list of usernames available?
  • I’d like to know if there are any photographs of the laboratory and production line that makes these products.
  • I’d like to know where I can find biographies of the company director/ceo etc.
  • I’d like to know what other ‘industry professionals’ or ‘competitors’ also post on here. Is there a list of usernames available? I saw in another thread some Dr fellow arguing with another pheromone creator - I think one of them was an author and creator of another pheromone.

Thanks!

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Dear Alexander, please do not jeopardize your new job by doing something that would cause your instant dismissal, not if that job means something to you. Especially if they are a nasty as you are saying.

At least, maybe go to a doctor and get some tranquillizers prescribed :slight_smile:

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The only people, that I know of on this forum who are actually ‘employed’ by the company are Steve, Jasmin and Mickaelia.

As far as “kickbacks” go, I have not heard of such a thing here.

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Thanks Sillykitten, it is just interesting that the brand names are referred to so commonly, and almost always in a positive light, I have never seen this before when I research on other forums. Often there is a load of people that are ‘against’ certain products, labelling them as snake oils.

But, are these products THAT good, SO good, that everyone here loves them!?

Thanks

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I have started recently here myself, and I do understand where you’re coming from. I’m a bit of a skeptic myself, which one of the reasons I became involved with the “Three Blind Mice” project, which you can find in the Women’s Journals.

But, if you really read through every post and report, you will also find that there are reports on things that don’t work for people, and on things that people don’t like. These reports are not hidden, nor deleted. They are here for anyone and everyone to read.

So far in my time here, I have found Instant Openness, MX300, and MX 274 to work easily for me, and with obvious effects.

Others that are extremely popular with many, I have not had great luck with personally, such as Instant Shine and MX135. I really want to love these products, because so many others get such positive results from them. I will keep trying though. Also, there are products that do not show much when used solo, but when mixed with others, begin to show their nature.

There is a learning curve, though, in finding one’s “sweet spot” and also the best places (on oneself) and environments in which to use them.

For example, you might wear Turn Up the Heat to work or to school (but hopefully you won’t :roll_eyes:) and get either no reaction or negative reactions because even if there are effects, people will not show them because it is an inappropriate venue.

My son, who hasn’t read this forum, and knows next to nothing about pheros, accepted my gifts of Ammo and Instant Shine and Turn Up the Heat. He has had good results with Ammo and TUTH, but said that Instant Shine does not do anything as far as he can tell. There is no bias there, because because he has absolutely no expectations, nor does he have more than very basic knowledge about what they are supposed to do.

For the most part though, these products are effective, and have been proven to be effective, by the members of this forum. And they are not paid to try these things. Just the opposite…they pay to buy and try the pheros. Also, there is a double-your-money-back guarantee, for the “consumer products” pheros.

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Alexander, no, these products are not dangerous weapons, but the advanced products are things one should know a thing or two about before using. Let me put it this way: If you wanted to paint a portrait, wouldn’t you want to know a bit about shading, proper use of color, and technique in order to create the end product you had formed in your mind? This is the same concept.

The Instant line is formulated with ease of use in mind: kind of like a “paint-by-numbers” picture. These are mixes that Androtics has worked with and researched for some time. They know what they do, and they know that they can say “hey, new user, you are a bit skeptical, we understand. Try this out, a few sprays here and there, and you will see that it works”.

The Advanced products just take a bit more research and knowledge, and are individual molecules as opposed to finely crafted mixes. These are the products that Androtics says to experienced users, “take these and TELL US what they do for you”. You should have some knowledge of how pheromones work and what to look for in order to get the best results from these, and ultimately in order to give Androtics viable information in return.

Nothing here is dangerous.

As far as your other questions, the only people who post here who work for the company are Steve, Jasmin, MHarris, Mickaelia and April Marie. Tisha is a forum moderator, but she is not a paid employee.

Every person who places an order gets free products with their order.

Your use of the term “kickbacks” implies that you think the information being supplied here on this forum is not genuine. There are thousands of users here who report positive results, and being one of them I can say that we are not receiving any sort of monetary compensation for the positive feedback we provide. Unless of course you want to consider getting a free bottle of Instant Shine or whatever with my next order a “kickback” or some sort of compensation. Such a claim is not accurate, however, as I stated above, every customer gets free products, whether they report, report positively, report negatively, or never report at all.

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You haven’t read enough of the forum. Not every product works for every person, and people are not shy about saying so.

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Hi AlexanderG, welcome on board.

You’ve had some good suggestions, the only one I would add, IF it comes back to stock is Instant Female Magic, unfortunately, some of the molecules in it are expensive and offer little research potential for Androtics ( primarily a pheromone research company rather than a sales orientated company!)

Now to answer your questions as above.

  1. Posters employed by Androtics are as follows, MHarris, the boss and genius pheromaster. Jasmin, the VP and research guru, Steve, party host and Mickaelia, customer services goddess. You may also see a couple of the customer service girls pop up in the store announcements section to answer specific questions. the rest of us are simply users, of various degrees of expertise, who enjoy sharing our findings and contributing to the research. As an example of the users. From here in the UK, I’m a lawyer, Xiphoid is a doctor and Farmer Giles is an IT expert. In the US you have Tisha23 ( the unpaid moderator) who works for USPS, MsSelva who is a student and denec, another IT guru. Very few of us have any background in medical, pharmaceutical or perfume research.

If you have any doubts about the legitimacy of this company, ask yourself this, how many of their competitors post their direct phone number or office address on their website, also, how many offer a money back guarantee or ( with the $25 gift certificate) what amounts to a two week supply of pheromones as a free sample.

  1. Not to my knowledge, this field is extremely competitive, to the point that the FBI are investigating technical attacks on this website by a competitor. As such I doubt Androtics will ever post photos of their lab on here.

  2. Search on here or post a question, they have nothing to hide

  3. The Dr you are referring to is probably JV Kohl, a regular contributor, acknowledged industry expert and you are correct, he owns a pheromone company in his own right, linked from his signature at the bottom of his posts. Such is Androtics belief in their own products that they are more than happy for people such as him to post on here and for the rest of us mere mortals to discuss their own and other companies’ products freely (unless there is a good reason ( such as that company having links to illegal activity) not to). I suggest you do a google search on another product then search this forum for it. It is pretty much guaranteed that it has been discussed (good or bad) on here. Pherlure and NPA spring to mind as examples of each extreme.

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Thanks diamond, ariadne, kitty and everyone else.

My eyes are being opened to an underground community I never knew existed! :o

I will spend a couple more days quietly researching, looking at past posts.

Thanks again.

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Hey Alexander, no problems, we’re all more than happy to help.

As Ariadne mentioned, no-one gets kickbacks. We do, however, sometimes get free 'to go ’ bottles ( regardless of whether we report our findings, criticise or praise) of something that Androtics thinks we may enjoy using with our orders and there is a reward points scheme for the first three people to respond to a new user’s introduction post, that is a thank you for taking the time to help new users navigate the maze. We don’t get commission, bonuses etc. With the exception of specific product formulations (for obvious commercial reasons), everything is open and above board

Without wishing to sound like a preacher, you will never deal with a company that has better customer service or higher ethical standards than Androtics. Take your time, do your research and use the brain in your head, not the one in your pants. You will very quickly realise that these guys are genuine. Then go and look for a pheromone review site on the web, I pretty much guarantee that it links to a product that promises to remove girl’s panties without any effort and has a buy two, get one free offer, ask yourself this, if it’s so good, why do I have to buy three bottles at a time, do they have a real guarantee and can you find negative feedback on their products. If it seems too good to be true, it is :wink:

There are a lot of scams out there ( and some ethical companies) and, as a search on here will reveal, Androtics will not delete a post because it criticises one of their products, they will actually work with the user to try to sort any issues, if they can’t sort it, they will refund/replace without question.

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Thanks Diamond. I am doing some more research online now. What I really like about this place is the active forum.

Pardon all the questions.. I have some more!!..

Why is there no mention of Androtics Research here:

Which pheromone works the best? Most effective pheromone. Pick up Chicks.
and what do you guys think about the free offer for Ultraallure on their website. Says you only pay for postage. Is it worth it? I’m guessing this person might be paid to make such claims.

This one is different again:
Pheromone Ratings - Compare and Rate Pheromone Brands

farout, during my research I think some other sites are trying to give me viruses! I will submit this, restart my computer, then log in again and continue.

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As I said, there are plenty (at least 30 that I know of!) of so called ‘review’ sites. Funnily enough, the domain names are all owned by the manufacturers of the supposed best products that they all rate as 5 stars. The reason that androtics isn’t mentioned is because these sites are scam advertising and the reviewer is employed by the manufacturer!!

You will note that half the links direct you to the sites that sell penis enlargement creams and the like :wink:

Search for pherlure or ultraallure on this (uncensored) forum and you will discover the truth. Androtics aren’t afraid to allow us to discuss the competitors, now why do you think the competitors ( including some of the legitimate ones) don’t allow androtics to be discussed?

All these points have been discussed in numerous threads on this forum, just use the search and you will find them. Just type ‘Is this a scam’ into the search box and you will find a thread where far more experienced people than me had their say.

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Thanks Diamond.

Can anyone tell me why dating guru from real social dynamics “Tyler” says this about pheromones:

Pheromone Cologne??? | RSD Nation

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Probably because he has only ever seen the crap stuff.:wink: I don’t know if any of the PUA guys on here have heard of him, plus that post you linked was over two years old.

There’s a busy and thriving PUA community on here. Search for posts by KosmoKnight or igotabanana4u, they are both PUAs. Steve worked with Mystery (as in the mystery method) amongst others and he loves these products so much that he now works for androtics.

The bottom line is that you have found the holy grail of pheromone companies, we can keep answering your questions til the cows come home, the only way to cure your scepticism is to jump in the pool with us. Now you can either jump in here, with the security of guarantees, traceable company etc or you can fall for one of the scam sites, waste your money and then come back here moaning in a month or two that you were ripped off by a competitor.

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Thanks for that! Oh no… Tisha didn’t give me a voucher.. did I say something wrong? :confused: