Hi, I am new to this whole pheromone thing and would like to introduce myself and talk a little about me.
I am new to this whole concept but I did do my research before signing up (as I always do with anything, I researched for 2 weeks before finally trying pot.. But I havent smoked in over a year I figured I was at the desired maturity level to quit.)
I play the guitar and like sunny days and forming meaningful relationships. I feel like the whole lets meet and have sex thing is a waste of time and I would much rather make a smart judgment about a persons character and have something more long term.
I am still in my early 20s and am straight, I feel like androtics is the kind of brand that is worth giving a chance since they seem very confident in their products and I have spent some time scrolling about on this forum and have learnt quite a lot about pheromones that I did not know about before. I hope that with the help of androtics as well as this forum that I am able to successfully improve my bonding skills and ability to attract not only girls but people in general towards myself and hopefully have a more positive lifestyle as I feel that it is very easy to be lonely and depressed but only with some difficulty can you become the kind of person most people enjoy being around and feel positive vibes.
I have a feeling that I’m in for a surprise with androtics and pheromones, lets just hope it is the good kind of surprise! =P
Hello Coolspunky. You’re right, Androtics makes amazing products, and it’s well worth giving them a try.
There are some products here that are sexual in tone, but from what you’ve described I think you’re looking for something else.
To help increase the deeper bond between people, I’d recommend Instant Openness and Instant Honesty. They are similar, but not the same.
Instant Openness is a light conversation starter, and can help with breaking the ice between two people who are just getting to know each other. It makes people more chatty, and can make you seem more approachable.
Instant Honesty is meant for more deeper connections. It encourages people to divulge things they would not otherwise feel comfortable talking about, and can really open up the communication between a couple. Many people have been very surprised at the things others have been willing to discuss while wearing this phero.
Instant SHine is another great phero, a fun, breezy mix that increases the fun in any situation. It can make you feel more confident, it encourages people to be near you because you will seem like the life of the party.
So how did you find out about PheroTalk?
We’re glad you’re here.
Well I’m glad to be here! I found out through a friend of mine who had been using androtics products for a few months now and would always tell me stories about his social life but only recently mentioned the role of pheromones in it! Naturally I was very much interested in trying these out myself and so here I am!
You’re right that I’m not necessarily looking for a sexual tone in my pheromones however once I’ve made a deeper connection I would absolutely hate getting friend zoned and so I might use something in order to improve my chances. Do you recommend any combinations for that? ’
One more thing I would like to add to my description. Or rather make clearer, as I said, I’m trying to improve all my interactions and want to be the kind of person people gravitate towards (i.e. kinda like the life of the party and or just naturally someone people look forward to meeting and are happy to be around). I’ve read about a few products that can help in either a combination or stand alone usage. I’m not sure what to go with first. Although Instant Shine sounds like a no brainer, I’m having trouble between Instant Gentleman, A314, Mx 272, Mx303 and some others.
I find myself lacking in confidence, and have generally observed that the kind of person I’m aspiring towards usually give off a successful yet modest, humble yet fun (almost rockstar-ish) vibe.
With quite some reading on the forums I’ve come to understand the importance of congruence. And would appreciate any tips and advice on improving that aspect as well.
I guess the question is, how does one go from being a low confidence, non-club going, non-partying person to being a confident, “he’s the man” kind of fun loving person?
I hope I haven’t confused anyone and done the opposite of my intent. =P
Right now you are kind of in a shell and want to come of that shell and in so doing find yourself and you true potential.
Guess what? Many men your age and even older go through the same thing, many came to use but word it different and a lot of them you are reading their journals right now thinking; Wow, he is the man.
Well he wasn’t so just how many were helped you will get there too.