Welcome to the forum Zoroastrian,
The gents will give you the very best recommendations and you will find that people are very nice here. Have a good walk through the the link below and possibly consider that what you want may be competing ideas…even before you involved pheromones.:o
What pheromones can do and what they can’t
In one regard you want your boss to trust and respect you, while in another regard the girl at your work has continued to flirt. In order for one to proceed through to its due course you may very well have to abandon aspirations to another. It becomes a case of “too much” at work. One may be making the other situation worse.
Maybe try to separate getting the attention of females (from your workplace…or at least other employees) this will definitely help you build some respect with your boss.
On to the actual mones I’d recommend a bit of IH to get to the heart of some of his reservations. You can also build a bit of rapport that will definitely help your everyday work environment.