so my name is Dominic and i live down in southern oregon. i am 24 years old. i have always been really curious about pheromones and was really hoping that there were some people on here who could help me out in finding a balance that will be right for me!
when i did my first web search i was just looking for something that would sexually attract more women to me! but then i started looking at all of the other things that pheromones could do for me! confidance, happiness, and so many more!
so i am a professional chef. a little chubby but still pretty good looking. i work in close proximity with other guys and read that some pheromones can actually make other men dislike you and become confrontational? this is something i dont want! the last thing i need is for my boss to get upset or threatened by me because of a scent i wear! i really want to attract more women…even some of the cute little hostesses and waitresses at my work… but not at the cost of upsetting the delicate balance of power in a small kitchen! wouldnt mind if my boss liked me and respected me more either! might get that raise i have been working towards for a while!
I am naturally a pretty confidant man and strong willed. when i meet women i often come on strong and often appear cocky or full of myself. i am also 6’3 and over 250 lbs! so a lot of people are scared by my sheer physical presense! this is not intentional. i am very confidant and it intimidates a lot of people!
i am always smiling:)have a great sense of humor and am constantly joking around!
so now that you know a little about me and my personality… is there a pheromone or combination of pheromones, that will cause my boss to respect me, make people more at ease and less intimidated by me, and make me irresistible to all the sexy ladies as well? and remember this is all for a first time pheromone user who has done a little bit of reading and research online but is still a little uneducated! please help me out and i will wait a couple days and process your info before deciding what to buy!
also dont have a whole lot of money to spend but am really interested about this so would like my first purchase to to be economical so i can sample some products and see if i love them! maybe have $65 to spend including shipping! will this be enough to get me going?
thanks for taking the time to read this and i cant wait to hear your feedback!
Thanks for the good introduction and info about yourself - There are several pheros here that may help you. and I would suggest the socials - Instant Shine, IO, and IG plus Ammo for starters.
Yes it is true that Androstenone can increase both attraction and agression in people around you, however it can also help boost your self confidence - Ammo is a well balanced social/sexy mix of Androstenone, Andrestenol and Androsterone that should not be a problem if used at a suitable dose. It can also be moderated further or complemented by the socials which give impressions along the lines of:
IS - Happy and good to be around.
IO - Promotes pleasant conversation.
IG - Smooth, reliable, charm and status.
As you are a physically imposing person, fit and still fairly young, you will likely be putting out a fair bit of Androstenone yourself, so if you do go the way of Ammo, start with a single spray of the 1x strength and work up till you find the best dose. Teading the sticky threads at the top of this and the Mens forum will help answer all your questions on phero types, application, and signals to watch out for.
Your 65 dollars, plus the GC will easily get you a few togos to try out - I’ll admit that pheros can be a bit of an expensive passtime but if you learn to use them effectively and without waste, they will soon prove their worth - Remember that in the world of pheros, less is very often more, esp where Androstenone is concerned - The biggest mistake is that people often use far more than they need, which is counterproductive because it most usually gets them blanked or ghosted, or requires a greater quantity of social pheros as moderators - which makes it needlessly expensive.
Welcome to pherotalk dude, glad to have you here You’ll find tons of useful info here about mixes, effects people get wearing mones and of course we encourage you to share anything you want to about your experiences! I always encourage newbies to go and check out the sticky posts in this introduction forum as i found them very helpful myself!
As far as androstenone ghosting ( that aggression effect you talk about) is concerned i myself only experienced it once and it was almost on purpose to see what it felt like ^^
Dont worry though, first you really have to wear a lot of none based products for it to take place. Second, its not really all out aggression anyway. Its not like people get mad at you for no apparent reason. But for instance with your Boss, it’d feel like he’s in a bad mood and just shorter with you.
Anyway, im babbling welcome again and feel free to ask anything we’re all here to help each other
Hi Dominic and a big welcome to you to the pherotalk forum! Love to have a cook around these parts to give us your input and expertise in the Lounge!!!
My suggestion for you to help out in your kitchen and be careful with the ‘balance’ of power, I’d suggest you try IG. It gives off a cool guy, knows what it’s all about, confident bud! Not necessarily a challenge to other guys vibe, more inclined to be a ‘good’ to be with vibe.
You could also try out IS to get a happy to be around you vibe with some people reporting a content and relaxed vibe in self effects as well. I can see this working out in the kitchen and with the waitresses.
Both of these, I would think, are good candidates for the social environment your looking at using mones. Once you see how these work for you, journal on them to keep straight the application amounts you used on them as well as the reactions you got.
Then, when you know how they work on you and others, use your additional funds to try out AMMO, IO and IH. As you have a confident and strong way about you, and you are looking to soften it up, the above is what I’d suggest.
Keep in mind that people that have known you a while will have a mental snapshot of your personality. Now, you’re introducing another signal, the mones, so you must continue to be in congruence with this new signal. Then, you’ll be able to change their perceptions of you.
Thanks for joining and hope to read up on your journal!
Good first post! Looks like some of the guys beat me to the punch on the suggestions. Here’s what I would suggest, especially since you are looking into using this for work. I would suggest IG and IS. The IG will make you look confident and “shouldn’t” make the guys you work with feel threatened. The IS gives you a glow that will present a happy feeling to everyone around you. I’ve noticed that when I wear IS, people tend to smile a lot more when i’m around compared to when I don’t wear IS around them.
I would also get some AMMO. It’s a nice overall stand alone. But like Mobo said, start with less then add more. More is not always better.
Now you mentioned something about being confident to the point of being cocky. This in my personal opinion seems to push more girls away. I’m not saying being confident is a bad thing but coming on too strong tends to push the girl away. If you’re saying you notice you are being cocky, try toning it down a bit.
If I were you since you said you have $65 including shipping, shoot for the $60 mark because you get free shipping after $60. That is if you are in the US.
