Hello, I am Chakra, 26, from Mumbai and am absolutely fresh to this amazing world of pheromones, and it seems unlike anything I had logically known in my life! I hit this site after first hitting on pheromones accidently while trying to find a good solution to a new predicament that life has introduced to me - it is like I am suddenly getting an uncontrollable outburst of hormones again for a second time in my life (after the teens and the first knowledge of the “Sleigh of hand”
).
A little background on my situation - I am an Electronics Engineer working with Embedded Systems since the last two years and been in a steady long-distance LTR relationship since 3 years. A few months back I changed my job to become a Sales (Tech) Associate and near the same time my GF also walked on me saying I am too immature for marriage.
I survived the new loneliness by immersing myself into my new job, making calls on potential customers and working on building business relationships. But gradually, the sort of openness and nonchalance I had in the beginning has worn off as I have met more and more skeptical people and also as the nature of interaction moved on to more casual situations (like dinner or cocktail events).
As an engineer, I think that the people I now typically meet, i.e. the HR, Sales or Procurement managers and teams are typically the best looking and most social people among engineers. I am not that bad myself - being 5’11" with an athletic build, having been an outdoor sportsperson throughout my life and often complimented by girls (and guys) on my sense of style. However, I am starting to feel the uncontrollable and raging vibes in the air at casually-business meeting many beautiful women almost everyday, as a single guy. I feel the huge effect a hotly business-dressed lady has on all the people around - how they render others almost powerless. Even I gag up many a times after getting sudden salacious head-tilted, lips-pouted smile in the middle of a conversation, taken aback by the surprise attack of sensuality and the seemingly inappropriate situation at hand, and be further thrown to despair by a burst of sardonic victory giggles. And I totally know that this is not something that is easy to get over by just being my street-cool and friendly self. The intensity is just too much. But I myself have nothing to offer except breaking into a hot sweat!
I need help in balancing this power-war that seems to totally depend on the sexual-effect (unless the man playing the game is an old dude whose testosterone tank has dried up!). I can’t be bulging my muscles or cracking silly jokes at others’ expenses as the setting has a business ambiance (atleast until most have drowned a couple of whiskies).
The pheromones seem to be a answer to my situation - it will potentially add an intangible, unseen, powerful force to my “friendly, smart guy” persona, and ensure all of us having a really easy time setting the equations right!
P.S. - Dear Gurus of 'Mones.. What pheromones would you say are appropriate in my situation? After a little research, I think the power of “Ammunition” can alone totally wipe out the imbalance of raw sensuality. Suggestions please ![]()