Hello all!
I just stumbled onto this forum randomly (to be honest I can’t even remember how I got here LOL) but I’ve been reading through a bunch of the posts and I’m definitely intrigued and curious to say the very least!
I’m male, in my mid-twenties, Asian-Canadian (from Toronto), and about average height (5’8) with an athletic/average build. I would say I’m a pretty confident guy, but I’ve always been a natural introvert (I’m more of a ‘learned’ extrovert) - it’s taken me years to force myself out of my shell because of the industry that I’m in. But I’m a laid-back, fun-loving kind of guy with a reasonably mellow attitude when it comes to most social interactions (although other times I can be totally extroverted and ‘crazy’ as well). I would say that I’m ‘shy’ by nature but I tend to deviate from my shyness due to the social circles I’m in and the industry that I work in
if you ask any of my friends, I think they wouldn’t say I’m a shy person, but I do have my moments where I’m more reserved and calm/quiet. I can be sociable but usually only after I’ve gotten to know someone a lot better… it’s the awkward “I don’t know you well or at all so I don’t know what to say” that gets me stuck, haha
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My objective of using pheromones is basically to take advantage of any/all of the benefits that they can provide. That is, in normal everyday social settings (i.e. dinner parties, sports outings, bookstores/libraries, school, gatherings with friends) - most of these are usually with friends but I do meet a good number of people who I have mutual friends with as well so obviously anything that can help with building relationships/friendships with people on a social level would be great! And is there anything that can help with meeting random strangers? (I always seem to meet the most attractive people at random, whether it’s the girl at the bookstore reading by herself, or the girl working at Starbucks, etc)
A good “clubbing/bar night” type mone would be fun to try out as well ![]()
As well, obviously attracting the opposite sex (outside of the bar/clubbing scene) would be an interesting experiment I’d like to try out - are there are different types of scents for different types of ‘attraction’? i.e. one that is “immediate sexual energy” vs a more “I’m attracted to you and would like to get to know you better” type of ‘romantic’ attraction?
And a question - lets say I have a friend who I’ve been interested in and close to for a long time, I think there may have always been a certain level of ‘sexual tension’ or ‘curiosity’ rather, but we’ve never been able to get to that next level just because we’ve been friends for so long. Can pheromones do anything to help spice things up and escalate the attraction?
And finally, at the workplace - on a business level, are there mones that can help me ‘fit in’ a bit better with the corporate culture and environment? (I don’t expect mones to work wonders when it comes to advancements/promotions
) but any leg up I can get would be wonderful. I can typically be a bit quiet and reserved at work, but I think it’s due to the corporate culture that I have trouble fitting into. I may be job-hunting soon as well, are there any mones out there that can help with the interview process (that is, if I get a female interviewer)?
(sorry for the essay but hope that covers most of it?) haha! Looking forward to learning a lot more! Thanks!