My name is Ron, and I’m 33 currently living in South Florida. I’m about 6’ tall and fairly in-shape. I consider myself pretty smart, funny and overall likable person.
My main problem is that I’ve always been very shy. I guess it’s probably because I hate rejection. Don’t get me wrong, I love public speaking, I love taking charge, and I know that I have natural leadership qualities. But when it comes to socialization, usually a few drinks will help relax me, but as many of you may know, one drink leads to another, to another, which eventually, I end up drunk, and useless. I wanted to turn to science to see if I can get some help in getting past my shyness so that I can really meet some great new friends/people.
This is an exciting adventure for me, and I’m sure as well for hundreds and thousands of others who are looking to try something new and safe. I don’t have too much expectations with these formulas, so hopefully my execution will not be overwhelming.
Looking forward to meeting and sharing success stories. What a terrific forum to get started with.
Hey there Ron and fellow Floridian, welcome to the forum!
So it seems you need help with confidence and speaking correct?
Well Instant Shine is a very good confidence booster and will put you and others around you in a good mood. It also makes women more touchy feely which is always a plus!
For speaking I’ll recommend Instant Openess as it makes you and others around you very chatty so it should help lower any approach anxiety you may have when dealing with others.
Also, IG may be a good choice for you so that it will allow you to appear smoooth…
That’s my recommendation, if you need more help just ask buddy!
K gave you some good advice. IShine and IO would be great products for you to give a test run with. I am sure you will like what you see.
Another great product you might want to look at is Instant Gentleman. It will help give you a smooth suave feel. Try reading the thread in my signature block for more information.
The big thing to remember is that even thoough you are shy to really reap the benefits of these products you will need to interact with people - but they will help. If you start a conversation often times the IO will help you keep it going without as much effort and so on.
So you got a bit of split personality there. On one end you like to take charge, have leadership skills but can be shy in the social scene and you might need one or two drinks to help be the aggressor you know you can be.
I think naturally that is your personality and that you can be the dominant, smooth guy we women love but you doubt yourself. Do you take a leadership role in your job and have gotten good results so you are confident in that area but socially you never really got the kind of results you want?
I am asking just to make a clear picture in mind as to what’s going on with you. All in all the products that were recommended were right on. You will need to experiment with these and remember that pheromones are not magic so in order for them to work you got to put yourself out there.
