Hello PheroTalk Community!

Hello everyone and Happy New Year!

I am here, reluctantly, because I had promised myself that I will make every effort to really be “happy” this year. You see, growing up, I am one of those asian kids in school that were in advanced placement classes, skipped grades, was heavily involved in extracurricular activities, all the while consciously making sure that I didn’t have a public image of a nerd. I’ve been taking mixed martial arts since I was 7 so I was ripped… cheerleader girlfriend… my first car was a 300zx… you get the picture.

I led my life according to what my parents and society thought was ideal. I graduated college in the top 5% of my graduating class. Landed a high paying job. Was promoted to upper management within 2 years. Started dating and eventually married a beautiful woman who I thought was the perfect wife (beautiful, educated, classy, good family, great in bed, etc). Bought a big house. We have two beautiful kids… a girl and a boy.

But as you might already suspect… I am here because unlike fairy tales, my story doesn’t end with happily ever after. I worked relentlessly and my wife found other ways to entertain herself. I was loyal to her for the 14 years we were together… she was not. I had to end that relationship.

I now find myself thrown back in the game with absolutely no game and no confidence. I reduced my schedule to only working 3 to 4 days. I am in good shape but will be upping the intensity of my workouts more for aesthetics rather than function. I am determined to be happy for this new year and I am positive I will need these products and your help.

Any recommendations on how to use these products or anything that would aid in getting my game and confidence back, regardless of the cost, would be greatly appreciated.

Hey Invictus and welcome to the forums.

Another asian kid? Join the club.

Ammo for starters is great for attraction. I’m guessing you’re socially competent, so IO won’t be necessary. IH will help. Instant shine will always help. Each of these give off different vibes like:
ammo = sexy vibe
IH = trusting vibe
IS = youthful fun vibe

I would recommend those three pheromones.

Welcome Invictus…it certainly sounds as if your life has been a rollercoaster ride. I can only wish you the best in the new year with accomplishing all your goals.

As many other will tell you, pheromones are not a magical potion that will make all your trouble disappear or anything, of course I am sure you already know that. But what they will do is give you a little bit on a edge and it all it takes sometimes.

In a situation like yours, I think I would recommend Instant Gentleman, maybe Ammo, and of course the social mones like Instant Shine and Instant Openness.

IG will give you a sort of smooth, James Bond type vibe - very sexy, confident, and in control. Ammo would also give the confidence, and give you a very attractive, sexy “comfortable” vibe.
IS will give you a fun, happy sort of feeling and has great self effects! Instant Openness will make others feel they are able to trust you and will make it easy to start off conversations - an icebreaker so to speak.

Again, welcome and I wish you the best in the new year. I look forward to seeing your posts to find out how the products work for you.

I’m gonna just jump right in and tell you to give A314 a shot. It usually isn’t recommended at first, but as long as you do your “sweet spot” testing and do some reading you should be ok. I think you WILL LOVE this product. By your intro I think that confidence you need you will get from A314.

I also think Instant Shine would also be a good starter product for you. Also with these two products A314 and Instant Shine along with Instant Openness and Instant Honesty you may see a very positive reaction from your children.

I started with A314 on my first order and am GLAD I did. So the best of luck to you and WELCOME to the wonderful world of Pheros. Just testing these products alone is a blast. Just make sure you try and read as much newbie information as you can by doing searches for “sweet spot” and whatever comes to your mind really. Also start by reading the sticky posts on top of the men’s forum and you should be off to a great start :smiley:

Thank you for the warm welcome!

I placed my order this morning and I am sooo glad I called before I did. I spoke with Steve and he was extremely helpful. I made the mistake of ordering everything at max strength thinking about efficiency (eg. Why should I spray four times if I get the same effect with one?!) He then explained what the “sweet spot” is and that I should really find it before placing such orders. Steve was eager and enthusiastic about sharing his knowledge and was happy to help me make the right purchase (with his guidance I made the appropriate changes to my order and it reduced my total by a couple of hundred dollars). It’s either he’s a really lousy salesman or he truly cares about these products and sincerely wants to help. I think it’s the latter. :slight_smile:

Like most people, I often make the mistake of differentiating between efficiency and effectiveness. And subsequently, differentiating between effectiveness and successful.

You can be efficient but not effective… not finding my sweet spot and just ordering max strength everything would be a good example.

You can be effective and not successful… asking my admin to get me a cup of coffee and them bringing back a nice hot cup of joe would be considered successful in delegating that task. But I drink my coffee with lots of cream and lots of sugar. Since I didn’t specify that this is how I like my coffee and got the coffee black, then even though I was successful, I wasn’t effective.

I know that this is no panacea. Quite the contrary…I am skeptical about its effectiveness. If it gives even a slight edge, then I would consider the product successful and worth the investment. I will be taking copious notes and will be sharing my findings and soliciting opinion from the forum.

I purchased the following…

AMMO
A314
TUTH
IS

I am looking forward to receiving them and posting my findings here! Until then, good bye.

Welcome to Pherotalk Invictus!

You already spoke to Steve O and ordered so that cuts my post down to more than half. :stuck_out_tongue:

It sounds to me that for this year you will be doing a lot of searching and trying to find yourself.

My life wasn’t so much of a rollercoaster as yours but I am doing the same.

Pheromones certainly do help you to be more aware of your surroundings and yourself.

I can’t wait to see your progress as you start using these.

Good luck.

Your gc was issued!

they don’t let you Thank and REP someone in the same post