hi,
let me introduce myself =)
im a 23 year old chinese girl living in bruessel, europe. somehow i discovered this site through google and now im here!
the reason why im interested in pheromones is because i work in a highly reputable fashion store and i wanted to increase my success with customers.
actually i never had any problems with the opposite sex. you could say in my entire life, i have got any man i had a crush on. i just got aware of this fact recently, which really wondered me. my close female friends always ask me why i can do this, but i dont know the answer. because im not a beauty! im 1,60m and 60kg! which is quite much for an asian girl! one of my theories is that i might naturally have a high pheromone release. i think i might (naturally, not when im on the contraceptive pill) have a high testosteron level in my blood, because my face doesnt look like the typical babydoll like chinese face. i have a quite big nose and long chin (but i still look like a female and not like sarah jessica parker haha) and my skin type is quite oily with enlarged pores (sorry for the details).
can somebody tell me if there is a correlation between testosteron level and pheromone release? it would also be interesting if somebody could tell me if there is a diffenrence between the “races’ pheromones”.
one year ago something really strange happened to me. i broke up with the love of my life and for the first time i was really really heartbroken. i could not stop thinking of him every minute. i lost 8kg in 2 weeks. and it was during that time, that i noticed many man approaching me. once i went to a bar to meet my friends, because i did not want to stay home that evening. and the male friends told me lateron that i was kind of shining when i entered the room. i got so much attenction and had dates with men, that helped me really much to get over the pain.
i cant remember every detail now, but i felt like i wasnt myself anymore. i had such a strong effect on the opposite sex. and my theory is that i had very high excretion of pheromones during that time, because i stopped taking the contraceptive pill! since that time, i had much interest for this topic.
sorry for long story but it would be nice if somebody could tell me if my theory is right or wrong.
Yes, phero’s can help boost many areas of your life, not just dating. What is it about your job that you want help with? Is it mainly self confidence or is it talking to customers? Getting more respect?
Oh, and beauty doesn’t equal attractive! There are many stunning girls that are very unattractive, same goes for the girls that you wouldn’t label as pretty…many of them are very attractive. It’s all a mix of attitude, personality and (in my opinion) phero’s
If you want to look at the theories of phero’s, including the link between testosterone and natural phero levels then there’s a whole section here on the forum You could start by reading some of the posts there.
hi, thanks for your answer!
the most important part of my job is to “sell”. and with the years you learn much about psychology to have better and more successful conversations with customers. this is an intersting topic…
and i would really like to know if pheros have any noticable effect on my customers. any idea which pheromone would be the best for me?
I’d go for something that not only boosts your mood & confidence, but also makes those around you happy. Instant Shine does that, it’s brilliant & does what it says on the bottle; it makes you shine
Another good one to look at would be Instant Openness. If you are looking to improve communication in general then InstantOpenness is a great choice. IO helps increase the quantity of communication both in yourself (depending a bit on where you apply it) and those around you. It makes people more relaxed and chatty around you.
Xip has given you some great advice! All I would add it be sure to have a read of The Womens Guide, and do make sure you stick around and hang out in the official womens forum here. There are some top chicks in there.
Let us know how you go, you’ll have to return and let us know about your results.
The legendary Steve should be online again soon to give out more gift certificates
I’ll be sending out your GC to your email in just a short while . I would also like to add that some IH would work very well in sales. Where as xiphoid has pointed out that IO is good for the quantity of the conversation the IH is the quality of it.
