Hello, Neil! Welcome aboard! Glad to have you 
From what you’re describing, the first thing that leaps to mind is Ammo. It’s basically just a fantastic smelling cologne that makes you more successful with ladies. In terms of dealing with the anxiety, you might want to get some A314 when it’s back in stock for the self-effect - although it’s pretty pricey. Once you get them into a more intimate situation, TUTH will clinch it towards the bedroom.
Top tips? Well, mones really just help you in the right direction. They’re a small push, mostly - certainly, if you’re able to strike up a conversation with a girl, it might lead her to make the move rather than you. It’s also quite possible that girls have been making moves on you and you’ve not noticed - they can be a subtle bunch. Fortunately, there’s a wonderful thread on the forums about what to look out for, so take a look-see!
As for real-space stores, I’m afraid I can’t help you there - I know a lot of people on the forums only use Androtics since they seem to be the only place that do mones in any concentrations worth mentioning nowadays.
A couple questions about you, now! Do you like to keep fit? What sort of music are you into? Enjoy cooking? I know that’s three, but it’s more fun to throw a bunch out 