Good morning,
My name is Mike; I am a newly single, 25 year old, straight male. I live in a midsized north east city and I work in an office environment doing mostly computer based work. I am at an interesting point in my romantic life and my job where I am looking for something to give me a little boost. I am new to this world of pheromones. I have read about them on and off for a few years, and I have never had the opportunity to try them. I can’t think of a better time to give them a go then right now in my life.
Here is what I am trying to accomplish with the aid of some of these products and help from the forum. I am looking to get ahead in my job. I have been stuck in the same spot for two years. There will be an opening in august and I am contending for the promotion. I am looking for something to give me a little bit of an edge with the selection process as well as some self effects to help me be more calm and confident in myself. The other thing I am shooting for is a date with one of my clients. I essentially am stuck in the friend zone with her, and I am looking for a little nudge to try to get out and on the course to something more. We have worked in close proximity and see each other in the office 3 times a week for 3 years. Lastly since I am young and looking to have a bit more of an interesting life on the weekends I am looking for something to help grab attention and interest at gatherings.
A bit more about my personality; I have been told I am easy to talk to. I have people that open up to me and tell me all kinds of stuff they should only tell their doctor/therapist. I am outgoing to a point. I lack the ability to naturally start a conversation with someone I do not know well. This has been a downfall in meeting people and growing a social circle. I am hoping that some of this stuff will help me out in standing out in social settings, and attracting new friends etc.
Any suggestions to a newbie? I have been reading through this stuff for a few days and I am a little torn on what to try out for the given goals. Let me know what you think and I’ll let you know how it goes after I order.
Hi there, minni429! Welcome to THE mone forum, PheroTalk! You have several goals there and I’ll try to give you my thoughts on the work related improvements your looking for…
For work, keep an eye on A314, likely /b for now. It is the ultimate in Alpha maleness signal, a James Bond vibe, I think more of the Pierce Brosnan version…
I wear it for work, like today, when I’m going to be in meetings with upselling clients or new clients and get the respect I need to become accepted. However, because of this vibe, I’ve also gotten ‘tested’ because of it. Am I REALLY as Alpha as my signal is putting out? Guys and gals have ‘tested’ me on it. So YOU must be ready to have your attitude in congruence with this signal.
Now, you could also try IG to get that leader of the pack vibe, a knowing gentleman… it is softer than the A314 and you can try it to get a feel for what the chemical signal can do for you and what it won’t… also so that you can ‘practice’ your attitude to become in congruence with the take charge, leader signal of the mones.
I’d also add Instant Shine to help you in that need to keep and start up a convo with those you don’t know that well. It will be the relaxed, at ease vibe, happy with the world signal that you could work with your own convo improvements. Regarding this, check out this thread to get some advice from experience mone users on other ‘self’ improvements that you may want to try out… the thread is a bit long!
I’ll check in on ya later! Cheers!
Hiya - Welcome to Pherotalk.
For your work, I’ll second 1Alpha’s advice all the way. A314 is a remarkable all round phero if you can adopt the behaviours to live-up to its promise.
Only thing further I’d say is that IMO, the oil base is best for work, because of its all-day smooth diffusion and greater subtlety. The alcohol-base is a good intro though.
For that lady you are trying to attract, A314 is also a good tool to get her attention due to its status properties - screams “catch” like no other phero.
Adtionally, you should look at Ammo - a balanced social/sexy pnero that is good for triggering attraction on its own, or when steered with one or other of the socials eg:
Instant Shine - for a happy and good to be around vibe.
IO - to promote flowing conversations.
IH - to increase closeness and bonding.
Thanks for the awesome replies. I placed an order yesterday for a few togo products to begin testing them out.
I went with A314 alcohol based - I understand it is very similar to the oil based with just a shorter active life. I figure for testing it out this is a good place to start.
I bought an ammo to try out and see if I can get a reaction from it.
IH to mix with the a314 when I become comfortable with both independently.
IJ for shits and giggles- From what i have read this has some very pronounced effects, and I think it will help me affirm that pheromones work.
TUTH - got it for… well just incase
I seriously had some internal debate over getting p83 to see if I could use it for a bit of an edge with the girl at work. It seems that people get very mixed results with it, also seeing as though it is more on the experimental and less refined side, I passed for now. I figure I have more than enough to get started.
I will let you all know how it goes once I get my box o stuff. PS Thanks for the giftcard, and the shipping upgrade! I ordered yesterday evening and they sent me a tracking number that shows tomorrow as the delivery date… Awesome!
Welcome to pherotalk Mike!
I know about A314 from what I have read but who better to school you than those who have worn it themselves and that is the men.
I see they have taken the time to give you as much info as they can on this.
I also encourage you to read the stickys in the men section for what works.
Good luck!
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