Reading thru the forums i guess i can kind of identify what my natural mix is..
i’m great at beta androsterone, once people do start talking with me we quickly establish a great conversation. I’m kind of a funny guy, always laughing at things and seeing things in a good but funny sort of light and people usually enjoy that. Very straight forward and upfront but it gets me into ‘uh oh i shouldnt have said that’ situations where i say something inappropriate but most people that know me would just laugh since they know i didnt mean it.
With the alpha i’m not too sure, i’m usually not too great at initiating with total strangers since its usually the boring whats your name, hows your night etc.. sort of conversations that i dont enjoy and almost always dont bother to do. it helps that i’m usually one of the main guys of a party and know pretty much everybody, most of the girls that i do end up talking to usually do the initiating. Well i consider dropping not-so-subtle hits as initiating since i’m usually oblivious to things like that.
-none wise, im not very sure. Ive heard -countless- close friends tell me sometimes i just seem too intimidating, too confident of myself. over the years i have subconciously tried to scale that back by being more laid back and the fact is i make a conscious effort to be friendly to everybody. ie.. always smiling, offering drinks to people who look bored etc.. but i still get that comment sometimes. HOWEVER, the big difference is where i’m actually interested in the girl, usually an alpha female who has everything and knows it. I think i get intimidated and just turn into putty. dont know what to do or what to say but i think it might have to do with the fact that i have very unpolished initiating skills.
Not too familiar with the other pheromones but there are also a few traits that i noticed about myself..
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girls tend to trust me too much and i hate it. they seem to think that i’m a nice guy and am harmless. Well i really am but i reallly want to get rid of that harmless thing and have a more edgy tone.
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i’m great at having an interesting conversation and getting them really interested, however i might lack the scent/skills to take it one step further. i’m usually drunk and kind of disappear once the conversation starts to get a bit boring since i can find someone else to entertain myself with so i guess congruency is something i need to work on.
so heres the deal, i’m kind of fascinated with the idea that you can change people’s perception/moods with this and while i am perfectly happy with where i stand as a person i wouldnt mind some improvement but the main idea is to see if it works and how well it works.
i’m a total noob and if anybody that knows his stuff would find it fun to use me as a template to test out mixes I would be happy to. I mentioned that i have already purchased all the instant mixes and a314, buying anything else isnt a problem as long as it works.
my main area of social interaction is clubs, i do have a rollerdex of girls with different characteristics to ask out on dates but i usually dont bother and ask them to meet me at the club instead. My main purpose of clubbing/going on dates is pretty much to entertain myself and i stopped doing the dates because they do get boring and repetitive after a while. (you tell the same stories about yourself, do the same things etc..) With pheromones it might give it a much more interesting dynamic.
According to dhl, my stuff would arrive on wednesday and i would be heading out that night. Perhaps someone could suggest something interesting i could do?