hello

I’m a 37 year old man just recently divorced. I’ve found myself plunged back into the world of dating - not completely by choice. I must admit that my confidence is not very high right now, only three months after the divorce. My job keeps me pretty isolated. I interact with only about a dozen people total day in and day out - all men. (There are females in the office, but our paths seldom cross.) I have children which limits my evening social life. So when I meet a woman, I need to have confidence to initiate a conversation, spark attraction, and get something moving on the spot. There is usually no second chance. So I’ve been studying some of David DeAngelo’s material and have read some other e-books on attraction, but I still lack the confidence to initiate conversations with unfamiliar women. Natural opportunities just don’t occur enough.

I am very healthy and am in great shape physically. I am very successful in my career and have an abundance of my material needs and most of my wants.

Intellectually, I believe I should be able to have a lot of success meeting women. So I’m interested in anything that can help get me over the initial hurdle. If pheromones have potential, then I would love to find out. I hate wasting my money on phony products, so I’m grateful for this forum.

My physical characteristics are: Caucasian, 5’ 8", 155 lbs, 37 years old. I don’t know my blood type. I live in a pretty dry, desert-like climate (northern Utah).

I intend to meet one great woman and keep her. I have high standards and will not settle. I made that mistake once already.

Thanks for the information.

Hello Signific,

I would highly recommend Instant Openness to get the initial communication started. Instant Shine, which is a favourite to many, is another one I would recommend. With me I feel more confident when I were it, and it tends to draw people’s attention in a good way.

I hear a lot of good things about Ammo and A314, but have no experience with them myself. I’m sure some of the guys will drop by here soon to give you recommendations on the products strictly for men.

It’s hard to be confident when you care too much.

I might suggest, try to forget about women and concentrate for a while on your personal development.

Stimulate your mind and interests. Explore what your fit body can do. Engage in social interactions. You can even explore pheromones to see what they can add to your interaction potential with other humans.

As the pain fades, and your own development increases, one day when you’re not looking, out of the blue she hits you …

Welcome to the forum!

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