Hello everyone.
I am a 43 yr old man, living in NYC- actually moved here less than a year ago- and here is my story..
Three years ago a very long term relationship ended and I found myself single after a very long hiatus. I was depressed, out of shape and stuck in a major rut. It wasn’t just the end of the relationship but the deaths of my parents and my best friend in my late 20s that sent my life into a downward spiral. No drugs or nasty stuff, just a loss of incentive, drive and will.
About 2 years and half ago I decided to re-engage in life and take the bull by the horns.. I started getting in shape, going out, and seeking new adventures. Its been a very long and slow process- I have battled with depression for a major part of a decade, but slowly, with persistence I have begun the process of rebuilding a new life for myself. I moved to NYC, got a new job and although I still struggle with the desire to just let go and give up, I feel, I know really, that I have turned a corner. I feel better now than I have in more than a decade. I have done this naturally, without meds - simply google and information and will power. Sorry of that comes across a little proud, but I kinda am a little proud of myself.
After re-entering the dating world in earnest this last year, I have done as I always do and learned as much as I can to help me get back in the game as quickly as possible..and that is how I ended up here.
I am hoping the use of pheromones will be another aid in continuing this evolution. Confidence, attracting women, better mood… are my major goals. Anything that helps me break new ground professionally is always a plus as well.
So I hope this stuff really woks, and thank you for all the information here. This sounds like a very fun adventure.
Do not be apologetic about feeling proud. you should be proud of what you managed to survive…
I’d suggest one thing before recommending pheros… exercise.. and fitness… get into shape if you are not right now. it helps. pheros can project a good image of you… if you are in shape it kinda validates what the pheros are suggesting subsconsiosly.. and girls will yield more easily. getting into shape need not necessarily mean expensive gym membership… there are ground exercises which can get you trim and define muscles.. I’m sure you will manage that with google
Heavy AMMO (Ammunition for men in double strength)
Instant Shine Instant Honesty
A314 if you can afford it.
these are the four pheros which I suggest.
AMMO is the all purpose attractant which you can regularly use. it works as a cologne too but spray on your chest and wrists… not arm pit
It is sexual but not very overt and offensive.. so you can wear it to work too… slowly work it up from one spray and find your sweet spot where you get best results… (I am 34 and use 2 sprays of heavy AMMO). AMMO signals youth and virility and girls invariably react well to it. it also contains some pheros which aid communication… makes your task easier.
Instant Shine projects a youthfull vibe and makes those arround you feel good. including yourself. the idea is those arround you would later associate that feel good sensation to being with you thereby increasing your popularity/likeability.
instant honesty: Ever had strangers confide their deepest secrets to you… thats instant honesty in one line for you it promotes bonding and deep communication. idea for first dates and the consecutive dates too.
you can use AMMO and Shine as daily wear and add IH to it when you are on a date.
A314 is generally a status pheromone. simply signals high status accomplished guy…who can be trusted and to be respected.. idea for work… but start with low dosage.. you dont want to make your boss insecure…
it is also used in dating… not for anything sexual… but just to signal status… women sometimes dig status more than sexual virility…
A314 is expensive… and unlike other pheros you may not notice anything on day one or even after the first week… it takes time to instill trust and respect in the sub conscious minds of others.. so amoung people who already know you A314 results take time to manifest. with strangers however.. its visible instantly. ON regular usage it makes you perceive yourself differently and you will carry yourself with more dignity and stuff…
Hey there Centaur, Great advice up above and I couldn’t agree more fully. I wanted to welcome you to the forums. Never let life get you down, for every low point there is an equal high point just around the corner. You just have to find it!
Thanks Aghor.
My very first line of attack was exercise. It really is the greatest medicine, and I credit working out for most of the positive changes I’ve managed to achieve. I’m actually looking pretty good again.
A314 is definitely on the top of my list to get. As well as ammo.
As for Instant honesty or Openness- i get too much of that already. I seem to attract people who want to talk me to death. lol. For all of my inner turmoil, people around me always seem to to think of me as calm and easy to talk to.
Shine is also high on my list- probably right after A314.
One question… what is “devils hammer”? lol. Now that sounds interesting!
its a refined version of A314. lab made highly refined… the results were a product which was so smooth that the user don’t have to even try to be congruent.. u automatically start behaving like a smooth Jamesbond without even realizing…
it was just a few bottles… too expensive to make.. they dont sell it anymore