My name is Sue and I’m 26.. I’m from Ireland.. I have read the entire forum a few months back but somehow forgot about it because of work..
I’m single now for more than 2 years and I’m not the type you would see having fun in the club, dancing or driniking or hanging around pubs.. ;o) Even thought I would love to go out from time to time but I’m very bad in making new friends and I better won’t start about man and relationships.. ;o)
I was trying to figure out what is actually wrong with me that people are not talking to me at all.. Some people/girls just have it naturally in them.. Everyone feels drawn to them and talks to them immediately..
I wish I had that.. I don’t really feel that people like me well appart from my family and very close friends who I can count on one hand.. The thing is I don’t know why.. I’m not a bad person an I wouln’t harm or hurt anyone.. Which is why I dicided to try this out.. I’ve read that the pheromones are actually making you feel better.. Well that’s what I need.. And lets see if I will be able to find new friends and maybe someone to love and someone who would love me back..
Hi Sue! Glad you decided to post - it’s a great group, lots of helpful friendly people here.
I think you might find Instant Openness and Instant Honesty helpful to you in breaking out of your shell into a more social self - they’d tend to open you up, get you more willing to talk and reveal yourself, as well as having a similar effect on others. Instant Shine can also instill an upbeat mood in yourself and others (not everyone responds to IS, I think I’ve read some 80% of folks do, though).
Something that you could try a bit later after you’ve posted some feedback about the products (that’s a requirement for ordering the advanced products) is the Liquid Sunshine series, or my favorites from that group, MX138 or MX140. They seem to have a very positive, relaxing effect on mood and sociability.
There’s lots to explore here! stick around, read, ask questions, and have fun with it all!
Hello sue!
Lol, u must been really busy to forget about this website!
Pheromones can help you to be more attractive, but you also need to do a part of work. You need to find your weakness and work on them. Here are a few good products to get started.
Instant sexiness is usually the first product a girl should use, it help attract men and also give you more confidence. Instant shine also work and make you seem to be a fun person to hang around with.
If you have difficulties make conversation, instant openness will help tremendously. It works really well for me and it is my favorite so far!
I agree with Carrie and think IO or IH would be very helpful. I also think IShine which draws people to you would work out well in your situation.
As Carrie mentioned if you like the consumer products you can give the advanced a go later on after you have some experience and have reported in the forum.
If you have any question just ask, we look forward to your participation
If you do decide to try out some of the social pheromones suggested, please make a post and tell us what you experience when you try them. However the experiment turns out, we’d love to hear from you.
Hello SueQ,
You have received great advise there from mockingbird, tisha and carrie. I just want to give you a big welcome. You should give the pheromones a try. I think Instant sexiness, should also be a part of your order.
Have fun experiment and we would all love to hear of your experiences.
Cheers!
Kusro
I’m a beginner myself (just got my pheromones last week), so I don’t have very specific recommendations for you. Anyway, greetings from another Dubliner (although I’m in Poland right now).
For me also, it takes a lot of effort to make new friends, and I feel that I don’t have the ‘charisma’ that some other people have. I’ve gotten rather comfortable with this fate, and don’t often struggle against it, but discovering pheromones has given me quite a shake! I now see that there’s something that can be done about these problems… although it takes a bit of resolve from the inside too, not just using these magic potions.
I’ll specifically back up the recommendations of Instant Openness. For me, the self-effects have been subtle but amazing - a confidence in speaking, and a confidence in what I’ve said, that helps undermine a lot of my bad social habits. I’ve noticed effects on others, too (I have more trouble seeing other-effects, because of my introversion), so … it seems I’m being helped both inside and out to become more sociable. I comment on these effects in my journal, although it’s not the most exciting read
The only thing is that Instant Openness isn’t available in a to-go bottle. Still, thanks to the weak dollar, it’s not so expensive (€26).
I have lots of other pheromones, but I’m testing them methodically to identify their individual effects, so I don’t know much about the other yet.
Hi Sue,
I would like to welcome you here and wish you luck!
Instant Honesty will probably be what will work for you, it helps deepen communication and can help you to create the kind of bonds you are looking for..
