Hi everyone,
My name is Ohemaa, and I live in DC. I came upon this site while searching for more info on pheromones.
I am an excrutiatingly shy person, with a morbid fear of public speaking. Unfortunately, my job requires me to make a lot of presentations in front of my peers and this has caused me a lot of heartache and distress over the years.
In my continuous search for answers I read about oxytocin, and its effect on shyness and social phobia. I purchased liquid trust (verolabs), and I must say it did help quite a bit, but I am looking for something more. I don’t expect pheromones to cure my shyness. I just need a little help communicating better when I am the center of attention
You’ve found a great place here! You’ve got to try Instant Shine and Instant Openness. These products will help you to gain some additional self-confidence, as well as adding to your aura of confidence. Openness will encourage people to talk to you more. Try them, you’ll love 'em!
Welcome to the forum, Ohemaa! I also started with Liquid Trust, and though most people give it mixed reviews, I saw definite effects when I did use it, especially on myself. If you’re looking for confidence, you might try Instant Shine or Instant Sexiness. I find Instant Shine makes me more confident than usual, and though I’m male and have never tried either of the Instant Sexiness products, some of the women have said that it makes them feel confident and attractive, and this may help you be less nervous around people. Along with pheromones, you might also try reading a few self-help books or courses. I’ve never used any but some of the members here have said that they helped boost their confidence immensely. Any idea why you have this problem? If you can figure out the root cause, it may make it easier to overcome it. Also, have you considered any products on your own yet?
Thank you all for your quick responses. I really appreciate it. I think I’m going to try a few of the products here and see how it goes.
To answer Vespero’s question…I believe my condition is called social phobia, which is aggravated when I am the center of attention.I tried some herbal stuff before (green tea, GABA), but you kind of develop tolerance after a while.
Shyness can be so hard. I am assuming when you took this job you knew you would be making presentations and you knew you were very shy. Thats impressive and shows alot of courage. I think you are conquering this problem and now you just need something to make you feel comfort while doing it.
I suggest IFM for women, (buy it from the womens section) women get it to relieve PMS and crankiness but what it does is bring about a calm contented comfortable feeling.
Ishine would be helpful. Alot of people report a confidence boost with it.
IH would probably be better then IO. IO is fun friendly chatter while IH is more deep meaningful conversation. IH also brings a feeling of calm contentedness to the wearer. To those effected around you they feel connected and close to you.
Be proud of yourself though. Most shy people would do anything to avoid ever getting up and speaking in public or not take the job they want because of it. You are actively trying to find a solution and getting up there anyway. I think your braver then you know.
