hi there,
there is many products, are you talking about a particular one?
If you do a little bit of research, you’ll read some descriptions and for sure some of them will grab your attention as being especially suited for your goals.
I suggest you start by reading the sticky threads on top of this “Introductions” page:
http://www.pheromonetalk.com/every-question-every-answer-68609.html
The starter pack from that last one is a great way to try all the most tried-and-tested mixes for an overall very discounted price. Then you can try them out individually and in combos.
To be able to recommend anything more specific, we’d have to know more about you - your personality, social background, what kind of situations you find yourself in, what are your strengths and difficulties etc. By doing a deeper introduction like that, you also qualify to receive the 25$ Gift Certificate that makes it easier (or even practically free) to try this or that out.
Welcome to the Pheromone Talk, have fun 