Hey Yall - 43 year old female

OMG…I just typed half a novel and went to submit and was told I am not logged in.

Okay here we go again. I am a 43yr old female, mother of a 13yr old and married 16 yrs. I work in customer service for an airline ( I don’t fly) and am in pretty close contact with customers. I am pretty playful and upbeat at work, I love what I do. I recently put in for a promotion and got it. My supervisors used words like: integrity, mature, reliable, blah blah blah. And I seem to have the respect of my co-workers because they haven’t gotten attitude with me in charge.

Well that is me at work at home I am quite different. I am reserved and sometimes a bit edgy. I suffer from anxiety and am on a healthy dose of meds for that. Once I get home I like to stay here. Social situations are not fun for me. I don’t like to make chat. However I guess that makes me an oxymoron because I will talk to the person in line behind me in the grocery.

I love earthy smells and scents of lavander, sweet olive, plumeria and gardenia. For my husbands birthday this year I suprised him with a Harley Road King Classic. I love all the clothes and the smell of the leather. It’s magical.

Soooooooooo, what am I looking for. Something to help me feel playful and upbeat with a bit of sassy sex appeal. And for quiter times a sensual alure.

Maybe this is too much info, but so is looking thru the choices of what to buy. And then what to do when I get them. I know most of what I want is attitude but looking for that final touch to top it off. Like putting on earlngs or perfume when getting ready to go out.

Hey hows it going KathyG?

Something to make you feel playful and upbeat? Maybe Instant Shine or Instant Openness?

my sister is currently suffering anxiety attacks. ive worn this stuff around her, and while i havent noticed it helping her, it most certainly hasnt hurt.

id stay away from higher amounts of androstenone. atleast for now.

instant sexiness A puts me in a better ,more socializing mood. it has a great effect on men. then again, i add EW to it, so consider mine tainted :stuck_out_tongue:
anyone else might suggest instant sexiness B. the word “sassy” clued me in to your wanting to bring that out…im thinking A does that for me.
i wear it every other day :slight_smile:

i also think you might enjoy instant openness.
check out the liquid sunshine mixes.
these are my opinions.
have fun with it :wink:

Heya Kathy. Welcome to our forum. You seem like just the kind of person who’ll do GREAT with pheromones! I sent over your gift certificate, and I have some things I want to add to your “novel”:smiley::

How fun. Sounds like the social dynamic at work is smashing. I LOVE that you love what you do. We’re one in the same, here. I do lots of hands on customer service and I just can’t get enough of it. Being in rapport with people and helping them out and playing with them truly feels like my forte, and it sounds like you’re the same way.

Even though you’ve got a killer dynamic at work going on, I would love to see how maybe Instant Honesty, Instant Openness or Instant Shine steers the atmosphere.

Jas recommends:

  • Instant Sexiness Mix B
  • Instant Shine
    … to take the “edge” off.

Oooooh. You got that right. A man with a leather jacket on: Unmistakably sexy smelling.

If ever you have ANY questions, whether they’re focused on which are best for you or what to do when you get them, I am so easy to get a hold of. Just give us a call and we’ll talk you through everything! 800 671 6464.

Hi there! You sound like good people, KathyG. You’re in good hands with Lor and Jasmin and all of folks here… a vast pool of expertise.

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Something to help me feel playful and upbeat with a bit of sassy sex appeal. And for quiter times a sensual alure.

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Hello KathyG, welcome to the forum! http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/sign0016.gifI am with Lor on this one, I think Instant Sexiness Mix A would be perfect for you. Mix A has TAL in it which has a more confident, strong appeal to it. Mix B has TAH in it, which wil definitely give you a softer, kittenish vibe. I would recommend buying the 5mcg per spray dosage of TAH seperately from the Instant Sexiness Mix A to wear in addition to it for that softer sensual allure that you are looking for at home with your husband.

I would also suggest Instant Shine for work and at home. You will definitely feel more playful and upbeat while wearing it

Thank Yalll, so much for the recomendations. I will start off with your suggestions and let you know what is working for me.I could think of nothing all day at work yesterday. I am excidely awaiting my order.

I went to a Christmas party last night and felt like a wall flower till a few Gin and tonic which I will pay for later but was a great party. I kept wondering what instant shine or liquid sunshine would have done to help out. I have a hard time reaching out to people in situations like that, I wish I had the same attitude as at work.

I will keep you posted. I believe this is something that will work for me. I have always thought there was something out there to help balance me. After reading posts I am sure I ended up in the right place. Again thanks for the support.